2007-04-26 08:00:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her parents don't mind
is that a sick or not?
2007-04-26 08:03:07 · update #1
Wrong for the 16 year old girl, but not necessary illegal everywhere. Yes it sounds more perverted then love, I would recommend counseling/ therapy for both of them
2007-04-26 08:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it would not have been seen as more than unusual less then 100 years ago.
I wonder what has changed so much about morality in the last 100 years that so many people have a knee-jerk response to a 16 year old getting married and/or a large age difference between ages of those getting married.
Considering that many cultures considered 13 to be the age of consent only a couple of millennia ago, I wonder if the age of consent will continue to rise until someone has to be 25 to be considered of marrying age (even though they have been experimenting since they were a teenager).
2007-04-26 08:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my recommendation: scenario one: You sit down with his parents and say that you are interested in a relationship with their son but realize what a 19 year old and a 16 year appears like. Assure them the relationship is not sexual and that you see yourself interested in him when he becomes an adult. scenario two: Let the boy down easily. His feelings are genuine for you. he is massively attracted to you. 16 year old boys are very inexperienced with matters of love so he hasn't thought through the dynamics of a 19 and 16 year old being together (adult and child) and how sensitive society is to that sort of thing. It's also very difficult because that three year difference in people you ages is HUGE. A 19 year old's just starting to fly into life and possibilities when the 16 year old is still in school building that possibility. a 19 year girl's maturity level is WAY WAY higher than a 16 year old boy. Normally a three year differnece is no big deal but at the specific ages you are, those three years create a BIG difference.
2016-05-19 04:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very sick of the parents of the 16 year old girl. It is illegal regardless of what the parents think. That issue needs to be taken to the police right away.
2007-04-26 08:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the 16 year old is looking for someone to replace love she hasn't had at home, and I think the 35 year old is looking for someone to control. Nothing good can come of this relationship. At 16, the girl doesn't even know herself, how can she know what she wants? And why is a 35 year old dating a 16 year old?
2007-04-26 08:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Bren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a PEDOPHILE ! and she is just to young for marriage it would not last. a 35yr old man should seek out women at least over 21yrs of age and or older. and if he has intercourse with a 16yr old girl that is a crime of statutory rape she is minor. I wouldn't agree with this marriage if I was a parent of this girl .I would be in this guys face leave my daughter alone!
2007-04-26 08:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by dms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong. Illegal. Immoral. Pedophilia. Perverted. Sick. Doomed. Those words come to mind.
2007-04-26 08:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the 35 year old man is disgusting and severly immature. a mature 35 year old man could not deal with a 16year old emotionally , physically and sexually.
2007-04-26 08:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very sick!
If it is you that is 35 then you may want to ask yourself why you called her a girl and not a woman.
Maybe because she isn't a woman yet?
2007-04-26 08:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not very much. It's against the law in most states and a bit sick!!!
2007-04-26 08:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋