Trust me on this. You will find your true love when you least expect it. Stop trying so hard to look for it (I know this is very very hard to do). I went through exactly the same problems you did. But it was when I gave up and stopped looking, that love knocked on my door.
Example 1- (not true love here, but good example) Every time I went out, I dressed up as if I was going to meet that special someone. I never did. One day, I went out without dressing up. I felt like why should I?? Its not like anythings going to happen because it never does. Sure enough, I had a cute guy ask for my number, even though I felt crappy and ugly.
Example 2- (this time true love) I started a new job at the pet store. I was certain, I was going to find my true love here (I don't know why, but I just knew). So I ended up asking out 3 of the guys there (not all at once), and all first dates ended up horribly. I gave up. I thought I was doomed to spend eternity alone. I kept thinking how stupid I was to convince myself that I would find my soul mate at this job. Sure enough, my true love came waltzing through the door (literally, he did, which is kind of funny). We've been together ever since. I whole 10 years!!!! It was when I stopped looking that I found him.
I hope I have been of some help. You seem like such a nice guy, that its pretty surprising that you are not taken yet. I believe there is someone for everyone. And you definitely have someone who is looking for you, but can't find you either.
2007-04-25 17:16:42
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answered by Anonymous
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If love came so easy then it wouldnt be specail. I mean think about it if you could be in love with someone in five minutes would it be that special? The longer it takes to fall in love, the longer it takes to fall out. The longer you wait for and crave that love then the day that it does happen it will be the best thing that ever happened to you and you'll be glad that you didnt fall in love so easy. I know its hard, i've been there before and i know it get lonley. But believe me its worth the wait when one day you look at this person and your like omg i love them and every other love you had before seems so small. I hope this helps you out a little and makes you feel better. Stop thinking about it so much, let it suprise you.
2007-04-25 16:57:01
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answered by Danielle 1
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It takes time prayer and patience. Do you go to places that you can meet women that may have similar interests? Can
your friends introduce you to people they may know? You
have to try different things to meet new people. All kinds of
places such as fund raisers, museums, plays, church, parties.
It is better to wait for the right one than to settle due to loneliness. When you focus on other things and forget about
this for a while it will happen when you least expect it.
You will know when it happens. It will be exciting to you and
wonderful. You will see!!!
2007-04-25 15:47:25
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answered by messenger 2
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The factor you seek is called "chemistry" and its not an easy thing to come across. Ever hear the saying...the waiting is the hardest part? Thats so true to. I know its not fun but payday is well worth it. Trust me on that. Meantime just try to live your life as happy as you possibly can. Best wishes to ya.
2007-04-25 15:53:10
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answered by Smarty Pants™ 7
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maybe because western culture believes in a idea of love that is a myth. Real lasting love is hard, it takes work, your not going to have everything in common, there's times when everything they do will annoy the hell out of you. It takes hard work, dedication, loyality, ethics, unselfishness and a sense of duty. The best thing is to get your house in order and become the best man you can be to be worthy of a good woman when she comes along. And like the rest of us you'll have to wade through alot of selfish harlots before you find a good one.
2007-04-25 15:36:13
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answered by Anonymous
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I believe everyone has a soul mate and when yours comes along you wont have to wait anymore you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt that , that person is for you hang in there, and dont settle for someone else if it doesnt feel right.
2007-04-25 15:36:03
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answered by Anonymous
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hiya, i will relate thoroughly. the single man or woman i'm truly into isn't available and it pisses me off. i'm continuously getting hit on via guys previous adequate to be my father, and performance difficulty searching someone who i imagine is nicely worth it. also, i have been informed i'm very alluring. yet I actually have found out what my challenge is, i have had my heart damaged via a guy who I loved with each thing I had. and that created an emotional block for myself. yet i'm getting to recognize to open up, and keep my recommendations open. desire I helped somewhat. :)
2016-12-04 21:22:33
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answered by ? 4
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Because it is worth the wait!! Anything worth having is worth waiting for. It will, just try to be patient.
2007-04-25 15:33:42
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answered by Randy 5
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If love is instant & quick, it's not real. It takes more than just what you see, what you hear or what you think. You have to really feel it. Your heart is the love radar. You'll know it when one is near. You will find the one very soon ;)
2007-04-25 16:16:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Because you are human and we were created for one another. Being alone isn't natural, thats why its so hard ! But perhaps your standards my be unrealistic........no one is ever going to be perfect. You will know that special someone when they come along. Its usually when you are not looking, and usually the one you don't think is for you!
2007-04-25 15:34:21
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answered by Anonymous
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