Family & Relationships - 26 April 2007

That the first year of marriage is the worst?

2007-04-26 03:44:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is very stressed out from work and has been under a lot of pressure lately. For last 2 weeks we haven't really talked and I feel like he is being really distant. I feel like something is wrong and it has been upsetting me all week!

If you were dating someone and was in this same situation...would you want your girl to talk to you about it, tell you how she is feeling...or would you rather go to her when you are ready to talk?

Any advise is appreciated!

2007-04-26 03:41:41 · 7 answers · asked by southernbell 2 in Singles & Dating

How long did you date before you told each other you were in love and how long before you married?

2007-04-26 03:41:41 · 9 answers · asked by glbenner 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Say you care a lot about a girl you've been dating. She's intelligent, caring, and has an amazing spirit. She's pretty; and overweight but not fat. Things get intimate and you see her naked for the first time. Her body leaves a little to be desired-- she has stretch marks from adolescence (most of which have faded), a bit too much of a tummy, and cellulite on her thighs (but a great rack, FYI :). She still thinks she is beautiful. She exudes confidence, but not *********.

What do you think-- is she sexy because she is confident and you already care for her? Or are some of these things too difficult to overlook for extremely visual men, even if the relationship is great otherwise?

Rude or inappropriate comments will be flagged.

2007-04-26 03:41:00 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

He is a know-it-all type, and he likes to take control of everything... I mean every big thing, he doesnt care about the small things... He told me his ex-gf told him that he should find someone who can accept that... when we hang out in a pub, if he meets some guy he likes to talk to, he would ignore all my hints to stay there talking and drinking even if I get really wild... He would insist on doing things in his way or no way... and he always considers himself as being fair and treats me equal... I wonder that are there many controlling men? b4 I thought it was sexy and made me feel more like a woman... but sometimes its really hard to tolerate....

2007-04-26 03:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I only had One time of unprotected sex it was with my ex.bf who has a gf but we are having a fling?My last period started about the 11th of april give or take a day or so.Anyway i had unprotected sex yesterday which was the 25 of april. Could i have been fertile?My period usually happens the last week of the month or the first week of the month but occaionally like last month i get it the second week of the month.Some my cycle can vary? I tried getting my doc on the phone but she's out till next week and my local pharmacy says they dont have plan B on hand?Should i call my ex.bf for help?

2007-04-26 03:37:24 · 11 answers · asked by Alyce m 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there an inverse relationship as to the time spent in a relationship and the time spent in recovering from one?

If you have any experiences please share?
What do you think?

2007-04-26 03:36:51 · 1 answers · asked by Jenny f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What explanation can I give to people who knew me as a drinker now that I am sober? I do not want to have to explain the real reason for my sobriety, and I find that people are assuming that I still want to drink and are offering and questioning me. What are some valid reasons for giving up alcohol?

2007-04-26 03:36:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am so darn good looking my own body turns me on.

2007-04-26 03:36:36 · 12 answers · asked by donelle g. 7 in Friends

How do you feel about your husband wanting to hang out at strip joints.

2007-04-26 03:35:04 · 15 answers · asked by Baby Jessica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love making love to my husband, out in the garage, waking him up at 3 am, while fishing, out back in the backyard by the fire, here and there.. he seems to be taken back by my boldness.. Am i being too much of wanting him anywhere? Anytime? When I do this, i get MULTIPLE organisms he knows that but he had to pause and take a breather.. just bed bores me to death! I love adventures!

2007-04-26 03:33:34 · 23 answers · asked by horsehealer09 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Look at Tara Conner's profile page. She has almost 1500 stars and she hasn't asked or answered any questions!! Check out her 'Fans'. Just for being Miss USA?
Please. Why not be a fan of a woman who worked full time, took care of her kids, and all the while was battling cancer? Or a school teacher, or a bus driver, or a cop ,or a fireman, or a doctor,etc..? I am still looking forward to the day when I can
***** slap Paris Hilton for being a completely useless drain on society. Don't give me a reason to be hateful to yet another pointless female-note that I didn't call it a woman. That was on purpose.

2007-04-26 03:32:26 · 10 answers · asked by Michelle P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if my fiance's parents asked me: "would u adapt with our son if asded to live as husband and wife"? pls help am confused and can't understand what this statement indirectly means.

2007-04-26 03:31:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

AS one of the conditions of us staying together she had to break all ties with this person. I have found out that she still talks to him on the phone and has occationally ran into him. She insists that nothing has happened after we got married. More recently this argument has seperated us. I guess the question is am I wrong for not putting up with it.

2007-04-26 03:29:07 · 24 answers · asked by teddy w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You receive an anonymous letter in the mail that's very detailed giving specifc dates and times they were together. Additionally, the letter is sent to your family. What's your reaction?

2007-04-26 03:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by Perplexed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the age that you have to be to get married in New Jersey with your boyfriend and your familys consent.

2007-04-26 03:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by I love You 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-26 03:23:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife is pregnant.i want to divorce with her .her incom is 22.000.000$/year my incom is 18.000.000$/year.how much money i have to give her every month for the bebe after i divorce her.she has a diploma and certeficat that can get a job with 50 .000.000$.

2007-04-26 03:22:40 · 24 answers · asked by abdou sara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been so quiet lately. I ask him if he is okay and he say fine. A couple days later I asked him again, same reply, then asked him if he was tired (he hasn't been sleeping good), he said no, then said that he just didn't feel like talking, do I dropped it. I get home later that night and he was yapping on the phone (this call for 1 1/2hrs). I took a bath and he called someone else to yap (this call almost an hour). I sit down in the livingroom with him and said to him that when he said that he didn't want to talk he must have meant too me, then I asked him if he was mad at me for some reason not known to me, and he jumped at me and said NO! We haven't slept in bed together for 4days, he hasnt told me that he loves me as always, hug me, or kiss me. It is like he doesnt even want to be around me. I haven't done anything to make him mad at me! Do you think that maybe it is me? What can I do? It is tearing me apart that he is obvisously hurting & cant do anything!

2007-04-26 03:21:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I been trying to reach this girl I met by texting and calling her. I called her at different time twice and she never picked up and I text twice as well.

In the second text I told her that I have 2 tickets for the movies and I would like her to join me. I also told her that she has till todays noon to decide. This way if she cannot make I cannot still pass the ticket to one of my friends.

This was her reply:

Don't give me ultimatums . Bitched

Any explanation to this? and why she ended it with Bitched?

2007-04-26 03:20:58 · 15 answers · asked by EDD 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You think that men fall in love or it is just sex for them.

2007-04-26 03:18:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do some people choose not to have it over there face and just drape from the back?

2007-04-26 03:18:35 · 18 answers · asked by jinglebells 2 in Weddings

my wife is pregnant.i want to divorce with her .her incom is 22.000.000$/year my incom is 18.000.000$/year.we will get bebe in 3 month.how much money i have to give her every month for the bebe.

2007-04-26 03:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by abdou sara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi. My husband moved out the first week of April. He said he has emotionally detached & is not in love with me anymore. He said it is because for two years he has felt terrible about himself for the way I have treated him. When we argued, I treated him very poorly - I called him a loser, told him I was not in love with him, & I no longer wanted kids with him. He has lease until the end of May. How do I get him back? I couldn't feel any lower & nothing I say seems to be enough.

2007-04-26 03:16:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am only 18 years old and I am getting married September 28th 2008. Should I be waiting longer or is this the right thing? My parents don't aprove but his do. We have only been dating at the most 2 months. (PLEASE HELP)

2007-04-26 03:14:52 · 39 answers · asked by Kandy 1 in Weddings

2007-04-26 03:13:01 · 25 answers · asked by punkin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-26 03:10:18 · 21 answers · asked by scunnylad1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do I keep having dreams about my crush? So far, I've had 5 with him in it. All of them were different situations and settings but the one thing that was the same was that my crush was in it. Is someone trying to send me a message? Does it mean anything?

2007-04-26 03:09:16 · 15 answers · asked by EM23 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 03:07:40 · 4 answers · asked by nicole h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 02:48:41 · 19 answers · asked by cali34 1 in Marriage & Divorce