i have been with my husband since 1994. he was a lead singer of his own band which split up in 2000. 2 months later he was fired from his job. These were devistating losses in his eyes, so i was supportive and understanding as a good wife should be. the first 2 years were excusable in my eyes, since he had been with the band for 6 years previous, but now it is just ridiculous. he still is not over it, he is still without a job. he is still depressed. when i try to talk to him about it, he shuts down and refuses to talk to me. i feel in my heart that, for my self preservation, that i need to let him go, but how can i let him go when i feel like i am the one who enabled his behavior over all these years? is it selfish of me to want to let him go? should I continue to stick it out? should i place a time limit on our marriage? what do I say? how do I approach him?
my parents were divorced when i was 6, i thought they didnt have what it takes, and i was going to show them that I did.
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2007-04-26
09:57:20
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Shake-Zula
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Marriage & Divorce