Am I spoiled?

Question

My dad says that I am spoiled. And I truly feel bad. I mean, my parents buy me things and I loose them and half to buy a new one. I mean I don't mean to, but you know it happens. They also say that I have no consept for money, and I would really like to make it up to them and prove that I am not a spoiled child!!!!!!!!Can you please help me!

Answer 1

take better care of your stuff. if you cant you can obviously live without whatever you neglected to care for.

Answer 2

Best way to prove this is to start earning your income. Either do chores for your parents for allowance or go and get a job. That would prove that you are committed to learning the value of the dollar and once you are buying your own things I promise you won't lose them so much.

Answer 3

If you really want to prove yourself you need to get a job and earn your own money and buy your own things. I tell you what if you had to buy those things that you lose, I guarantee you would not lose them anymore.

Also it sounds to me like your father is to blame for the way you are, you do sound spoiled but it's your fathers fault. He is the one who is buying you new things when you lose them. Children learn from their parents and that is the way he has taught you to live.

Answer 4

Stop loosing stuff. Make an extra effort to keep track of your things. Also, start earning money and buying some of your own things. You likely have very little concept of money, so you should learn.

Good luck.

Answer 5

your parents are trippen' my parents buy me nothing but when I loose something I bought (happens all the time) they'll be the one who buys me the second one no complaint and I wouldn't call it spoiled I'd call it Lucky spoiled means that your parents buy you anything you want and if you want a specific item they'll go around the whole state to find it!
Minnesota.girl

Answer 6

I can see both sides to this one. From your parents point of view, they buy you something, you lose it and all they can see is that you placed no value on the item and they have to pay the money out again.

So what you have to do is prove them wrong. You need to take responsibility for the items and not lose them.

Answer 7

i'm the only woman having 2 older brothers. so particular I have been given spoiled via each physique. And on party my mothers and fathers nonetheless wreck me (and my infants) My husband spoils me.. yet now that i'm a grownup i will wreck back(my mothers and fathers and husband extremely) i like it!

Answer 8

just show them that you really appreciate the things they do for you and for the things they buy you.. try picking up a few chores around the house.. or maybe buying them something for a change.or the best thing, dont ask for anything for awhile..

Answer 9

I think they should stop buying you things and invest in some more schooling.

have-not half
concept-not consept

Start working harder at school, and start helping out more at home. That will show them that you appreciate them. Also, don't give them attitude, and give them more hugs

Answer 10

Depends......how old are you?? If your super young then you are still learning. If your 16 or older BE MORE RESPONSIBLE........my daughter loses crap all the time (13) ........she doesn'tt get another one unless she buys it herself. She does chores and gets $ for grades (A's only). The truth is if ya don't learn hoe to take care of things and learn financial awareness adulthood's gonna suck..........good luck!!............what position do you play VB??

Answer 11

Ask them to teach you about money.

When you lose something- you go with out it, you need to teach yourself that. Stop asking for money, go mow the lawn then ask for money, take out the trash, and do the dishes then ask for cash. And don't expect $20 for the lawn, expect $5, clean dishes $2.

Teach yourself with their help