this girl.....i dont know what happened but we suddenly stopped talkin.....she says hi once in a freagin blue moon.....i dont know what happened but she suddenly stopped makin like all possible contact with me.....me and her use 2 be like almost datin....but i think she was offened when i stood her up cuz i had 2 go to my cousin's wedding.....its not like i had a choice.....but bottom line she wont make contact with me....she calls my "friend" i dont know if she is just flirtin with him 2 make me mad or if she just used me 2 get close to my "friend"
i am not his friend anymore cuz this....he doesnt know she is flirting with him
what the heck should i do?
2007-04-25 14:55:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can not see anyway i can just leave her and go on with my life
2007-04-25 15:03:29 · update #1
sounds like a few things...first talk to her somehow some way...either on the phone, in an email, or messenger or face to face if she'll stop and listen ..explain again that you had to go to your cousins wedding...show her pictures of that day to prove it if you can...tell her you don't want her to stop talking with you* Open the communication lines with her and ask her to explain why she has stopped talking altogether with you? Try to resolve this problem and get things back on track. Communication Honesty and Trust are the keys to a long healthy relationship, without those you have nothing*~ Invite her to go get ice cream on a nice night and talk things through. I'm sure it's all a misunderstanding. Don't allow this to go without trying to talk things through. as for this 'friend' of yours whom seems blind by her flirting with him either doesn't want you to know that he likes her to and isnt sure what to do but since now your'e not his friend...he's probably considering going for it and asking her out* she could be trying to make you jealous to see if you really have feelings for her or you don't care and will walk away and say nothing? or she really does like him and really did use you to get to him* Only one way to find out is to TALK with her. Ask her some questions and let the truth come out* At least then you'll know if her feelings are for you or for him*~
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2007-04-25 15:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible she might have used you to get to the friend or maybe was upset that you went to the wedding.
Either way, don't worry so much about it. If she'll ditch you over something family-related, something you had to attend, then she's showing herself as a control freak and a selfish person. You're better off without her.
If she's flirting with your friend to make you mad, turn the tables on her and simply show no emotion. don't let her games upset you because that's what she wants. Soon, she'll realize her game backfired on her.
2007-04-25 15:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Delita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your situation sounds kinda like mine... I asked this guy out and he rescheduled the first time then he didn't reply on the second time... so now, I just stopped contacting him... So for your case, I think the girl is just trying to be hard to get cause she might have thought that you weren't interested cause you didn't go out with her, or she might be mad at you... she might be waiting for you to make a move so that she wouldn't have to look desperate for making another move... So yeah, I think you should ask her out to let her know that you're interested and explain and apologize about last time. Good luck =)
2007-04-25 15:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
going through a similar problem dude.........in my case it was worst.....I didnt do any thing......I just gave her a gift......
Anyways.......after lot of thinking I realized that patience is key.......things will fall in their place.......Just dont give up.......and dont feel rejected..........
2007-04-25 15:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do everything you did befroe to make her "almost go out with you"!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-25 14:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋