I moved to a new office to work there where I found my friend working and I also find a girl what I think it's most sweet heart I ever meet, I was planning to asking her out but I kept waiting until I make her admiring me but my friend ask her out, and now she's become my best friend but also to now she still the girl I always want.. now I don't know what to do , do I be jerk and betray my friend I only know him from nine month why not? ..But I also don't want to do that I'm so confuse.. What I have to do?
2007-06-22 10:28:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never-------you don't do that to friends !!!!!
2007-06-22 10:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend. Talk to your friend and try to find out his true feelings about this girl. If he is really a friend then you should be able to talk to him. If he ends up really caring for this girl then let it go and at least you would have gotten this stuff off your chest and you'll know what you should do. Another girl will come along eventually. Be happy for your friend if he really is falling for her. DO NOT GO BEHIND HIS BACK!!
2007-06-22 17:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by idgit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most relationships fail (hate to say it, but it's really true) so just hang in there and your best friend will tire of it all, and also, remember, there are SOOOOO many women who would love to date a great guy, so don't limit yourself.
2007-06-22 17:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you are shy.Have a talk to your friend.You will end up losing both as friends if you go the road you are planning.
2007-06-22 17:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I'd reread this an repost it your words aren't easy to understand so I don't get the question.
2007-06-22 17:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oohhh hard one.. tell her how you feel, let her in on the decision on what to do.if they were married that would be different. you can also wait it out. i would see how she feels
2007-06-22 17:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by mytwoboyz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you snooze you loose buddy you waited too long and now she is with some one else tough titties mister
2007-06-22 17:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you missed your chance, wait till they break up.
2007-06-22 17:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by foodtogo2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋