torn between brothers and sisters!?

Question

i love my brother and i love my sister!i talk to her everyday but i only talk to him maybe 1ce a month,i get along with them both,the problem is,that they can't stand to be near each other and when they are it is quite uncomfortable!i hate to be in the middle,i dont like to invite only 1 sibling over when i have a party because im afraid the other wont come!what should i do?

Answer 1

Figure out why, and then figure how to fix it. Chances are its like most sibling disputes, that don't like the way each treats their life, or acts. So you'll be spending time getting them respect and understand the other. Outside of that its time to play the "ACT LIKE A GROWN-UP" card and invite them both over and tell them to be civil with each other. Chances are thou because they are brother and sister and do feel for each other that well only last so long before their at each others throats, so you'll be forced to be the bigger one and get them to actual relate to each other like grown-ups... so ether way your forced to grow-up before them and raise them up to your level, isn't suppose to be this way, but parents have made a habit of wiping their hands of their kids lives at earlier and earlier ages, when it isn't ever suppose to happen. So really its not their fault they just need the tools to get past this reather global social problem.....