Say you care a lot about a girl you've been dating. She's intelligent, caring, and has an amazing spirit. She's pretty; and overweight but not fat. Things get intimate and you see her naked for the first time. Her body leaves a little to be desired-- she has stretch marks from adolescence (most of which have faded), a bit too much of a tummy, and cellulite on her thighs (but a great rack, FYI :). She still thinks she is beautiful. She exudes confidence, but not *********.
What do you think-- is she sexy because she is confident and you already care for her? Or are some of these things too difficult to overlook for extremely visual men, even if the relationship is great otherwise?
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2007-04-26 03:41:00 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her body leaves a little to be desired to who? Beauty is definately in the eye of the beholder. I happen to believe that sexiness is an attitude that you put out with your self confidence. I have been with women that would generally be considered "overweight but not fat" and with women that have what is considered to be a great body. I found no big difference between either one of them because they were both confident in themselves.
2007-04-26 03:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Adapted_For_The_Screen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wonder about overweight women who go on about their confidence. It actually makes me think these women are really insecure and just trying too hard for male attention and validation.
If a guy liked you for who you were, great. It's not impossible being that you are a few pounds overweight. In fact, being overweight is quite normal in America. But don't go pretending like thin women can't have confidence, that's just silly.
2007-04-26 03:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the key....'She exudes confidence, but not *********.'
Self-confidence makes up for a lot of short comings. The cellulite, though, could be a real problem.
2007-04-26 03:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two things. First, I like women with a little extra. Very, subjective, I understand. Second, I don't think anything is sexier on a woman than an air of confidence.
2007-04-26 03:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like that would have bothered me when I was 18, but now that I'm older I'm not so petty. My wife has stretch marks and I still find her extremely hot! Confidence is sexy!
2007-04-26 03:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by Miki S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely sexy. Its all about personality to me. I would take the fattest girl with a great personality over a in-shape girl with a bad attitude anytime. Well maybe not for a one nighter but defiantly for the long term.
2007-04-26 03:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by sabation215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl, but here goes my best guess (This is just being based on what a couple of my guy friends said) Long hair, short hair? Long Hair light hair, dark hair? Dark hair. light eyes, darker eyes? Darker eyes. tan skin, fair skin? Fair skin. oval eyes, almond eyes? Oval Eyes. Long legs, short legs? Short legs. Tall in height, shorter in height? Shorter in height. painted nails, non-painted nails? Non-painted nails. a lot of makeup, some makeup, very little makeup? Very little. Dimples? No dimples? Dimples. Freckles? No freckles? Little freckles? Little to no freckles Large breasts, small breasts? Small Hope I helped :D
2016-05-19 03:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who the guy is. I'm not a guy but I'm bisexual. I don't mind how people look. And confidence is an amazing thing!
2007-04-26 03:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys could be turned off by the flaws, but you know if a guy really likes you then he could over look anything. Just be sexual and witty playful and he should appreciate that.
2007-04-26 03:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by TheGun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love and care for someone EVERYTHING about them is sexy --- my ex wife has stretch marks from 3 children a little overweight and i loved every part of her
2007-04-26 03:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋