Family & Relationships - 25 April 2007

i returned home in 2001 to our 35y/o family 2flat. my mom is sickly but very strong willed. i am the most dependable child of her 3 children and i am the youngest. im a single young mom of a 17 and 8 year old. my fiancee will be returning home from the service in 4 months and soon will get married. my mom has refinanced our home a couple times and she is almost max out of her equity.last yr she found herself regrettfully getting into a adjustable rate and now trying to get out of it. im new to this mortgage game(she is very secretive)and im now in my thirties playing catch up. i pay rent and i provide other resources of money to help her get by but she still wants more money. she doesnt want to rent my apartment for fear of unreliable tenant, she doesnt want me to live with her,she feels i am not tidy enough..i want to move my kids out this neighborhood. but i dont want to leave my mom alone.i tried to get her to sell .i still have to have ask to wash clothes and use the garage!!!

2007-04-25 15:45:25 · 9 answers · asked by JAYE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

These past two days I have been extremely hormonal and irrational. My boyfriend understands that I get like this before and during the first couple days of my period. Tonight I must have sounded like a lunatic. I snapped at him over stupid things and when our conversation was over I felt really really bad. I decided to say, "Look...Just bear with me for the next two days. I'm sorry. I just listened to myself and I sound ridiculous.." I just had a miscarriage a month ago so my body is still balancing out my hormones, which makes it even worse. Anyway, do you think I should carry on tomorrow as if I'm fine? Should I throw in another apology or would that seem like I'm dwelling on it and still being irrational? See...I told you I'm emtional....

2007-04-25 15:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I cant stand to be around my parents. If i be around them we are only going to end up arguing. So i stay as far away from them as possible. I am 16 years old and a senior in high school. I make straight A`s and never give my parents any trouble. But i have to be home at 11:00 and cant go out after 8. They dont trust me at all. I mean, i cant even date boys. What kind of crap is that? I have to sneak and meet them somewhere. I hate being here with them so much that i got me a job. I am so grateful for that job because it is less time i have to spend at home with them. It has gotten to the point where i dred coming home. My parents are too strict and dont trust me at all. When my brother was my age they treated way better and gave him more freedom. I honestly dont think there is an hour that goes by that i dont dream about the day i graduate and move off to college. I only have one more school year. Then it is all over, but for the time being could someone help me?

2007-04-25 15:36:55 · 11 answers · asked by sweetiepie9955 2 in Friends

I dont care if we watch it together. Otherwise im not for it. I dont watch it. Its might just be my pregnancy hormones. But he mixed his own video too.

2007-04-25 15:31:59 · 40 answers · asked by ~desi~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 15:31:56 · 17 answers · asked by CookieCruncher 2 in Singles & Dating

im waiting for one, but i just keep waiting and waiting and waiting.....why cant it just pop up right now??

2007-04-25 15:29:23 · 27 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy from India, and we want to be together here is the USA forever. How can he get permission or whatever to come to the USA to stay forever? What does he need to do and how much will it cost? Can anyone help me?

2007-04-25 15:28:53 · 5 answers · asked by TTC#2 4 in Marriage & Divorce

today is mine && my boyfriend 9 months. i called him this morning just to wish us a happy anniversarry && all he said was .."oh, happy anniversarry !!"
he hasnt called me for 5 days. i call him everyday .. but we only talk for a quick minute && we''re off the phone. he's too busy getting high && im tired of it? but its like this .. i cant leave him cause i honestly love him to death, i do. i waited for him for 6 months `till we finally became official.
i need more advice then just 'move on'. i cant. is mine && his relationship falling apart?

2007-04-25 15:28:27 · 16 answers · asked by em_LEEN 2 in Singles & Dating

attractive, a big chested girl with a flat butt or flat chested girl with a big butt?

2007-04-25 15:25:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just recently got engaged before my fiance left to go work overseas. He insists on "chatting" online and encourages me to do the same. He just states as long as I don't sleep with them. I don't want to chat and i prefer him not to do it either. How do I tell him without sounding petty?

2007-04-25 15:24:06 · 10 answers · asked by tamika10jb 2 in Singles & Dating

masterbating???

2007-04-25 15:21:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Out of sheer interested, I just wanted to know which country's women do you generally find most people. I know every race and ethnicity have their fair share, but what is your opinion? Which country has the most amount of attractive personalities and faces?

2007-04-25 15:20:01 · 4 answers · asked by Black 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 15:17:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems they just dont, i would like them too....i think its cause im too nice....a lot of people just dont like me...people older do. i dont really do all the party stuff, like most people my age do (teenager stuff) ....so what kind of attitude can i start so i am a "chick magnet" (as corny as that sounds)

2007-04-25 15:14:46 · 10 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

we have to kidds.he spend every dalloer he has, and dosent care of bring anything home

2007-04-25 15:11:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 15:05:19 · 3 answers · asked by kellybelle_08 1 in Weddings

she talks bad about me to everyone, doesn't respect me, doesn't remember the mean things she's said to me. tells me things like she's horny but doesn't want to have sex with me. I tell her if it's so bad why doesn't she just get the hell out but she's still here!!!! why won't she pull the trigger and leave me?
does she secretly want to be with me. If so she has an odd way of showing it. nothing i do helps with her. if i'm nice, she's a *****. if i'm cold to her, she's a *****. why would she stay? would you women want to stay if you treated your husband like this? it's like she's purposely trying to destroy the marriage but then won't freaking leave. leaving for me isn't a possibility. it's my house and i have two kids from a previous marriage.by the way she also suffers from mild depression and apparently according to her i'm the cause.

2007-04-25 15:05:05 · 39 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever noticed that most relationships (friends / lovers or Mairrages) all seem to have a natural expiry date, you know when the milk goes from sweet, to slighly off to BAD?

2007-04-25 15:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by Hootie J 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Well... My aunt was like A 2nd mom to me. She died earleyer today... I am really up set and dont know how to get over it. Help please

2007-04-25 14:55:06 · 9 answers · asked by Yawners 1 in Family

this girl.....i dont know what happened but we suddenly stopped talkin.....she says hi once in a freagin blue moon.....i dont know what happened but she suddenly stopped makin like all possible contact with me.....me and her use 2 be like almost datin....but i think she was offened when i stood her up cuz i had 2 go to my cousin's wedding.....its not like i had a choice.....but bottom line she wont make contact with me....she calls my "friend" i dont know if she is just flirtin with him 2 make me mad or if she just used me 2 get close to my "friend"
i am not his friend anymore cuz this....he doesnt know she is flirting with him
what the heck should i do?

2007-04-25 14:55:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what if he wants me back after i meet someone else what to do

2007-04-25 14:51:17 · 19 answers · asked by Veronica D 1 in Singles & Dating

*sniffle*
i have never been in love before and then he comes along. It was all great, then all of a sudden, DUMPED!!! He didn't give me a reason.

2007-04-25 14:50:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 14:48:06 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 14:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by JESS, 2 in Family

My mom had seven girls and only two visit her at least once a week. Three of them only go see her once a year at Christmas. What can I do to get my sisters to visit our mother?

2007-04-25 14:47:01 · 4 answers · asked by Dance 4 in Family

2007-04-25 14:46:27 · 21 answers · asked by dovegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend for a year and a half are thinking about taking a break from eachother.... Does taking a break really help your relationship get better becuase you could miss your love one and want to be back together.... Have you had this happen to you before? Help me... Please...

2007-04-25 14:44:40 · 4 answers · asked by KenKel1122 3 in Singles & Dating

Does it actually work?

2007-04-25 14:44:31 · 8 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is rude not to have cake at the wedding reception? I would have a dessert table or chocolate fountain instead of a cake but my sister says that we must have a cake. My fiance and I do not like Cake so why spend a lot of money on one? She also told me that guests would be upset if there was no cake? Who goes to weddings just for the cake anyway? Let me know what you think please I will have a cake if it is considered rude not to but I think other desserts would be just as nice.

2007-04-25 14:41:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 28 years old and have only slept with three people so when it comes to sex I really do not know a whole lot but here goes, I have been seeing this person for a few months & we recently became intimate and I noticed his penis in curved is that normal???

2007-04-25 14:39:44 · 30 answers · asked by I<3JAI 2 in Singles & Dating