Do you think he wants to break up? He moved here 8 months ago and just went back hom to visit for the first time...I know he misses it, he has all his friends, his parents, his daughter etc...so we've been flirting and picture messaging etc since he left, but today he started arguing with me for no reason and wouldn't stopped. So I accused him of being on drugs, and he hung up on me. Long story short there.
We love each other and have such a great relationship most of the time (for 7 months), but he doesn't have a job here at the moment...and he has been telling me that his old friends are offering him jobs and places to live etc...and they party a lot, which is something easy to fall back into.
So...what can I do? We had this fight today and I called him like 20 times...I know, excessive...and texted him because I was freaking out and he won't call me back. So you think he's fighting as a way to end it with me? How do I save this??
2007-04-26 09:56:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You might not be able to save it.
But stop pestering him with phone calls.
He's confused, and that is not helping.
2007-04-26 10:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you cant accuse him of things that you are not sure of. Maybe something was bothering him and he was upset about something and took it out on you , we know thats not right but guys do act strange sometimes. And maybe he wants you to move up there with him have you thought about doing that and discuss this with him. If he can get a job there that would be great at least he would be making an effort. you may have a chance to save this relationship just wait for him to call you dont keep calling him because he may need some space just like we women do at times.
2007-04-26 11:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space. If you really love somebody let them go. If they really love you they will come back. His fighting with you may be subconscious. He might be fighting wanting to move back to his hometown and staying there with you. Him picking at you may be himself checking to see if he is really in Love with you or not. Do not start accusing him of things that you are not 100% sure of because this could be one of the things you do to push him away. I know the waiting game is not the easiest in the world but if you really love him the way you say you do it may be the only way to save this relationship.
good luck to You.
2007-04-26 10:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by Wenz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just wait til he comes back and you can face him. It's easier when you can see an expression.
2007-04-26 10:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't answer his calls...........It will drive him crazy
2007-04-26 10:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋