its very hard for women to orgasm.... i've only ever orgasmed while stimulating myself... they say that thats almost the only way that you can... my husband was right there and loved to watch, but it was me doing it, all he did was watch.. other than that, he's never made me orgasm either and we've been together for almost 4 years... Good luck. and if i have any sucess, i'll let you know the secret.
2007-04-26 08:01:14
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answered by Anonymous
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You are not doing anything wrong, the guy is. The actual sexual act does not make a girl have an orgasm. It is all the stimulation and touching that happens before. Most young guys do not know how to satisfy a girl. It takes years for them to learn. Your only choice is to teach him and make him spend time touching you until you finally have an orgasm. Most guys physically cannot wait long to try and please a female. Teach him.
2007-04-26 08:05:35
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answered by Raspberi 2
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It's most likely nothing you're doing wrong. You need to address this issue with him, or at least look into masturbation so you kno what it takes to give you an orgasm.
If you talk to your partner about things like this, you will definitely come to a resolution faster.
2007-04-26 08:00:08
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answered by DMoney21 1
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Probably the most powerful tool you have to enhance your sexual arousal is your ability to fill your mind with erotic images. Merge your mind with your body's sensations, or concentrate on sexual images.
* Arouse yourself before physical stimulation begins by thinking about things that you find sexy.
* Minimize things in your environment that detract or distract you from feeling pleasure.
* Allow all of your senses to participate.
* Create erotic feelings and allow yourself to feel them.
Remember, about 70% of women don't reach orgasm from intercourse thrusting alone. Most require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. So, rather than focusing on what you aren't feeling inside your vagina, devote your attention to what exquisite pleasures you can create on the outside.
*Let me know if this helps?*
2007-04-26 08:07:29
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answered by Anonymous
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There is nothing wrong with you or your guy. You are just inexperienced. Give it time. Practicing alone or in other ways with your partner will help. I doubt there is a woman alive that had her 1st orgasim during intercourse.
2007-04-26 08:04:08
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answered by TMcBee2 1
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You are not doing anything wrong, your boyfriend and you need to try foreplay, or he needs to learn how to eat properly;). sometimes women need to be manually stimulated down below by yourself during sex or by your partner.
2007-04-26 08:01:22
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answered by Anonymous
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It's not what you or him is doing wrong. Some wemon can't have one during intercourse. But I heard lots of foreplay can help. I have yet to achieve it during intercourse.
2007-04-26 08:29:30
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answered by Jenny 4
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You need to see a Doctor.
2007-04-26 07:59:45
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answered by sweetladytease 3
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no the question is what is he doing wrong. i had the same problem. but its not you. its more then likly him. if hes ontop then yes its probly him. jst tell him what feels good to you. or if your ontop maybe try a new stroke or somethng. ull get it eventually
2007-04-26 08:01:32
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answered by Niki 3
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Have u seen the movie "Deep Throat"?
Check it out, that movie can help with some of your asnwers.
2007-04-26 08:02:40
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answered by Tony the Tigre 2
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