Ok. So Im dating this guy. He is 19 about to turn 20 in August. Im 15 turning 16 in July. Tell me, is this wrong? My parents were totally against it at first but now they really like the guy. Aaron never tries anything, and is a hard working boy. Hes made his own money his whole life and is basically a good ole plow boy. What im worried about is does this make me seem bad? I really like him, we get along amazing. But Im really worried of what people may think. My friends know about him, just not his age. We just recently started dating so its not like we are in love or anything. Im just worried of what other people will think of me, cause Im weird like that! Haha! Any tips? Thanks so much!
2007-06-22 09:31:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont plan on making any life changing decisions till I graduate high school. No weddings, children, or sex for me. Im 100% virgin and will be. So I dont plan on any life changing events happening. Hehe.
2007-06-22 09:40:22 · update #1
The two of you are just fine,now I would have to say DEMI MOORE and ASHTON whatever. Now that's way to much a an age difference and one day he will feel it. they both will but you and your are fine. Good Luck to you and you seem like a smart young lady so God Bless your life always!
2007-06-22 09:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by SecretUser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years is not to much difference when you are a little older , but at 16 and him being 20 is a little off base. When you get 19 and he is 23 years that sounds better. Why because you are able to make up your own mind about sex, but 16 they can get him for statutory rape. I believe I'd wait a little longer before I have sex with him.
2007-06-22 09:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years difference is fine, don't worry what other people will think, but do remember you are still underage and should not be making final decisions about the rest of your life. My suggestion is you stay his girlfriend until you become of age to make those decisions, and ask if he is willing to wait.
2007-06-22 09:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this guy at all, break it off. There is a chance he could get in serious trouble and wind up in jail if word gets out. When you're 18, he's 100% fair game.
2007-06-22 09:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, to me a big age difference is 10 yrs and older, my ex was 4 1/2 yrs older than me....I think you will be ok!
good luck with your relationship
2007-06-22 09:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by LuvnMeAlwayz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him = good, if you would like to have plans with him in the future = better, if your parents aprove him and like the way he lives = good too. Just enjoy your life, looks he ios a keeper, just keep focus in your plans and maybe you have your prince ahead of time. Just be happy.
2007-06-22 09:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by cronos93291 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a kid and one stupid mistake can take away your ability to be a kid cherish it as much as possible. if your are just dating and theres no hanky panky then you are just like friends and you can have older friends but once you start doing the hanky panky then it becomes wrong.
ask him one question if you could be friends until you are 18 and if he says no then he is not the one.
2007-06-22 09:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by tasha m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until you both are legal adults, the age gap is a little too much. wait a couple years
2007-06-22 09:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by Christina V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problems won't happen until he turns 21..once you can't go out with him on the weekends it might turn your relationship south.
2007-06-22 09:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋