Family & Relationships - 22 June 2007

2007-06-22 09:36:54 · 26 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2 in Singles & Dating

My Ex & I split up last year. My son is 16 and decided to stay with him. he was supposed to come here and stay with me until July 1, but suddenly he wants to go home. (His half-brother moved in while he was here) I asked him if that was the reson he said no. he will not give me a good reason and i do not undertand. I am putting him on the bus in the Morning. I am not even over the heartbreak of losing him & his Dad and now this. Even My mother says she is sick of me crying, but I have not cried but once in the 10 days he has been here. What do I do? I am trying to not let it bother me but it is so hard to go on.

2007-06-22 09:35:23 · 11 answers · asked by exslidergirl 4 in Family

I dont think it is healthy in a relationship & it makes me ill. Is it just, my problem or is it a real problem?

2007-06-22 09:35:17 · 42 answers · asked by Leggs 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am several weeks pregnant from a person I had a short relationship with. I was going to have an abortion but could not follow through with it. I pondered the idea of never telling him I decided to have the child. Last night I left a message for him, telling him the truth. We ended up having a brief conversation about the situation. I made it clear I have no expectations of him but I thought he deserved to know the truth. He asked me if I would consider allowing him to raise the child (We live 1100 miles apart) I said I would doubt that. Our conversation ended with him stating he needed to consult with his lawyer. Our relationship did not end because of the pregnancy. He claims on his end it is because of how I deal with my ex and my children. Little does he know, I saw how the mouse plays when the cats away. Any advise from anyone is greatly appreciated.

2007-06-22 09:32:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok. So Im dating this guy. He is 19 about to turn 20 in August. Im 15 turning 16 in July. Tell me, is this wrong? My parents were totally against it at first but now they really like the guy. Aaron never tries anything, and is a hard working boy. Hes made his own money his whole life and is basically a good ole plow boy. What im worried about is does this make me seem bad? I really like him, we get along amazing. But Im really worried of what people may think. My friends know about him, just not his age. We just recently started dating so its not like we are in love or anything. Im just worried of what other people will think of me, cause Im weird like that! Haha! Any tips? Thanks so much!

2007-06-22 09:31:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am staying with him/her and he/she asked me to marry him/her. I said yes. Does that make me lesbian, straight, or bi? NO THIS IS NOT A JOKE!

2007-06-22 09:30:09 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is a good favor to give to your wedding guests?? I was thinking maybe Christmas ornaments but I thin someone else did that so I don't want to copy? This is not for me, for a friend I am helping?? Also what would you give the out of towners especially when they first check in to the hotel??

2007-06-22 09:28:50 · 11 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

If you are christian and interested go to www.plentyoffish.com there are my profile and pictures and I`m a desperate man in search of this special someone can you Help ???? sadly I live in London UK but I would go to any city to live in Canada ok .God Bless Renier

2007-06-22 09:28:48 · 4 answers · asked by sinner so what ? 4 in Singles & Dating

I am getting emails, with my husbands (" Mark, we saw you were at our site. *** see us play" types) name in them in an account we share. He does not know where they came from. Our computer is about 6 mths new, Do these emails mean he has been visiting these sites?? How do these sites get our email address AND his first name?? I dont want to jump to conclusions...
SOMEONE STRAIGHTEN THIS OUT FOR ME!!!

2007-06-22 09:28:32 · 11 answers · asked by SpecialKel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's job may be sending him out of the country...for good. He was offered a job in Mexico. He was born there so he kind of has an idea of what to expect. I have only visited for vacation, so I can only imagine. I hate to think about leaving everything behind, it scares me to think I will have to start over in a new country and with complete strangers. I don't know if I can follow him, but if I do could it be that maybe it's my destiny. That maybe something better is waiting for me over there? What would you do? Follow or separate?

2007-06-22 09:27:15 · 11 answers · asked by Scorpio Chika 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to find my dad. i tried to use dex.com but I'm not getting any results. someone please help me

2007-06-22 09:27:11 · 3 answers · asked by poohbear 2 in Family

2007-06-22 09:26:00 · 13 answers · asked by M 2 in Family

2007-06-22 09:24:20 · 22 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you get a guy interseted in writing back via email sometimes?

2007-06-22 09:23:06 · 2 answers · asked by labohemianartist 4 in Singles & Dating

here's how it goes. everytime i like a girl, and take the risk to ask her out. she says no. i think a girl likes me, but then they just say no. is there anyting i can do?

2007-06-22 09:20:20 · 9 answers · asked by Grilled cheese lover 2 in Singles & Dating

This happened before we were married. I should've asked her to stop telling me about her sexual past way back then. We obviously have many, many other marital problems but I cannot get over this issue. My wife is gorgeous...I mean supermodel Heidi Klum fine...and I had never even TALKED, much less dated, such a hottie. She is also one of the very best people I know. I trust her immesely. Still, we have a marriage on the rocks. No, I'm not a horse down there but not a toad either. Yes, I have just begun therapy.

2007-06-22 09:18:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok my mom cheated on my dad about 9 or 10 years ago...& ive lived wit my dad 4 bout 7 to 8 years...shes never sent a dime 2 me she doesnt even care...she says she loves me & i say i hate her[not 2 her face]she says she cares but never calls on hollidays or my b-day...shes missed out on everything

2007-06-22 09:17:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK- My husband and I are 22 and just got married in February. We grew up down the block from each other and I am very close with his parents, I love them like they were my own (my husband is a Marine and for the time we were dating and unmarried- he was all over the country but I still did every family function with his family, including sleeping over the house occasionally) Unfortunately we are now stationed in HAWAII -they are in NJ. We can not fly them out here, we can not go home for the anniversary or throw them a party (which i will be doing for 30 so we'll be home). My 17yr old BIL is still at home with them, so i can collect some photos but not much - he would have to ask for them and it would be obvious. So please, i need material ideas for gifts for them. They are pretty cookie cutter 100% IRISH, white picket fence, american flag proudly displayed outside the house, 50yrs old suburban people. (just got them a USMC throw for christmas.. so no blanket) THANK YOU!

2007-06-22 09:17:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I kinda kissed his (married) brother. I love my husband very much. I do not know how I let it happen. He repects his brother very much. Everything is as it it never happened. I do not want to ruin the relationship they have. I know. I am a bad person. What should I do????

2007-06-22 09:17:22 · 45 answers · asked by ♥ Nance ♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

whe i meet him he told me he was single (no kids) & i believed him.. last year i found out about his girl.. when i meet him he had a girl pregnant ( i never knew) last year she moved in with him. To make the story short i talked to her & she told me she didnt care if he was w/me that she would never leave him.she told me she has been with him for 5yrs. She has a son now about 11/2-2yrs.. they live together & still knows i was seeing him & acts like we are not!! (currently ive stop seeing him) im trying my best to forget about him.. NO one likes her.. (His family) his sis like me & they always call me. (when they found out about me they were actually happy) all his friends know about me!! He treats her like crap (everyone tells me,,, friends, sis & brother) but the more this girl (baby momma) competes against me it makes me want him) sumtimes i just get mad at myself for just even talking to him on the phone i hate him just for beeing an assh*** I even tell him 2 leave me alone &he wont

2007-06-22 09:16:45 · 3 answers · asked by HIZPANICBABE 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 09:16:23 · 9 answers · asked by JC 2 in Weddings

like typical "wife next door" women? I'm 20 but I've felt this way for a long time.

2007-06-22 09:15:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have a home office. He has his own desk and I have mine. He is constantly trowing my papers and other things away that he "thinks" is trash. I am in a constant battle with him about the fact that it is MY desk and not his. MY desk is MY responsibility and HIS is HIS responsibility. He says when he sees what he thinks is trash that he will throw it away off my desk. He has thrown away keepsakes , mail and other things he deems is trash. I don't think he has any respect for my only bit of personal space in my house. What do you all out there think?

A.) Should he leave my stuff on my desk alone reguardless of what he thinks it is?

B.) Should I be leaniant?

What would you do in my situation?

2007-06-22 09:15:28 · 35 answers · asked by Rachael T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-22 09:14:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married to my wonderful husband for one year, and he is the only person I have ever had sex with...great sex...we are really happy in our marriage and neither of us would ever cheat on each other but every now and then I have urges to have sex with other men, like my ex or my manager at work, anybody. I don't, of course, and could never see myself doing a thing like that, but I just want to. I guess I wanna be bad and get away with things, be sneaky...I don't know why...is this normal? I don't know why I have these urges.

2007-06-22 09:13:19 · 16 answers · asked by Loola 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't want to ruin my job.

2007-06-22 09:12:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

coz she was a muslim girl and that you couldn't have her coz she can't get married to a guy from another religion? And if she wanted to, then he would have to convert to Islam. What would you do for real, true love? what would happen? would you accept you couldn't have her and move on or would you not let her go without a fight emotionally coz SHE IS THE ONE!

2007-06-22 09:12:09 · 5 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been seperated now for over 4 years and I have no idea where my husband lives or works. Someone advised me you can get an automatic divorce after 5 years, anyone know if this is true.

2007-06-22 09:11:46 · 20 answers · asked by Bev P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it just always seems like he is no where near the mood and always has an excuse like he is too tired or not feeling good or too sore from a long day or too stressed . its not like he is making it up but its every day that something like that is wrong and he cant have sex "right now" . well im getting really sick that it is never "right now" and i dont know what to do. i have tried to tell him how i feel multiple times and i just dont know what else to do. i would think that he would want to have sex to rejuvenate or whatever and feel better buy thats not the case for him. I AM SO FRUSTRATED what do i do?

2007-06-22 09:11:35 · 20 answers · asked by kRISTIN 1 in Singles & Dating

especially after breaking up following a long-term relationship, or a divorce/separation after marriage is over? Or if you have never been in a long-term relationship -- what are the upsides to being single?

I can think of a few, here's a couple I'll share with you: I have the whole bed to myself now, except when the kids jump in to be next to me! & I have one less meal to buy at Burger King now, so I'm saving money! You get the idea, etc. Let me hear yours.

2007-06-22 09:11:02 · 6 answers · asked by Andy K 6 in Singles & Dating