Last night, my boyfriend of over a year, whom I live with, took offense to me saying "Stop, please." when I was trying to take some medicine before bed and he grabbed me playfully. So his reponse was "I don't want to be with someone like you. I just want to break up." Two hours later, he denied saying, says he didn't say it... then says he didn't mean to say that. What he meant was that he was mad at me for refusing his sexual advances... He said "You misunderstood me." He does this a lot when drinking. I don't know HOW I could misunderstand that comment and I told him, he does it all the time when he's drunk so this time, I'll take him up on the offer. He says I'm overreacting. What do you think? Why does he say this when he's drunk? Isn't alcohol like a truth serum for most people?
2007-04-26 08:09:23 · 9 answers · asked by brassinpocket 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yea i may just be 14 but i did something like that i wanted to kiss her but anyway my point is when your drunk you say and do stupid things that your later going to regret. i dont drink my parents do though so yeah. but if he's constainly saying this when he drinks then i'm gonna guess that somthing is wrong and you guys need to sit down and talk about it... ii'm just tryin help. sorry if you took offence to any of this.
2007-04-26 08:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he says it because he really means it, and I also believe that alcohol is a truth serum for everyone who drinks it, not just most people. Go on and leave, but don't take him back when he comes crawling in a couple of days, make him realize what he missed out on! HIS LOSS, NOT YOURS!!
2007-04-26 15:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth serum? LOL. How about this, he may have a drinking problem if all you can remember this statement for is the drunken times. Alcohol may have brought him to some other crazy place in his mind. As a truth serum, I've seen worse.
2007-04-26 15:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a drinking problem. If you don't want to babysit a drunk for the rest of your life, next time he says he wants to break up, pack your things and leave, or pack his things and send him away.
2007-04-26 15:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey there isn't enough room on this page to tell ya about this! speaking from experience instant a**hole just add alcohol.. you are in for a lifetime of this if you stay with him and if you do - 'NEVER ARGUE W/A DRUNK... its a waste of time- ignore him and don't let him get a rise out of ya!!! and just for the record it will never ever change-
2007-04-26 15:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by jleigh70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think break up is agood idea cuz 9 times of 10 bein drunk makes people tell the truth or how they really feel...he wsa holdin it n and just blame every mistake on drinkin
2007-04-26 15:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by mesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who plays about breaking up often really is not worth your time. What about in the future when things get more serious? Is he just going to walk out because you dont want to have sex? Dump him.. Sorry
2007-04-26 15:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Miss. Coco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't misunderstand. You understood him exactly. He said it hoping you'd feel guilty and give in. Why are you with this guy?
2007-04-26 15:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
problem IS that he is an alcoholic...
get out of there!
2007-04-26 15:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋