Family & Relationships - 26 April 2007

So me and my girl have been together for 6 years. We have a six year old girl.

I've quit my job about 5 months ago. My girl works as a waitress and makes about 150$ a day.

I've been staying home and taking care of our child, and when she goes to school I nap and clean house.

When she's out of school I take walks with her, do homework, play, feed her and bath her and all that good stuff.

Am I a looser. Should I put her in day care and go find myself a job?

by the way, our finances are adiquate

2007-04-26 09:38:21 · 26 answers · asked by Mercury 2010 7 in Family

I am in love with this girl, on her birthday, i asked her out in person, she said, she just didn like anyone, then i gave her birthday present (necklace) +a birthday card in which i asked her out. before wards we would find each other looking at each other.(while she was with her friends and i was with mine). and we still do. WHAT DO I DO? DOES SHE LIKE ME? WILL SHE FALL IN LOVE, help me im depressed.

2007-04-26 09:38:06 · 15 answers · asked by I have brains for tonsils 4 in Singles & Dating

This guy is great! He cooks, cleans, massages, listens, dances, brings the check home to me, and I tried to push him away! What's wrong with me? I am having such a hard time with this. He told me he was coming at a certain time and had me waiting what's up with that. I was about to break up with him who needs that. Then we had a talk and he checked me for blowing the whole thing out of proportion. Made me feel bad for him standing me up. Now that's game! What should I do with this one? Maybe I'm just not ready to be commited.

2007-04-26 09:36:44 · 5 answers · asked by Peek@u 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a drunk friend told you they thought you should be best friends, would you think they really wanted to be better friends, or that they were just being drunk and silly?

2007-04-26 09:36:06 · 3 answers · asked by Lauren M 3 in Friends

if it's not just about sex but emotional closeness as well..........question is not about me.........

2007-04-26 09:35:42 · 21 answers · asked by JustWant2B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my good friend, nicole, really likes this guy and wanted to know if he liked her back. so, at the end of the day 2day wen my friend walked away, the guy she likes just happened to walk by me. he said something to me but i just said to him "hey, you like nicole doin't you?" i was hoping hed say yes so nicole would be extremely happy but instead he just said "no, i definitely don't." once he started walking away my friend came back and i told her i asked that guy if he liked her. im not so sure but i think shes mad at me. even tho this guy said no i think he might like her. i dont think ill say anything else to him but what do i say to nicole and what can i say to that guy to not make him think nicole likes him? please help. :)

2007-04-26 09:35:24 · 2 answers · asked by here to help(: 3 in Friends

2007-04-26 09:34:19 · 12 answers · asked by lonely_32462 1 in Singles & Dating

Help!

2007-04-26 09:33:07 · 4 answers · asked by aj8005reader 1 in Family

I'm friends with this boy who I don't know very well, but we've hung out once and he's really nice. We talk a lot and have a lot in common. He broke up with this girlfriend a while ago, and said he was completely over it. For while, they were friends on eachother's Myspace, but they it looked like one deleted the other. Just yesterday, I went to his profile and noticed she is now number one, but he is not on hers. When I asked him if they were back together, he said no. Why should I do? Should I confront him, or stay out of it. I admit that I'm kind of jealous so I would like to know. Please help!

2007-04-26 09:32:26 · 15 answers · asked by Amber 5 in Singles & Dating

I need someone to talk to. I get bored of using the computer already. Can someone be my friend?

2007-04-26 09:31:28 · 7 answers · asked by Syntheous Red 1 in Friends

and my dad does say someing about god gave me gifts and I should not wast them what should I do tell me what I should say PLEASE!!!!!!

2007-04-26 09:30:54 · 11 answers · asked by John 5 in Family

I need to have a love affair in my life but its not as easy to find as cheap and wicked sex would be. Because I didn't do too much this winter (just with a friend at around New Years), I'm getting real depressed. Should I spend more time looking for a love affair or try to raise my spirits some? I want the love affair real bad.

2007-04-26 09:30:07 · 15 answers · asked by AngelKidd+JeffKidd 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-26 09:30:00 · 24 answers · asked by nichola e 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known my best friend for ages . . . but recently shes been really strange and has started cutting herself, which is not like her at all ! I'm really worried about her, the cuts on her arm looks quite bad, I have tried to ask her what was wrong but she just replied with "I'm lonely" . . and I don't really no what do to to help her . . .
Please can someone help me
I'm really worried

2007-04-26 09:29:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Supersonic - ever lasting fear - supersonic... Cuz, I'm shumalumma limmaa lumma llummma slimmma - SUPERSONIC....

2007-04-26 09:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by Peter W 1 in Singles & Dating

My father and I haven't been on the best terms for years now, and now that I'm in college, it's getting worse. My father makes a big deal out of every "small" thing I do and can't get over the fact that I'm not perfect or living up to his high standards. For instance, I left a bowl in my room and he went ballistic because I didn't take it out (right now he's still upset about that [happened a week ago]). One of the biggest things that I don't like about him is his self-centered personality. I have a speech defiency ( I stutter okay...) and he says that he and my mother have it harder than I do. Come on, does that make any sense whatsoever?

I can't wait for the day I move out and become someone successful (not trying to brag) by my standards. I won't him to apologize for all the nasty things that he's done and regret the awful things he said about me.

My question is, how do I better myself so I can prove to him that I'm worth something now and in the future?

2007-04-26 09:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by Silent Jay 1 in Family

I CAN'T FIND A GOOS CATEGORY FOR THIS!

2007-04-26 09:27:30 · 4 answers · asked by Ms. Thang 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If God is real prove it.

2007-04-26 09:26:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister in law is engaged and is planning her wedding in august 07. traditionally it is the brides family who throws the party but the thing is, I told my hubs, since we are both old enough and had good paying jobs we can throw one ourselves. that was 3 years ago. i bought the dress, we even went to look at some reception places together and booked one but about a week later he told me it was filled by someone else. anyway so we had a big fight about it, he says he doesn't want to do a wedding party, b/c his family does not do wedding. so we never had a wedding. i'm the only girl in my family and my brother doesn't even have a gf. so it makes me even more upset thinking how he didn't want to give me a wedding party. so now, my inlaws want us to help them plan the wedding finding reception halls,flower places, cake,decorations,getting invitationblahblah, i'm so mad i don't want to help.everything wedding makes me upset.i only asked for two things from him n only got one. what to do?

2007-04-26 09:26:09 · 17 answers · asked by annlyvqp 3 in Weddings

i have a friend that is 2 years younger than me and we hang out so good!
our school has a track team and on our way back from one of our track meet...,... all the girls on the bus got a sugar rush sooo we were jumping on the seats and doing crazy stunts lol
but my friend scared the crap out of me whenever she stuck her fingers down my crack!!! sometimes i think she may even be a lezbooo!!! even though nobody saw her do that i still felt mollested!! should i forgive her and just forget it or should i not hang out with her and be disgusted for the rest of my life?!?!

2007-04-26 09:22:47 · 17 answers · asked by Suzanne<3 1 in Friends

2007-04-26 09:22:24 · 17 answers · asked by nazanin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my babys father are getting our own apt. and we need advice on what to do

2007-04-26 09:20:48 · 12 answers · asked by *notta game* 1 in Family

I've been married for a number of years. I love my wife, we have a happy and successful marriage, and I would not cheat on her.

However, lately I've had a terrible crush on someone I see during my weekly routine. She pretty flirtatious... whether that has to do with genuine interest, or whether it's just because I'm already taken and therefore it's "safe" to flirt with me. I invite her to lunch occasionally, and I flirt back with her as well... it's fun and feels good. Nothing beyond that though, nothing physical.

I'm in my 30's now, working on getting pregnant with our first child... so I'm completely aware that there's a simple "mid-life crisis" side to this. Please don't beat me up with a lot of harsh judgment... I'm not a bad husband or bad person, and I don't want a full-blown affair with anybody. I'm just wondering if these kinds of feelings are normal... at what point they do become a problem... and what's the best way to deal with them when they reach that point?

2007-04-26 09:19:36 · 26 answers · asked by Steve 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i noticed that these dayz women are much more relentless and aggressive that men, when it come to making the one they care for stick around.
What do you think?

2007-04-26 09:19:31 · 1 answers · asked by one1 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a sis who is very sociable, popular and glamourous. I have always been her fan growing up, however, now that I am a senior myself, I realize that our relationship is "one-way" - as long as I "applaud" her, she's pleased. When I look good or have my achievements, she isn't as appreciative. She isn't bad and can even be kind, but wants to be "first" in the attention dept. Even as we enter a place, she is watching for the attention of the paparazzi! In fact, will forget we walked in together. In a store, she'll race for the clothes to purchase ahead of me. That's fine. But she'll buy what isn't her style but mine!! Then I can't buy it or if I do, she'll rush and wear it on the next social so everyone knows she saw it first!! It's petty but it bothers me because it happens so often. I shop alone because of this sometimes but I enjoy her company otherwise... and this isn't the only situation! Does she suffer from ADD? my hubby thinks she does...she's a senior too!

2007-04-26 09:19:10 · 8 answers · asked by dixie 1 in Family

2007-04-26 09:14:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-26 09:14:33 · 13 answers · asked by livelyl27 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, this is a really long story. I'm 14 and in high school.
Okay. So my class had to take this interim assessment test today and I'm in one of the normal classes that don't get an extension, so everyone finished pretty darn quick. We were not allowed to switch or to move to our next class, which was MATH, so the teacher came into our homeroom. This is when the story begins. When we were taking the test the period before, I didn't sit near any of my best friends, so when the math teacher came in, everyone rushed into different seats to sit near their not-so-close-friends. I was about to move until this bltch ran into the seat next to my bff. there were no seats left near the table to sit in, so I was forced to sit with the annoying, smelly geek who has no friends. My friends didn't even care! Next period came, which was ART, so everyone sat in their normal seats until the teacher said she wanted to fix the tables, so she made everyone move. My normal seat was across

2007-04-26 09:14:10 · 8 answers · asked by Lynn™ 2 in Friends

My gf is coming back from canada,she has been there for 18 months and I went to see her 4 times but i met a girl and thought i would use her while my gf was away. She will be back in 3 weeks and I have tried everything to get this girl to dump me and get out of my flat but she wont go. She is going to **** everything up for me.
I dont want to seem like a bad bastard but she was only a bit of fun while my gf was gone but I have to get rid of her now.
Any ideas?

2007-04-26 09:11:56 · 51 answers · asked by phil 1 in Singles & Dating

Grandparents are Jane and Doyle Garrett.
He's 19 or 20. Live in the Cherokee County area???

2007-04-26 09:11:45 · 6 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Friends