Family & Relationships - 25 April 2007

2007-04-25 18:15:30 · 19 answers · asked by dewgongoo 2 in Family

how do you know what a good friend is a best friend or not

2007-04-25 18:12:08 · 18 answers · asked by cheyenne b 1 in Friends

i love my wife and my childeren.i have good sex with my wife.but i like sex with another woman.i am in doubt that my act is amoral .please tell me this is a crime that i want to do.thanks you for ur reply.

2007-04-25 18:04:57 · 14 answers · asked by hamid a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 17:59:16 · 32 answers · asked by niha68 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been friends for two years, and she is such a beautiful girl... nice hair, teeth, everything about her is so beautiful and I was scared to ask her out... LOL. I wanted to wait a bit to get to know her better.

Well, 2 days ago... she hung herself with a barb wired rope, and her mother found out and rushed her to the Emergency room ASAP, but it was to late... flat line and no heart beat.

Her mother told me the whole story... GOD! Why, why did she have to suffer? I blamed myself for this, I've always been there for her, and I was her best friend, but I blame myself for not being there that day, and it's my fault, all my fault... Damnit.. damnit.

I'm sorry I've just lost a wonderful person, and she was only 21.

Now I have to visit another funeral. I'm very sad right now, I knew a girl back in High School and she was 18 and did the same thing she did.

I have no more friends...I'm out friends. I feel her parent's pain right now, I do and her other friends.

RIP Laura

2007-04-25 17:55:34 · 9 answers · asked by Randy S 3 in Friends

Normally, I tend to be in relationships that last for two weeks at a time, and I practically couldn't even get a date in high school.

Apparently, I'm not a bad looking guy, and the girls I go out with, and the ones I am friends with, say how much of a nice guy and how sweet I am. But for some reason, all my relationships end the same way. Either with them ignoring me, or dumping me with no reason why.

I thought dating was supposed to be fun, but it's turning into torture for me. What can I do to improve my lovelife? Or even jumpstart it?

2007-04-25 17:53:51 · 1 answers · asked by easilydissolved 5 in Singles & Dating

Well, I never seen her for nearly 2 years for now, she was my classmate, we're only friends, we never hang out. The last time I saw her, her hair was in shoulder length, her race is Malay, I like her long hair in 1998-2002. Honestly, she love to smile, but she don't smile much in photos, ever since I've know her for more than 10 years, her smile really crush on me, and I never forget that. Someday if I wanna fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos and using camcorder to video her, do you think she will smile? cause I don't even know how to make girls smile, and her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before. (She never wear braces)

2007-04-25 17:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your ideal woman body look like?

Give me Specifics such as

Height:
Weight:
Hair Color:
Eye color:
Breast Size:
Butt Size:
Abs (flat or 6 pack):

Any other key features such as how legs look, the color of skin (tan or pale), and anything else you can think of

2007-04-25 17:38:39 · 8 answers · asked by Carly 2 in Singles & Dating

is it a must or does it at least help?

2007-04-25 17:36:27 · 13 answers · asked by i have a tiny penis too :( 1 in Singles & Dating

If so--you're lucky.

2007-04-25 17:35:46 · 27 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really need some advice about my crush. He likes my x-bestfriend!! What can I do?! I really like him.

2007-04-25 17:35:06 · 8 answers · asked by *oxox* 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend been going out for about almost 3 years hes sweet when he wants to be ,but now hes got worse we never fought like this ya we fought about little things and the fight only last fo about 15-20 mins but it all started about 4 months ago we got in a fight about how i always foget things and he get sooo mad and how i wont lisen to him whe n he wants me to do what he wants,i try to do eveything to make him happy, i cook, clean, and i do his laundry for him and were not even married im only 19 yrs old, and when i want him to do something for me ,oh im tired thats his excuse, i know im not perfect but i try my hardest to do things for him, about 2 months this year he pushed me because i made him mad and he through me down on the ground sat on top of me and just screamed at me, i never thought he would ever do that to me ever,hes a nice guy,sweet but t at times hes a totally diferent person when his friends r around then he wants to hold he to his chest and buy me things!

2007-04-25 17:34:59 · 8 answers · asked by nessarocx@verizon.net 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I have a friend that I have drawn very close to. I might even be able to call her a 'best friend'. But lately, she's been hanging out with another friend, and it's driving me mad. I can never talk to her about the problem I'm experiencing because I'm afraid of the outcome. I keep having thoughts that she might even think its a hilarious reason to get mad/jealous at. But, I am very jealous of the person she's hanging out with, I do have some idea on why I am jealous (because my close friend might draw closer to the other person, and just forget that I even exist) but I cant take this neglect, it hurts me really bad on the inside that she might forget what we built up. Any ideas? Tips?

2007-04-25 17:29:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Last year me and my friend had a baby together trust me no one was more shock than me that i was pregnant since we had protection at the time. Anyways we had alittle girl and she's 5 months right now and doing very well. We can't take care of her like we wanted to so we decided to place her in open adoption. The parents we picked are really nice and we still get to see her. About 2 weeks ago we had to go to court and give up our rights as parents and it was very hard on both of us but we wanted what was best for her. In the begining we still were around eachother and talked but then when we sign papers to get our court date we rarley spoke to one another in court was the first time iv'e seen him in months. I ask him to talk with me about it and he text me saying that he couldnt talk about it and doubts he ever could. That mad me so angry because he may not need to but i do he promised me that he would always be there if i ever needed someone to talk to. Is it wrong that i'm angry?

2007-04-25 17:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by Dark_Fire_Angel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't see the difference between Having a girlfriend and a girl who you date. What benefit do you get if you have a girlfriend. Please no joke.

2007-04-25 17:26:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this best friend and i always feel like i am competeing against other of her best friends for attention. I cant do this anymore. I know i need to talk to her about it but what do i say? what if she gets mad

2007-04-25 17:21:27 · 3 answers · asked by cheyenne b 1 in Friends

Thats what i always say so every one. what is your answer to his question?

2007-04-25 17:20:16 · 3 answers · asked by james w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girl just got a lump sum check for child support for a large sum of money. She also started a job finally after being off work for more than 3 years. She goes out and buys her kids all kinds of stuff and did not take care of of the important stuff even though I reminded her of the things she said she was going to do. She blows the money and tells me I have to pay her back have the money the spent on all this junk that could have wanted so she can pay off things she should have. I told her to take some of that stuff back and pay her bills. She says no she bought that for her kids. Mind you I am the money maker in the house struggleing to take care of her and her kids of which I love. I think she is wrong for arguing with me for money I had no say so of how she spends it. Out of all that money she gives me $100.00. I never once asked her for nothing but she wants me to pay half. What do you all think about this? Am I wrong for feeling this way? What should I do? Please help

2007-04-25 17:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by notcleaverenough 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-25 17:13:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi all, I need your advice what I should do: move on or continue?

I fell in love with a married woman who has a very unhappy marriage. Her husband disrepects her and treats like a free servant. Here are some examples: her husband force her to be the only one in family responsible for cooking everyday, but himself never cooks. Her husband force her to admit faults which is not hers. Her hsband told her to find way enjoying herself becasue he can't spend time with her. Her husband asks her to take care of herself because he is busy. Her husband ask her to abort their child 3 times because he think they don't have enough money(in fact they have more 2 million chinese yuan in bank account).

She is unhappy, and she fell in love with me. However, she felt guilty to leave her husband, not wanting to hurt him. So she decided to end our relationship even if she loves me. What should I do? continue to keep contacting her or should I move on my life? I know she still loves me. Please help!

2007-04-25 17:02:34 · 48 answers · asked by need_advice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are disagreeing on weather or not to buy a gift for a couple whose wedding we are not attending. Let me give you both sides of the argument, and please give us your opinion.

Situation: We are not good friends with the couple. In fact, the girl was with a friend of ours a few years ago, and cheated on him with another friend. Since then, we became involved in a social group w/ them, and became aquantances. The dinner group doesn't meet anymore and we just got an invitation to the wedding. If we never would have been in this group, we wouldn't have been invited. We're not going because we don't really know them.
My argument: we need to buy them a gift because it's proper etiquite. We got an invitation, and are not attending, and they should still get a gift, even if small, from us
His argument: "not only do we not know them, I don't like the bride. She cheated on my friend and who cares about etiquite. They don't deserve a gift just because they sent us an invitation

2007-04-25 16:32:52 · 20 answers · asked by smiles6428 2 in Weddings

Ladies Answers only PLEASE

2007-04-25 16:32:32 · 11 answers · asked by Jo-Jo 2 in Singles & Dating

My partner and I want to have sex in a public place, most likely a grassy or wooded area, doesn't have to be a park or anything.. we're looking for a place to have fun during the night but we're nervous about getting caught by the cops. Has anyone out there had sex in a park or anything at night? How did it go, and did you get caught? Also, I'm not talking about parking somewhere and getting down in the car-- I mean like, rolling around on the grass .. any suggestions or advice?

2007-04-25 16:28:59 · 20 answers · asked by embryonicreject 3 in Singles & Dating

I was in a 3 year relationship with a guy who i truely loved. At first it was a fling, then it became serious, he asked me to meet his family, then to move in with him, and thought to myself that there is def a future, i fell in love and opened my heart to him. Then 6 months ago i was suddenly dumped by him telling me that he couldn't pretend anymore, he was unhappy for last few weeks, doesnt know why because "something" had changed. I was so devastated and so heart broken that i refused to have anything to do him. Right now im trying to move on, am enjoying my single life and now everytime i go out, there are so many guys that are interested in me, but im not. I do have fun with them, but i dont feel interested in any of them. My friends are pressuring me "why dont you get a bf, there are so many interested in you". I always tell them i dont NEED a man. But I honestly dont know why. Am i still not over my ex or am i too scared in loving again and getting hurt.

2007-04-25 16:27:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship for 15 yrs (common-law) had 2 children by him we bought a home togerther. Now we are seperated I. I just want to know what can I do to keep him away and to stay with the house? Does anyone know rather if I would stay with our home? I just want to stay in our home cause he makes alot of money on a weekly basises and I dont make much at my job versus him and I'm also going to school as well. Anyone know of any websites of family law and sooo forth..

2007-04-25 16:27:22 · 7 answers · asked by liontiver1992 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been cutting myself and they bleed. how do i hide them other than wearing a jacket? please please help!!!!

2007-04-25 16:26:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok well I got this new b/f well hes my first b/f and I need to know the basice of a relationship, and when it is ok to do certen things or what not to do or what not to do si I dont make my b/f up set or fill badly.....

2007-04-25 16:22:48 · 7 answers · asked by magan m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this best friend who doesnt give me like any attention at all, so the only way to get it ... is to act like im mad at her. this isnt right but i dont know what else i can do. HelP!!

2007-04-25 16:13:22 · 16 answers · asked by cheyenne b 1 in Friends

I have this best friend who is also best friends with 2 other girls. Whenever it is just me and her, we are perfect. But when the 4 of us, i am ignored. And if my best friend and i are walking in the hall and talking and she sees one of them, we will just leave me to go with them. What should i do?

2007-04-25 16:05:27 · 5 answers · asked by cheyenne b 1 in Friends

2007-04-25 15:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by help needed 1 in Family