Is there an inverse relationship as to...?

Question

Is there an inverse relationship as to the time spent in a relationship and the time spent in recovering from one?

If you have any experiences please share?
What do you think?

Answer 1

Tried to answer this earlier and it told me you deleted it.... ether way, there isn't a relationship. Sorry. Really. It comes down to each individuals experience within that relationship, what there emotional understanding of themselves, and how deep the relationship went. I've know of people that have had flings they've never gotten over and individuals that been married for years that divorced with out any really visiable heartache. You have to understand that relationships are as individual as the people that make them. I think the greatest enjustice ever down for mans ability to love was romantic love. This ideal of one person is special for everyone just doesn't give credit enough to the human heart. Give the right situation and circumstance we can all full in love with each other. Also the idea of recovering from a relationship envovles so much depending on the nature of that relationship, again how deep it got..... really were dealing with the problem that we believe that love is the defining element of a relationship, when in fact it is friendship or rather companionship, which is the application of love in a relationship that matters. I can tell you I LOVE YOU all night long, but unless I go thru the actions, unless I show you passion and feel compassion for you , its just words. Its the actions that mean the most, and because we don't give complete respect to the things we see because we feel that the traditional signs of love our enough most relationships end in people being just strangers who screwed. The pain afterwards is for someone the other never truly knew and that now there going thru the pains of understanding them, because unfornatunely that is a step towards growing in any relationship, and relationships don't end when they say they do..... anything that touches the heart scars it, and scars can't be erased, they can only be treated and respected.... I've seen this in my own life, had a girl when I was 14 years old I still think about and still sometimes hurt myself about because of the things I didn't do.... and the things I'll never really know were true.... trust I didn't make those mistakes again;)