whe i meet him he told me he was single (no kids) & i believed him.. last year i found out about his girl.. when i meet him he had a girl pregnant ( i never knew) last year she moved in with him. To make the story short i talked to her & she told me she didnt care if he was w/me that she would never leave him.she told me she has been with him for 5yrs. She has a son now about 11/2-2yrs.. they live together & still knows i was seeing him & acts like we are not!! (currently ive stop seeing him) im trying my best to forget about him.. NO one likes her.. (His family) his sis like me & they always call me. (when they found out about me they were actually happy) all his friends know about me!! He treats her like crap (everyone tells me,,, friends, sis & brother) but the more this girl (baby momma) competes against me it makes me want him) sumtimes i just get mad at myself for just even talking to him on the phone i hate him just for beeing an assh*** I even tell him 2 leave me alone &he wont
2007-06-22 09:16:45 · 3 answers · asked by HIZPANICBABE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my question is how can i forget about him? what should i do? ive tried seeing other guys & i always run back.. & he will never be out of my life unless I LET GO!! i always leave but come back or call him..(HE IS ALWAYS THERE)HIs girl is the one that makes me want him even more because she laughs & says he will never leave her & in reality i am prettier i have a job I have a car & my own place! she is ugly dosent drive & lives w/him because shes tooo lazy to work!! she competes & it just makes me pist!! its pretty stupid of me but yeah i dont want to pleasure her neither!!!!
2007-06-22 10:10:49 · update #1
Change your number, block his email, and don't make your available to him anymore. I know it'll take time to get the feelings away, we can't just "forget" the person, but occupy your time with something else.
2007-06-22 09:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by thisisme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things.
1. What is your question?
2. The other woman is completely irrelevant to your problem. Even if she was out of the picture, why would you want this manipulating jerk? Stop talking to this guy. He's a loser. He's using you (and her). You are better off without him. When he calls, hang up on him. When he shows up at your place, close the door in his face. Don't read his emails or texts. Don't respond to any of his attempts to contact you. If he keeps bugging you, call the cops and report him for stalking you. You do these things, and he'll leave you alone. The sooner you get this guy out of your life completely, the sooner you can go out, have some fun, keep yourself busy, and get over him. Then you can find a guy that will treat you right.
Good luck!
2007-06-22 16:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying...."If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you"....well it's true. When I was 18 I dated a guy who left his current girlfriend for me. I thought it was just because she didn't know how to make him happy (yeah...naive I know) but later when our relationship was close to over...he was always talking to a new girl and they were "just friends". I learned that lesson the hard way. DUMP HIM and don't look back!!!
2007-06-22 16:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋