My bf is very stressed out from work and has been under a lot of pressure lately. For last 2 weeks we haven't really talked and I feel like he is being really distant. I feel like something is wrong and it has been upsetting me all week!
If you were dating someone and was in this same situation...would you want your girl to talk to you about it, tell you how she is feeling...or would you rather go to her when you are ready to talk?
Any advise is appreciated!
2007-04-26 03:41:41 · 7 answers · asked by southernbell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People really desire people that give them their space. I personaly would maybe just leave a note for him here or there just saying something nice... just so you know your in his mind to make yourself feel better. And let him come to you when he is ready... I love a girl that can respect my space :-)
And odds are, who knows if anything is wrong? If he hasnt said anything is wrong... go with that. Dont assume.. it might get ya in trouble! But just let him know your there for him ;-)
2007-04-26 03:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Royce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people would like their significant other to come to them when times are tough. Have you given any thought to simply telling him that you are willing to listen when he has a problem? Perhaps he doesn't feel comfortable speaking with you about the situation because of some prior conversations. Remember to listen carefully and not offer suggestions or "fix-it" advice! Take his hands in yours and look into his eyes and tell him that you can see that he is troubled. Don't require him to tell you about it, but let him know that you will be a good listener if he wants to share. He needs to be comfortable opening up to you, which is an integral part of any relationship.
You can do it!
2007-04-26 03:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by monkey tuesday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and talk or in person. If he will not talk to you, then just go date someone else.
2007-04-26 03:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try talking about it.
2007-04-26 04:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about your feelings in a nice way. rubbing his shoulders and soft words help.
2007-04-26 03:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by ninja-juggalo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out --- i may not have done it as much as i should have --- but i see the error of my ways now
2007-04-26 03:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him how u feel about the whole thing.......
2007-04-26 03:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by Surya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋