i love this one girl named cindy and i went to my friends party and got with one girl named geselle and i found out that cindy is moving to another school and now im not so sure i want to be in a realationship. cindy and i had every thing in common but never asked her out because im not sure she feels the same and dont want to ruin our freindship but geselle and I have lttle in common but she asked me to be her boyfriend and said I yes . but now i feel i should go single and try to find some one like cindy because thats what i want but im afraid if i brake up with geselle that i might hurt her feelings and we only been together 2 days and already feel no conection with her. so what should i do give her a chance or break - up and re look at my options and do whatever i want . im only 14 now i just dont feel like being in a relationship. Now that old saying comes to mind "you will only miss something when its gone".
2007-06-22 10:29:27 · 4 answers · asked by iloveryansheckler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say that you should break up with her if there is no connection because then its pointless
2007-06-22 10:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by emi b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...U r only 14...u have a long life ahead of you...and highschool is when everything really starts to matter. I'd say that give it a few more days...if it still isn't working...then I would tell her that u don't think u are ready for a rela...but break it to her easy. I can tell you tho that if u go on not liking her and afraid to hurt her feelings...you will be miserable and leading her on. The longer you wait and live a lie the more it will hurt her. Think about her..but think about ur self too. It isn't fair that you have to be sad b/c it's making her happy. I'm sure she'll find someone else to make her happy...there are so many people out there..don't limit yourself to one person especially if u don't think she's right for you. Think about it...
2007-06-29 16:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by Raspberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance remember opposite attracts.
2007-06-30 07:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young have fun and go out with a lot of girls don't get into a relationship
2007-06-29 23:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋