I'm friends with this boy who I don't know very well, but we've hung out once and he's really nice. We talk a lot and have a lot in common. He broke up with this girlfriend a while ago, and said he was completely over it. For while, they were friends on eachother's Myspace, but they it looked like one deleted the other. Just yesterday, I went to his profile and noticed she is now number one, but he is not on hers. When I asked him if they were back together, he said no. Why should I do? Should I confront him, or stay out of it. I admit that I'm kind of jealous so I would like to know. Please help!
2007-04-26 09:32:26 · 15 answers · asked by Amber 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to come out and be rude or anything. Just tell him how you feel and how it hurts when you think he may just be playing games. For one thing you defiantly need to tell how you feel before he does decide to go back to her. Good luck.
2007-04-26 09:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by **JaeAnswers! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already asked him once and he said they weren't together. At this point, since you are not actually together, in his eyes you really won't have any right to know exactly what is going on between them. And I think prying too much into it will make you look jealous and controlling - not qualities you want to show so early into a maybe relationship. I say you should play it cool and see what happens between the two of you. But at the same time, BE CAUTIOUS, if you really get the feeling that she is still in the picture, back off. The relationship is early so it would be better to end it now then later after so much grief.
2007-04-26 16:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by J P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stay out of it. You've known this boy for a few days and hung out once. it really isn't any of your business. I know. not what you wanted to hear. but. you might want to form a relationship with this boy first before you go asking about his personal life.
Good Luck.
Or if you wanted. try asking him in a way that doesn't sound like you're being nosy
2007-04-26 16:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already asked him a question and got an answer. What do you mean, confront him? Keep your attitude friendly, not confrontational. Continue to talk, hang out, be friends, show interest. Things may move in a promising direction.
2007-04-26 16:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by tk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this guy, obviously he is not over it and you will just be hurt. Similar stuff has happened to me twice. It rare for exes to stay good friends and have absolutly no lovey dovey or sexual feelings towards one another
2007-04-26 16:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by Laura B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give the guy some space and take things slowly. Also try to control your emotions when he does talk about his ex
2007-04-26 16:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you won't win this one. Stay out of it until you know for certain he is over her. Plus you don't want to be the rebound girl.
2007-04-26 16:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart lets be serious he is still DEF talking to her if they went out and broke up recently take it from me i am going through this now me and my man of 5 yrs just broke up we are still hooking upand talking everyday and someone like you doesnt have a chance if she is still activley in his life sorry to be blunt TRUST ME on this and no do not ask he will not walk away from you he will RUN
2007-04-26 16:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nycgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be jealous over that, you dont even know him very well. Unless you want to lose a friend, stay out of it
2007-04-26 16:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by britt b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's number 1 then he still has feelings for her which he doesnt wnat to disclose to anyone
Give him some space
2007-04-26 16:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋