Family & Relationships - 22 June 2007

with their wives/husbands after they left the marriage cos they lost their love and trust for each and have no intention for reconciliation? In my case, I know that he wants to use me for something but, I'm not letting on to him that I know this. I'm interested to know of any other reasons for this to happen. Thanks.

2007-06-22 10:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by BFCP 3 in Marriage & Divorce

the black guy was also a skilled lover and after the experience, she couldnt stand to look at her hubby again. she found him disgusting and became obsessed with the black guy and was begging the black guy to marry her. anyway cut long story short, she killed her husband to be with the black guy. THIS IS A TRUE STORY. I JUST SAW IT NOW ON A TV SHOW ON THE OXYGEN CHANNEL CALLED SNAPPED. so the question is are people who swing putting their relationship on the line if one of the partners experience a better lover?

2007-06-22 10:41:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

However, we are both separated and have lived together. His wife won't give him a divorce unless it is on the grounds of adultery. Is there no other way?

2007-06-22 10:39:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a guy, I like to watch porn. I'm not religious and I am single. Is porn ok in moderation? Can it harm me? How much is too much?

2007-06-22 10:36:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am soooo confused i dated 4 boys already and they all turned out like **** except this one guy but i wasn't really into him like that soo i broke up with him and he's my friends friend from another school and my mom and dad found out i was talking to him and took away my phone, locked the door on the computer, and i can't go places anymore i mean my god i mean she heard these voicemails he sent me telling me he loves me and stuff and i got my friend, him, and myslef in some huge ****....i just wish my parents can understand or i can actually have a boyfriend they would love and like and who would treat me right cause my past boyfriend beat me up twice and sent me 2 the hospital twice...i just think im going to give up on love and im 14....

2007-06-22 10:36:01 · 10 answers · asked by nyzfynestshortiiee 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the exact model that i going to take me to the registry office next year to get married.

I personally think it is subtly classy.

What do you think?

http://www.auto123.com/ArtImages/14271/01.jpg

2007-06-22 10:33:58 · 25 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

I'm married and we have no real problems at all. I just have been talking to another lady for the last couple of year (becuase we work together) and through those conversations I've noticed a void in my feelings for my own wife. It confuses me since we never have any overt issues and when i do try and discuss my needs with my wife she just doesn't seem to get. I have not had any thing physically happen with anyone else and would never let it come to that, but i almost feel like that my wife has become more like my sister??? Not Sure what to do with all this...

2007-06-22 10:33:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-22 10:31:29 · 31 answers · asked by abbs 3 in Singles & Dating

I live in Dallas with my husband and 2 children. I have no blood relatives here but all of my in-laws live in the area. My husband works 2 jobs in order for me to be a stay-at-home mother. His family doesn't like that idea but I babysit their baby for free. Recently, they've moved out of their home in order to save money and are going to rent the home to us. My mom says they have the perfect situation....free babysitting and a house sitter (cause we're paying the mortgage). I have no relationship with them outside of being a babysitter. Am I being taken advantage of or is this just what family should do for one another?

2007-06-22 10:30:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If i change my hair color shes always saying *why can't u be yourself?* or change my style...mind anything i change. I like change. I change my room 2 a month (like move the bed and dresser.) She can't give me 10$ for the movie but gives my 27 year old brother 500$ for his rent at his own appartment. She bought him all his stuff for his appartment....and my sister always uses the car...read this...
Me-Marianne should really get a car
Mom-this doesn't affect u.
Me-Yes...we we're suppose to go but Marianne get's UR CAR
Mom- thats it its MY CAR don't tell me how to run my life
((marianne=sister)). Shes always telling me to calm down and stop acting weird when im with my friends..and thats the real me...i can't be *me* without her critizing me. This is what i always tell my friends.
Could she act like she cares for one moment.
my dad is the best...but he travels..and when he's not here..i'm so left our between my mom,
Mom-52 divorsed 1 time 5 kids. Sister-26 1 kid. Me-13 0 kids.

2007-06-22 10:30:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i love this one girl named cindy and i went to my friends party and got with one girl named geselle and i found out that cindy is moving to another school and now im not so sure i want to be in a realationship. cindy and i had every thing in common but never asked her out because im not sure she feels the same and dont want to ruin our freindship but geselle and I have lttle in common but she asked me to be her boyfriend and said I yes . but now i feel i should go single and try to find some one like cindy because thats what i want but im afraid if i brake up with geselle that i might hurt her feelings and we only been together 2 days and already feel no conection with her. so what should i do give her a chance or break - up and re look at my options and do whatever i want . im only 14 now i just dont feel like being in a relationship. Now that old saying comes to mind "you will only miss something when its gone".

2007-06-22 10:29:27 · 4 answers · asked by iloveryansheckler 2 in Singles & Dating

I moved to a new office to work there where I found my friend working and I also find a girl what I think it's most sweet heart I ever meet, I was planning to asking her out but I kept waiting until I make her admiring me but my friend ask her out, and now she's become my best friend but also to now she still the girl I always want.. now I don't know what to do , do I be jerk and betray my friend I only know him from nine month why not? ..But I also don't want to do that I'm so confuse.. What I have to do?

2007-06-22 10:28:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Church Announcements
First of all, the Pastor would like to thank all of you who paid your
tithes last week. With the high price of gas - every little bit
helps.
And he wanted us to mention that if you write a check, please make
sure
that it does not bounce. He said that you are still encouraged to pay
your tithes, and God only wants 10%, but if your check bounces we
gone
take 25%.

The usher board has asked those frequent shouters who routinely pass
out on the altar to please wear clean underwear. Let your praise be
holy, NOT your draws.

Also, if you are one of the people who get tapped on your shoulder
Sunday morning, make sure you pick up your Altoids at the hospitality
desk before entering the sanctuary. Saints, lets not let our breath
hinder our neighbor's praise.
Special Note:
We would like to apologize for those who came
out to the Youth Explosion Conference last night. The youth choir's
remix of Shake that Laffy Taffy was totally unexpected. The youth
director has been reprimanded and will issue a formal apology Sunday
&nb sp;
morning. Also, for those who witnessed Mother Green getting up and
doing the Laffy Taffy dance, and are concerned, she is doing fine.
She
is in Methodist North recovering well.
Saints, don't forget about the Chitlin dinner on Monday. If you
haven't
already placed your order, call the church office. And for those who
are a little skeptical after the last Chitlin dinner, please feel at
ease knowing that Pastor Happy has prayed over the Chitlins and no
one
from the Drug Rehab Ministry was involved in the preparation this
time.
Please Govern Yourselves Accordingly
This is the last announcement:
Pastor has requested that all "dark-skinneded" members sit in the
light
during night service.
Last Wednesday night, he heard voices in the dark and thought they
was
demons.


Kevin
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2007-06-22 10:28:45 · 7 answers · asked by lovesshawnmichelle 3 in Family

Uhm Okay. i am a very preppy girl. But i like emos boys..is that wrong for me to like them?!!!! They are so hawt in everything..But i cant seem to find any emo guys that live herewhere i live at.

2007-06-22 10:26:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does it hurt and was it on the first night very special? Im not trying to be pervertated or anything but I know next year when it comes to sex ed we have to write this essay honestly that involves stuff like this. So Im gonna write it over the summer instead!

2007-06-22 10:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

I am planning my wedding but I don't have a wedding ring yet. It's already picked out, we just haven't brought it home yet. I never made an official, "I am engaged" announcement. My mom just suggested I start planning the wedding and I went along with it. Does being engaged mean having an engagement ring specifically? I am engaged or just getting married?

2007-06-22 10:23:28 · 30 answers · asked by LA 2 in Weddings

What ever works for you.
One month
Three months
Six months
One year
two years

2007-06-22 10:21:19 · 32 answers · asked by Jazzy Faye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

SATAN'S MEETING:

Satan called a worldwide convention of demons. In
his opening address he said,

"We can't keep Christians from going to church."

"We can't keep them from reading their Bibles and knowing the truth."


"We can't even keep them from forming an intimate
relationship with their saviour."

"Once they gain that connection with Jesus, our
power over them is broken."

"So let them go to their churches; let them have
their covered dish dinners BUT steal their time, so
they don't have time to develop a relationship with
Jesus Christ.."

"This is what I want you to do," said the devil:

"Distract them from gaining hold of their Saviour
and maintaining that vital connection throughout
their day!"

"How shall we do this?" his demons shouted.

"Keep them busy in the non-essentials of life and
invent innumerable schemes to occupy their minds,"
he answered.

"Tempt them to spend, spend, spend, and borrow,
borrow, borrow."

"Persuade the wives to go to work for long hours and
the husbands to work 6-7 days each week, 10-12 hours
a day, so they can afford their empty lifestyles."

"Keep them from spending time with their children."

"As their families fragment, soon, their homes will
offer no escape from the pressures of work!"

"Over-stimulate their minds so that they cannot hear
that still, small voice."

"Entice them to play the radio or cassette player
whenever they drive."

To keep the TV, VCR, CDs and their PCs going
constantly in their home and see to it that every
store and restaurant in the world plays non-biblical
music constantly."

"This will jam their minds and break that union with
Christ."

"Fill the coffee tables with magazines and
newspapers."

"Pound their minds with the news 24 hours a day."

"Invade their driving moments with billboards."

"Flood their mailboxes with junk mail, mail order
catalogs, sweepstakes, and every kind of newsletter
and promotional offering free products, services and
false hopes.."

"Keep skinny, beautiful models on the magazines and
TV so their husbands will believe that outward
beauty is what's important, and they'll become
dissatisfied with their wives. "

"Keep the wives too tired to love their husbands at
night."

"Give them headaches too! "

"If they don't give their husbands the love they
need, they will begin to look elsewhere."

"That will fragment their families quickly!"

"Give them Santa Claus to distract them from
teaching their children the real meaning of
Christmas."

"Give them an Easter bunny so they won't talk about
his resurrection and power over sin and death."

"Even in their recreation, let them be excessive."

"Have them return from their recreation exhausted."

"Keep them too busy to go out in nature and reflect
on God's creation.

Send them to amusement parks, sporting events,
plays, concerts, and movies instead."

"Keep them busy, busy, busy!"

"And when they meet for spiritual fellowship,
involve them in gossip and small talk so that they
leave with troubled consciences."

"Crowd their lives with so many good causes they
have no time to seek power from Jesus."

"Soon they will be working in their own strength,
sacrificing their health and family for the good of
the cause."

"It will work!"

"It will work!"

It was quite a plan!

The demons went eagerly to their assignments causing
Christians everywhere to get busier and more rushed,
going here and there.

Having little time for their God or their families.
Having no time to tell others about the power of
Jesus to change lives.

I guess the question is, has the devil been
successful in his schemes?

You be the judge!!!!!

Does "BUSY" mean: B-eing U-nder S-atan's Y-oke?

Please pass this on, if you aren't too BUSY!

I don't think I know 10 people who would admit they
love Jesus.

Do You Love Him?

IF YOU LOVE JESUS, PASS THIS ON!!!!!!!

Judy E. Smith - HR Assistant
SUPERVALU Distribution Center

2007-06-22 10:18:09 · 3 answers · asked by lovesshawnmichelle 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am having my ceremony at a beautiful park but it is going to be in november do you think the weather will be okay or how will it be???

2007-06-22 10:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by LoveBug 2 in Weddings

i think i am ready but idk if my parents will let me

2007-06-22 10:16:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need 350 invites, but i want something nice and unique but affordable.

2007-06-22 10:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by ngeneri 1 in Weddings

...and i'm her maid of honor. i want to prepare a speech but don't exactly know what the typical speech includes. i want to be prepared and not but get up there and ramble but have no idea what to say! any suggestions? thanks! =)

2007-06-22 10:15:04 · 7 answers · asked by kmkey7 2 in Weddings

who just turns out to be a girl. i follow all of their rules they have no reason not to trust me. all i'd be doing is chilling with her. how do you convince them i'm not going to anything and to just give me a chance?!

2007-06-22 10:14:23 · 9 answers · asked by joe 2 in Friends

what would an ugly guy have to do to turn on a hott girl

2007-06-22 10:13:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u see im a virgin and shes experienced. She only has had 1 partner as she got into an arranged marriage. I have resisted and not slept with anyone. She has kissed me on my neck, stroked my hair and slighly touched my breasts. She called me her sweetheart after she kissed me on the neck. Do you think she would want me if she knew i was a virgin?

we are both muslims and virginity usually is a big thing, but shes married so doesnt matter.

thank u

2007-06-22 10:12:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-22 10:12:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend [of 16 years] who has been with this guy for 9 years they have been married for the past 2. He has used Meth since the year [about] 2001 and she has said she will leave and then he cleans up for a week and they are "happy" again. this has gone on for 6 years. I don't deal with it anymore, because it makes me mad that she stays. BUT she volunteers for it and is stupid for doing so. Like 3 weeks ago he didnt come home for 2 days and she moved her stuff out and wanted me to help [i wouldnt because i KNEW it would be poinless and told her that] well 3 days later they were back together and i yelled at her. And she said "every relationship has problems" is this a "NORMAL relationship" problem?

I don't get why she put up with this crap. I dont even wanna talk to her anymore.

2007-06-22 10:11:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Girl at the coffee shop I go to every morning has been seriously eyeing me, flirting lightly and going out of her way to find out and say my name now. She really beautiful and I like her, but she has a wedding ring on. I know sometimes beautiful, single women in public jobs do this to keep guys off of them.

So, what's a respectful, friendly way to ask about her "marriage status" without things being awkward?

(*note: our conversations are always brief and never deep)

2007-06-22 10:11:24 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Girl on top: i dont know how :[ everyway i try i cant go very long cuz it hurts :[ how should i do it? how should i put my feet? i need details. lmao. i feel so bad cuz he always has to do all the work. email me if you want. idk. if you dont have help for that, just give me any good sexual ideas to stop us from getting bored with eachother from doing the same things over and over again, please? :[

2007-06-22 10:10:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All my male friends seem skeptical about my boyfriends proposal. They say its because he either feels guilty about something, or he wants to test my level of commitment. These friends of mine have not met my boyfriend, nor have they ever talked to him so its not like they have inside info.

Why are they so skeptical?

2007-06-22 10:10:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce