I need to have a love affair in my life but its not as easy to find as cheap and wicked sex would be. Because I didn't do too much this winter (just with a friend at around New Years), I'm getting real depressed. Should I spend more time looking for a love affair or try to raise my spirits some? I want the love affair real bad.
2007-04-26 09:30:07 · 15 answers · asked by AngelKidd+JeffKidd 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't undestand what you are asking. Are you saying you want to have sex with anyone? If so thats nasty..if not sorry!
2007-04-26 09:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it for love. Sex is only temporary fix and when it is booty call, then you are left feeling empty the next day. Sex is so much more fun when it is with some one you are in love with.Try getting out and joining a gym, getting involved at church, joining some type of club, going out with some friends, or doing something new. That way you are out and about the people. If that's not working and you can't find "quality" people, try internet dating. I know that it has a bad wrap, but it is becoming more and more popular, especially if you are very busy with your job like I was and moved to a new area where I knew no one. I had so many men that wanted to date me, I didn't know what to do with myself. It also gave me the opportunity to sort out the ones I didn't like so much, where as before if some one even looked my way, I would take a date with him because I was lonely and knew no one where I just moved to. Plus I made some new friends and got out and about in the new city that I just moved to. I can totally relate. If you do decide to do the internet dating thing, just make sure you use common sense. Such as meeting in a public place and not at your home...etc. Good luck! It was really a fun experience for me. Give it a try. PS- I did find love and I am now engaged thanks to the world wide web.
2007-04-26 16:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love affairs don't work that fast.
First find the man
Start going out with him
Leave it a while before going to bed with him, because if you went to bed with him on the first date, then you're only having sex.
Good luck.
2007-04-26 16:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A love affair will come or go as it pleases. If you need the sex until it comes around then go get it.
2007-04-26 16:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by nemesyn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love affairs can prove to be even more depressing. I think you should just try to cheer yourself. You don't need sex or a man/woman to make you happy! :]
2007-04-26 16:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by schmidttyconnect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love just stop looking and you will find love and the affair that comes with it
2007-04-26 16:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by npgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will a love affair cure your depression?
2007-04-26 16:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I became disabled and alone 21 years ago so I feel your pain ! But I have watched and learned that in this day and age "sex " can kill ! So find out what you do best, and do it ! Learn to self satisfy !
2007-04-26 16:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so desperate. Guys don't like easy girls. Straighten up and look for an actual guy.
2007-04-26 16:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it depends on how depressed you really r.is it just like u need sumone in ur life or is it that u need sumthing like sex in ur life?
2007-04-26 16:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by I'm. Not. Okay. 121. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋