i dumped my girlfriend of 1 1/2 years 3 weeks ago.I just felt like i needed a break from it all. A few days after i dumped her i made out with another girl. I regret it very much. I miss my ex like crazy and would do anything to get her back. Guys are already starting to like her and i have talked to them and her about it, she just got mad and said i had no business doing it. I really want her back and am trying my best but she refuses and says it's over. She says she wants to be bestfriends but she doesn't act like it. I really need her and want her back more than anything in the world. I need all the help I can get. One of my friends says to just give her her space and she will come back but I don't think she will. I need advice on what to do. PLEASE HELP. Thank you.
2007-04-26 09:51:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her that you made a horrible mistake and didn't realize how much she meant to you until you were apart.
this happened to me. we're now married.
2007-04-26 09:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you learn from this, and that is that you just do not break up with the one you love just because you needed a break. You obviously hurt her pride by doing this and she is angry. And then you so quickly ended up messing with some other girl. She is most likely rethinking about what she thought she had in you. Give her some time, she needs to have incentive to be willing to go back to you. As I can understand what drives you to call her you have to come to see that you are only making her more determined to move on by doing this. She must be made to fear loosing you in order to have any incentive to want you back. What you MUST do is to tell her something like this, "It appears you have already made up your mind on moving on and are not even willing to talk about a second chance, I have no other option but to accept this, I hope one day we can be friends". And after saying this, no matter what, do NOT call her at all. Time will make her rethink if she really does indeed want to end it. My bet is that she will test you during this time (she knows you want her back), you must stand firm. Trust me, she will call you when you least expect it. If not, then what other choices will you have but to just beg her, and I know you do not want to do this. Retain your dignity and you will at least come off for the better for it. Best of luck to you!
2007-04-26 10:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel as though you need her only b/c she has moved on and guys are intrested in her. Would u be this way if you did not know she was dating. If she is already dating and does not want anything to do with you then she really needed a break from you. I would leave her alone let her go threw her faze, if she truly loved you she will realize soon enough. You will be fine don't hang out with the same friends they create more problems, then there really is...
2016-05-19 04:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let her go and she's getting better attention now. You need to move on. You cannot control her, and you have no stake in it now that YOU dumped HER. Your friend saying "give her space" is absolutely correct. If you want her back, stop sticking your nose in her business and wait for your turn again, if it ever comes.
2007-04-26 09:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a chick, I'm not on your side on this. Time in a relationship means a lot to us. You were with her for 1 1/2 years, that meant a lot to her. But when you just broke it off like that, she can't just forgive you and you can't expect her to come crawling back to you either.
Listen to your friend. Give her her space and //maybe// she'll give you another shot one day.
2007-04-26 10:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kaki Mata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk with her, and find out how she feels. You dumped her for some reason, what was it? Why do you think It would be different after 3 weeks, except missing her.
Find out how she felt after beeing dumped, and how she feels now.
Good luck.
2007-04-26 09:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Csaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want her back? You dumped her for a reason! I think you need to leave her alone for now. She has the right to get on with her life. Just remind yourself why you broke up with her in the first place if it makes you feel better.
2007-04-26 09:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to move on, if she wants you back she will come back. And if not maybe you should make sure you think threw your decisions better before you make them.
2007-04-26 10:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she doesn't take you back; you are so immature. Suppose you had been married to the lady? For no reason you left her and now you want her back. No way, I say.
2007-04-26 09:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont realize what you have until its gone....now you must, as anyone else, deal with your actions!
2007-04-26 09:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋