Family & Relationships - 25 April 2007

Why is it that men who are married, watch porn when their wifes leave the home and do you know what, by themselves? They're married!!!! why do they feel like they need to look at other women when they have one at home. Isn't easier to tell their wives what they want and let the wife do it for them....
why do they even get married if they're going to be doing that.
WHY????? It's not true they do it out of boredom because they quickly run to the internet as soon as the wife leaves.

2007-04-25 13:59:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

People are so eager to ask for advice. Is it just to gain insight? Because 99% of the time we have the best answer to our own problems. Tell me what you feel.

2007-04-25 13:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by Student 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and him always get into fights everyday for no reason sometimes... i hate that so much and my mother is mad annoyed i try to act nice to him but it doesn't work and sometimes i hurt him really badly by accident when were fighting i don't mean to hurt him but since hes he younger it hurts him alot...can someone help me cause im sick of fighting with him every single day

2007-04-25 13:54:02 · 4 answers · asked by **ic** 4 in Family

we both work fulltime and split to bills 50/50 but i feel like a maid in my oun home.he leaves dirty dishes in the sink for days,clouthes all over the place ect. and when his 8 yr old son comes to visit he does the same thing just with toys.it will stay like this for days till i can't take it any more and pick up everything but then it just starts over.

2007-04-25 13:53:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-04-25 13:51:02 · 19 answers · asked by Jackie A 1 in Weddings

Me and my finocee have been engaged for 4 years now, we have a 20 month old together but arent married yet because we dont have the money for it. We also need to buy new wedding rings ecause his sister stole them and sold them for drugs. His mom has been pushing us to get married and when we told her we couldnt afford it right now she told us to go to the justice of the peace, wich is what we are planning on doing as soon as we get rings and we are jusyt going to have an actual wedding when we can afford it. well his mom is saying we dont need rings. Which would be fine but if im not going to have a wedding i atleast want the rings. Well anyways his sister has been engaged for almost 2 years and are planning a wedding for september, which his mom offered to pay for!! I think that is totally wrong considering we have been together longer, have a child together, and his sister is the reason we arent even married yet.....and his mom is going to pay for her whole wedding...........

2007-04-25 13:50:53 · 14 answers · asked by mama817 2 in Weddings

We have this problem from the very first day of our marriage. He gets very upset when I call him for any good reason. He thinks I am checking on him. We had a big fight and we are not talking. What can I do?

2007-04-25 13:49:08 · 62 answers · asked by Tamchi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 15 years old and my sister is just two years older then me. We go to the same high school and shes amazing at everything. Shes in the top 5% of her huge class and shes the 3rd best runner in the region. Then theres me, I'm the youngest, 130 something in my class of about 330 and a bench warmer on my varsity soccer team. I'm constatnly picking fights with her, and although I blame it on other stuff, its because I'm jealous. Wicked jealous.

2007-04-25 13:49:05 · 6 answers · asked by alexxgaldo 1 in Family

Just curious, but I would like you girls to rate these to determine what women think is important in men. (1 being not important at all and 10 being very important)

Physical Looks 1-10
Intellect 1-10
Humor 1-10
Wealth 1-10

If you have anything more or would just like to leave comments please do.

2007-04-25 13:44:54 · 32 answers · asked by nihilistic_reality 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband already had a child from his first marriage.
When we first got married we put off having kids for a couple of years. Then it got pushed off a few more years. Now my husband says he does not ever want to have any more children, which is not what he said when he married me. I don't know how to react to this. I always wanted a child of my own, and am not permitted by my step-son's mother to take an active role in the raising of my step-son.
I always wanted a child of my own. Is it worth it to have a child that I would leave my husband to go find someone to have one with?

2007-04-25 13:44:46 · 13 answers · asked by Morgansmom 2 in Family

and shes making me act like a super girly girl for a day.

and im not all into that stuff.

so what kinds of things should i do and where

2007-04-25 13:44:18 · 4 answers · asked by sam b 1 in Friends

My husband was diagnosed with a brain tumor over two years ago. He has since been under surgery and treatment. He is a very fortunate survivor. Yet, he is very degrading and negligent in meeting my need. However, he always has been. He continues to use his brain tumor as his crutch in why he is not respectful and unwilling to fulfill my needs. I have been nothing less than supportive throughout this ordeal. Is it fair for me to go without a loving relationship because of his misfortunate ordeal?

2007-04-25 13:42:12 · 29 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have things to offer, and I'm not ugly, but am not super cute. If you are interested in seeing me then message me and I will show you my myspace page. I think Yahoo Answers would be a cool way to meet someone. you could read each others questions and kind of get to know them. Just an idea.

2007-04-25 13:42:01 · 12 answers · asked by lvillejj 4 in Singles & Dating

he has joint custody with his exwife (who hates me)

2007-04-25 13:40:10 · 2 answers · asked by jnnymartin89 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

As a strong supporter of your efforts, I am interested in meeting new friends for penmanship and possibly more...

2007-04-25 13:40:01 · 6 answers · asked by Pamela S 1 in Singles & Dating

seems like they love to control everything. what do they want though? do they really want to control or do they want a man to stand up to them? they don't seem happy with either and when I stand up to my wife she usually throws a temper tantrum and threatens this and that. sometimes she follows through. so what do you controlling women want?

2007-04-25 13:39:42 · 19 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husbund cheated on me before with a woman.i forgive him cause i was pregnant.now he invited her to our son's birthday cause her husband is the boss of my husband.he also invited them to dinner in easter and they invited us to lunch next day i told him before i don't like to be with them but he insists.and now as i'm so happy of my baby's first birthday he told me he will invite them i also told him plz don't but he insists what can i do? i'm really thinking of divorce they became part of our family by force.also she is so rude and she trys to make me nervous.plzzzzzzzzz help

2007-04-25 13:39:33 · 23 answers · asked by lola 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 13:39:13 · 3 answers · asked by Double-D 1 in Singles & Dating

I still believe this gurl likes me and i dont know if its just me, but i feel like she does(she constantly messes around with her hair when im around) today in spanish class we went outside for about 45 minutes and when we went back inside, i held the door for her and our other friend thought that the door locked from the inside(it didnt) so she told us to keep it open. i told her it didnt but the girl that i think likes me wanted to "lock her out"(playfully cause it doesnt really lock) and she touched my arm. a few seconds later we were walking down the hallway and she asked me if i had a class. i told her at twelve. she said she had a class also at 12(it was 11:15am when she asked). she also said that she was going to buy something from the caf and then go and eat outside since it was pretty warm outside. i said that was a pretty good idea and said good-bye. i only realized the mistake i made in that case. tell me wut u think is my mistake cause i want to be sure without giving it away

2007-04-25 13:37:56 · 13 answers · asked by ticko 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I wear??

2007-04-25 13:36:58 · 3 answers · asked by Missy (aka: La Tigres) 5 in Weddings

My son has decided to get married and is only giving me a month to prepare. It is informal, just vows exchanged in a very small church with immediate family, around 25 people combined. This is my first time, my only son. We haven't any money to spend so the budget is small. I was told I am to supply the food for the wedding rehearsal and the reception. Also clean-up. Is there anything else? I don't want to look foolish, I haven't met her parents and won't until the day of the wedding, they live out of town. Do I also supply the wedding cake? I understand her parents are more broke than I am, what are their responsibilities? The kids ( they are 21) already have a dress, a suit and rings. Do I also supply the decorations for the reception? Oh, dear. I know I just can't afford this! Please help!

2007-04-25 13:33:41 · 8 answers · asked by Baw 7 in Weddings

Ok, I have been best friends with my friend mia since the 6th grade. we are both in 11th grade now. some background info:

We've gone out twice (being a couple), have been as close as anything, and also been in times where we have barely speaken to each other. So our relationship is very rocky and i bit inconsistent but also the best thing in the world.

We can tell each other anything, being completely honest. We are so comfortable with each other and hung out all the time. In school, we would pass each other letters and text each other. and even when we were just friends, there were still some of those feeling from when we went out lingering. We would talk on the fone everyday for hours.

Lately, we havnt talked in 3 months. She is going out with the one kid i cant stand so she always is with him(obviously). and its been killing me and in school it seems lik she thinks nothing of it. i act lik its not killing me but deep down i miss our friendship. Any advise ....?

2007-04-25 13:33:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Short story, she wants us to invite her best friend to the wedding who also happens to be the mother of my feonces ex girlfriend. This would not be a big deal except the M.I.L has called me immature and continues being rude and manipulative towards me. How should I handle this situation?

2007-04-25 13:30:05 · 12 answers · asked by Rachael B 1 in Weddings

His name is Shane and he's trying to break the world record for most b-day cards. He has leukemia and for his b-day all he watns is a record in the books before his life passes. This is true so just plz visit this site. http://www.shaneswish.com/

2007-04-25 13:29:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok i guess it is right this is just a confuzeing point in my life and i need ur guyzes help plz:
so i got pissed off at a 6th grader [i'm in multiage 6-7]
and he kept on talking to me so i'm like jesus christ john quite plz. [i said the quiet plz part in french since were in immersion]
and my homeroom teacher is like "melissa in the hallway now" and i'm like ok w;e
and she comes out all i want a 2500 word reflection about appropriate classroom language on my desk tomoro morning signed by ur guardians. and i got scarred of course since my guardians are the strictest ppl on earth so long story short i do get sent to the office mostly 1cce every two months for talking in english by subs. but i get home blurt out what happend to my guardians expecting them to spaz and they dont .. they dont seem to realy care .so they signed my essaay and went on there just like"when i was a kid i would of gottent the strap"
whats wrong here?

2007-04-25 13:28:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im so in love with this girl i would do anything for her...but it just seems to be she's playing with my emotions...or thats just how i feel..but then there's times i dont know what to think...and i know that she has a girlfriend but she says she doesnt love her and that im the one she wants to be with...but every time i turn around she's either on the phone with this girl or all up in her face...and i feel like a dumb *** for staying...but im in love with her....please help...do i jus leave...and not give her a chance to leave this girl alone for good...or should i just pack up and not say anything to her ever again?i need help

2007-04-25 13:27:17 · 1 answers · asked by chew 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend got hired at her job 2 years ago.last year i needed to find work to help my husband with the bills(i hated seeing him work 2 jobs and i just sat at home)so my friend asked around at her job and got me hired.ive been there a year now.just recently she got demoted and i got pulled up the chain of command and im now her supervisor.she is jealous but doesnt express it to me, instead she is starting rumors about me.i love her to death, being friends for 9 years has me attached to her.im getting into a position that will start a career for me and it is putting a wall between us.im in control of her daily jobs,im getting paid more than her and im getting more hours than her,on top of the fact that she has been there longer than me and she got me hired beneath her position.we are still young,and im not sure she is mature enough to realize that i have a family to provide for.what are some easy options for me to help save our friendship and my sanity?leaving my job is not an option.

2007-04-25 13:26:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have and ive been through so much theripy and the bad dreams i was lucky enough to keep my virginity

2007-04-25 13:20:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

looking around at some other questions it seems like almost everyone is asking how to tell if someone likes u. i want to no if i like him. he's a friend of 6 years. in the past few years he has started telling me about girls he likes and who he goes out with. we tend to flirt sometimes and share almost everything. because of that everyone was asking if we were dating or saying that we should before his girlfrend (now ex-gf). when he went out with her we kind of distanced ourselves. i'm really confused because i don't think i like him. it's so cliche, u no? but then i miss him when he isn't around and i like talking about him and to him. i don't want to date him. but do u think i might have a little crush on him?

2007-04-25 13:16:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Am I?

I thought that we'd be perfect,
But I don't think you can see
The insane amount of guilt
that lies deep inside of me.
My smile is a lie.
The pain I feel is real.
And I know you'll never understand
Just how you make me feel.
I'm screaming on the inside
Though docile on the out.
And I'll never really understand
Just why I'm full of doubt.
Your happiness is all I want
And I'm not sure if it's true,
But I feel you won't find happiness
As long as I'm with you.
So leave me if you must.
If it really would be best.
For I don't know just what to do
To put my mind at rest.
I don't feel I deserve you.
You're too good to be true.
I don't know what you see in me,
But what I see in you
Is a handsome boy who's full of dreams.
No talents do you lack.
And you don't need a girl like me
Who'll only hold you back.
I really want to be with you.
Have doubts that you agree,
But if you do, please ease my mind,
What do you see in me?

2007-04-25 13:15:45 · 11 answers · asked by blue_seal07 3 in Singles & Dating