I am soooo confused i dated 4 boys already and they all turned out like **** except this one guy but i wasn't really into him like that soo i broke up with him and he's my friends friend from another school and my mom and dad found out i was talking to him and took away my phone, locked the door on the computer, and i can't go places anymore i mean my god i mean she heard these voicemails he sent me telling me he loves me and stuff and i got my friend, him, and myslef in some huge ****....i just wish my parents can understand or i can actually have a boyfriend they would love and like and who would treat me right cause my past boyfriend beat me up twice and sent me 2 the hospital twice...i just think im going to give up on love and im 14....
2007-06-22 10:36:01 · 10 answers · asked by nyzfynestshortiiee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and on top of it my ex bf imed me and said he loves me and then i said idk if i love him cause everytime i talk to him on the phone he wants me to moan for him and i know i don't feel comfortable and he made it such a big deal saying maybe if i pleased him once then he would get it out of his system and stuff he made moaning on the phone to him such a big deal...
2007-06-22 10:40:51 · update #1
Girl,
You need to Take a break from dating period. You have gone though things that people older than you have never gone through.
Your Parents are right you need to take a break from the dating scene for a while so that you know what you want and what you don't want in the future.
Good Luck!
2007-06-22 10:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already been served then there is nothing to do but keep your court date. The good news is that if you only had a verbal agreement then thet will have a tough time proving that you owe them anything at all. The most damning evidence they will have will be any records of you paying them from your account on a regular basis in the past. Hopefully, most of the rent was paid through your ex's accounts. Find all the records you can on how rent was paid, whether through your bank or his etc. and go over them. Then, simply maintain in court that the rental agreement was made with their son, not you and so you are not responsible for it. You may have to pay something if they can prove that you were the one who paid it regularly before. MOST IMPORTANTLT: Do not contact his parents. Don't send e-mails or messages or anything. They can use this against you in court. I hope things work out for you and I hope I helped.
2016-05-17 22:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by sherlyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure you can give up on love, when you've never really experienced it. You need to look yourself in the eye and talk it out. This moron that wants you to moan on the phone should be at the curb. People who really care about each other do not use physical violence, and do not expect phone sex from a 14 year old ex girlfriend. Tell him to do his own moaning, and quit taking his calls and IM's. You need a break from bad relationships and stop dogging your parents for doing the right thing. Maybe if you forward his voicemails to his parents he would stop this crap. Good luck.
2007-06-29 19:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!...i think that u r going 4 the bad guys..when i was your age..i used 2 like bad boys 2..but in time i discovered that they mean trouble..one even hit me over the face...
so u should pick good guys ..even though they r a bit boring compared to the others... they will treat u right...and respect u..and they will never make u feel bad....
about the parents..just don't tell them about the guys..for a while..they r worried because u could get hurt again..and they think that by punishing you: no phone/pc/ going out they could protect you
don't give up on love;)
2007-06-22 10:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Ok so first you say you dated 4 boys.
.They all sucked.
.Except 1 but you didn't like him, so you broke it off.
.Now your parents found out, and took your phone etc. away.
.Then you go onto say how you wish they could understand you have a b/f etc etc. So are you back together with that one guy you broke up with? Or did you find another new boy to date?????????????
.Which is it?
.Well maybe some of your past displays of dating haven't been proven very effective huh?
.Maybe your parents aren't being mean or whatever just to be mean...I think it's because they probably know about your dating history, and so they're upset that you keep getting up and falling down again (so to speak) with these boys.
.Do you understand?
.So maybe it's not them you should be upset with.
.I think you should sit down with them and open up and talk to them, because if you shut them out of your life...and keep them out of the loop...then they'll have nothing else better to go off of about you except their suspicions and assumptions.
.*You don't have to tell them every dirty secret or whatever, but you need to at least tell them enough information to help them to understand how you feel and where you're coming from about this topic and this new guy you speak of.
.Also TELL THE DAMN TRUTH. I don't know if your parents know that your ex used to beat you up, and he was responsible for sending you to the hospital twice or whatever, but if they don't know that...then I suggest you fess up now about it and just tell them. Honesty is the best policy.
.And once you tell one lie, you have to keep telling another, and another to cover it up.
........So quit being so down about it, and make things right between you and your parents. Trust me they'd rather hear the "god awful" truth about their little girl...coming from their little girl, then from anyone else. You will put them at ease and make them feel better and they will most likely be able to trust you more if you are up front and truthful about what you're doing and who you're doing it with.
.........take a second. think about it. do it.
.......good luck.
2007-06-22 10:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ONLY 14 .Your parents are ONLY looking out for your BEST interest.They DON'T want you to get beat up again!
You should be thankful that you have loving parents.
2007-06-30 10:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 you are too young to be dating anyway. Focus on your friends, school and hobbies. There will be plenty of time for boyfriends later.
2007-06-22 10:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your parents are doing you a favor because you obviously have no sense. Too bad they didn't do it earlier. Stop whining and thank them.
2007-06-22 10:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
holy smokes :O thats soo wierd. what about e'en attempting to talk to your parents. that may help a lil' bit i mean i can tottaly relate to wat ur ta'lkin about but u should also try tyalk to him and even giving him another chance once ur par'nts understand first. other than that im not much help am i . try your hardest to do ur best . try.
2007-06-22 10:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
PLease, have fun with your girl friends. GUys and confusing and until you know yourself better(late 20's) focus on fun not a relationship.
2007-06-29 07:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by sillylittlemonkee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋