Family & Relationships - 26 April 2007

2007-04-26 08:20:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17, and my husband is 18. We just had a little girl a month and a half ago. He doesn't really help, so I told him that I wanted to get on birth control so I dont become pregnant until we're ready next time. He disagreed, and said that I didnt need it. Well yesterday at my 6 week postpartum check up, my dr asked if I wanted birth control. I told her yes I did, and got a new thing called Implanon that is a little "stick" that gets put right under the skin in your arm and is effective for up to 3 years. I can get it taken out sooner if I want kids sooner, but i knew the pills, patch, or shot wouldnt work for me and this is so low maintenence... well anyways, when I got home, my husband wasnt mad, but wasnt happy with me either. should i feel guilty for getting it, or was it really my choice to let us grow up a little more before having any more kids?

2007-04-26 08:19:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and please dont say myspace, there arent too many people over the age of 30 who use it.

this is really important to me, so if you know of any that are absolutely positively free, that would be great help

2007-04-26 08:13:18 · 6 answers · asked by Marisa ♥ 2 in Family

my granddaughter is in her mothers custody. her mother dumps her off on other grandparents, both of which have spent time in prison for drugs.the mother will not let my son even speak to his daughter on the phone. he resides in another state. in the past 3 months i have only been able to speak to my granddaughter a very few times on the phone and have only got to see her for 2.5 hours. the mothers house is filthy, my granddaughter does not get bathes on a regular basis.the mother leaves her constantly with other people.the mother is the most unfit woman i have ever met.the grandfather that my granddaughter is around so much is a possible child molester ,and the divorce states that my granddaughter is never to be left alone with him. what are my rights as a grandparent? how can i help my grandchild?

2007-04-26 08:12:46 · 5 answers · asked by jessie f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm working with a girl that I really am attacted to but she has a boyfriend.

How should I go about coping with this situation?

2007-04-26 08:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by shark 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night, my boyfriend of over a year, whom I live with, took offense to me saying "Stop, please." when I was trying to take some medicine before bed and he grabbed me playfully. So his reponse was "I don't want to be with someone like you. I just want to break up." Two hours later, he denied saying, says he didn't say it... then says he didn't mean to say that. What he meant was that he was mad at me for refusing his sexual advances... He said "You misunderstood me." He does this a lot when drinking. I don't know HOW I could misunderstand that comment and I told him, he does it all the time when he's drunk so this time, I'll take him up on the offer. He says I'm overreacting. What do you think? Why does he say this when he's drunk? Isn't alcohol like a truth serum for most people?

2007-04-26 08:09:23 · 9 answers · asked by brassinpocket 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you communicate with them? this is my stepkids' mom and she totally does things for her own benefit and never once thinks of them. They don't live with her but yet she says we do everything wrong and accuses us of the dumbest things. We must communicate with her because the court says we do and because she's their mom. How do we ever get anything accomplished? She lives in another state.

2007-04-26 08:08:28 · 8 answers · asked by booger0819 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think they even realize it is happening to them? Would you want a friend to point it out to you?

2007-04-26 08:07:44 · 26 answers · asked by Proud Mama of 4 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been sick on an off for the past month with a reoccuring sinus infection. I missed a half day due to it four weeks ago, but toughed it out this time. My boss asked me if I was feeling better and I replied honestly: "Yes but still congested but much improvment". He replied grouchily "You know you don't have to always be sick." There have been some other stresses in the office that haven't been to do with me, so I am thinking its that and not to do with me. Should I take this as a negative?

2007-04-26 08:06:12 · 1 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm changing jobs and will be making $6 less per hour. I want to modify my child support but do not want to get lawyers involved. What is the process?

2007-04-26 08:04:46 · 2 answers · asked by Michael W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-26 08:00:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I live next to a very attractive French woman.

We enjoy her company very much. My Korean girlfriend has been over a few times when the wife is out of town, and she isn't as fond of her. Maybe it's the whole foreign thing. Who knows.

Anyway, sometimes I'll get up at 2 or 3 am and walk over to our neighbors house and try the door. I haven't gotten it to open yet, but every time I'm hopefull.

My Korean girlfriend says this is dangerous. I don't think it's that big of a deal. What do you think?

It's not fair that I'm always under this much stress.

2007-04-26 07:59:01 · 23 answers · asked by Kermit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was involved in a 1 yr relationship with one girl, truely commited,cared for her like anything, treated her like a princess. Apparantly from last couple of months or so, she started avoiding me, getting mad at me for no reasons,calling less frequently, giving bull excuses that busy at work, guests over blah blah..(this is a same girl who used to call like 8-10 times a day). On asking her very honestly if she doesn't even want me to call her up, she flattered and told me she needs to think over about herself. I was like WTF was she doing for 1 yr but swallowed the pain.

This is not even hurt, but disrespecting someone's feelings who trusted her like a diamond.

Why some people are plain morones ?

2007-04-26 07:58:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-26 07:57:15 · 10 answers · asked by Mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

I dare you to to kiss [whoever]
Is this a good one?

2007-04-26 07:57:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

whats a good way to find my long lost friend?
i don't want to pay for intelus or something like that.
any good ideas?

2007-04-26 07:55:35 · 9 answers · asked by jamie_south1 3 in Friends

and i've been with him for two years, he's my first sex partner.. and i've never had an orgasm... what am i doing wrong?

2007-04-26 07:55:27 · 16 answers · asked by jennifer0000 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my brother and i love my sister!i talk to her everyday but i only talk to him maybe 1ce a month,i get along with them both,the problem is,that they can't stand to be near each other and when they are it is quite uncomfortable!i hate to be in the middle,i dont like to invite only 1 sibling over when i have a party because im afraid the other wont come!what should i do?

2007-04-26 07:54:57 · 1 answers · asked by loschingones1 2 in Friends

Ok, here is the situation. My husband has a cow because I want to go out alone without him. I work a full time job and have 3 kids. I go out about once a week without him. Am I wrong in wanting to do this? I was caught talking to a guy about 2 years ago and he thinks I am screwing around on him. I also had some money hidden and he found it. I do tend to turn heads sometimes and he is insecure and jealous of that. He thinks I am going to find someone else. I need some advise here. What should I do and how should I handle this? I don't feel I have given him ANY reason to think that I am cheating on him.

2007-04-26 07:51:53 · 14 answers · asked by t j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-26 07:51:08 · 21 answers · asked by guy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 07:51:00 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 07:50:57 · 23 answers · asked by Kris B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-26 07:49:37 · 5 answers · asked by c_m_hayes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance who I have been with now for almost 4 years continues to dwell on my past faults. He has done so much wrong more than I no so I never really bring anything up to him because I feel if I love him whats the point of fighting. I chose to be with him so whats the point. Anyways during our relationship when he came back from Iraq He knew he was coming home to me and a little baby to another man (not why we were together) So I never really thought about how things would be. Yes he was bothered a little but grew to love her and has been around her since she was about 4 months old. She knows no one but him thats her daddy! He has found letters and pictures from past males but I mean nothing serious in my eyes I ended up finding the same with him through out the relationship so why let that bother him? I guy came knoc n at my door at around 1 am I had nothing to do with him but I did not handle the situation right so I can see his doubts there for this. Do I deserve the disrespect

2007-04-26 07:46:36 · 11 answers · asked by Thatchic 1 in Singles & Dating

after 6 months of trying i have finally conceived (i'm 6 weeks pregnant) but now my partner of eight years has changed his mind and has decided he doesn't want a baby and can't cope with my mood swings. Should I ditch him and bring the baby up alone or stay with him and hope that he changes his mind?
p.s we already have a 6 year old son together

2007-04-26 07:46:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, im in 7th grade because i had to repeat because i skipped school alot.Nobody knows yet & im so scared they will find out. Im going to have to face them later because ill see them all when i go to highschool.Nobody knows because i
switched schools.Should i tell them before i go to highschool or what? please i dont know and ot makes me sad all the time :(

2007-04-26 07:46:00 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think the rate is (like, 50% of relationships, 70% of relationships).

2007-04-26 07:45:09 · 15 answers · asked by Loose Cannon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I are very familiar with the make a wish foundation...as they provide last wishes to people dying of disease.

In theory, that is a great concept which helps children and families deal with the reality they face.

My friend wants to take this one step farther and create an organization that will grant wishes to the dead.

He visualizes a foundation that will carry out the wishes of the deceased such as spreding their ashes in a place they'd like to be, collect funding for monuments in their honor or perhaps have the stuffed so they can forever sit in their favorite chair.

My friend's dying wish is to make national headlines in his death and would like his carcas somehow dropped on the lawn of the white house, or something along those lines.

Now, there is NO WAY I could pull this off....are there any organizations that do this kind of thing, or should we look to create our own? I do see this as a lucrative business plan that has until now been ignored

2007-04-26 07:45:06 · 8 answers · asked by Ted Arcidi 2 in Friends

Okay, I guess I haven't been the best daughter. For example, I don't have the best grades. My parents are always contributing to everything so that I'll be on top. I take to many things for granted, I guess. I recently got kicked out this Law program in my school for my embarrasing grades. I have to make up a lot of classes in summer school, night school, saturday school, and what not. I don't know what's wrong with me. Before I use to be so dedicated to my school work, always looking foward to getting excellent grades and stuff. My mother only knows about 1 class that I failed, but in reality I failed 4. On Tuesday, she is going to go to the school and see what's up with me. What excuse will I have for having such a bad school record? I am grounded for 'pretending' I had school when I really didn't. I am a sophmore, turning a junior, in fall. I am 16 years old. Is it to late to get my grades up? What should I tell my mom when she sees my grades? I also owe a $238.00 debt for owing boo

2007-04-26 07:44:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok so my friend likes this guy who just so happens to be my dude friend(not boyfriend) but it is obvious that he likes me. at one of the dances she was all like "YOU cant have him" so i was kind of madcuz i can go out with who i want to. and i dont know what to do cuz i would go out with him if he asked to give him a chance but then she would be all pissed at me and if i reject him if he asked then i might be missing out. so what should i do :(

2007-04-26 07:43:40 · 5 answers · asked by PandA 3 in Singles & Dating