Family & Relationships - 25 April 2007

My husband and I got into a heated conversation yesterday because he feels that its ok to talk to his family and his coworkers about what takes place in our marriage. I feel that "What goes on at home, stays at home." What is your take on this situation?

2007-04-25 01:46:44 · 21 answers · asked by Mom of Three 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 01:45:26 · 23 answers · asked by yuvi 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night during his sleep he removed his ring and put it on his right hand!! We have been together now for 15 months and love each other very much and have a great relationship. Why do you think he removed it and put it on his right hand - or am I thinking and looking into this too much!!!

2007-04-25 01:44:11 · 27 answers · asked by YUM MUM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I"m 47yr old,Had many experiances,well travled, live in a caravan in the country, I"m happy and out going, ride a motorbike drive a car.work full time.

2007-04-25 01:43:51 · 10 answers · asked by mafattih 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday at school this boy who hates me threw paper at me because one of the popular girls hate me and I went in the hallway and started to cry and 1 of the boys went in and told everyone I was crying and i've missed too many days of school due to being bullied and made fun of I went to the principal but they dont do much What should I do?And the popular girl wants to fight me 4 nothing that concerns them again

2007-04-25 01:43:28 · 9 answers · asked by Ecrush 1 in Friends

She has made it a point to make a bad situation worse. It has been a long road to recovery with my hubby, but things have been great! He has truley repented for his mistake a always took full responsibility (although the other woman told me she was very persistent with him until he gave in...he was working hundreds of miles from all family and friends for months...and she workd with the same company) and has told me how stupid and selfish he was. He apologizes all of the time and really makes it a point to show me a lot of love and patienc in my healing process. The problem is the other woman finds a way to contact me every few months to rehash everything and to tell me how much he loved her and how miserable he is with me. She said he told her we had grown apart and was only here for our son who is 10. I gave him every oppurtunity to leave with ample visitation, but he wanted to fix things and go to counseling. She said he was not attracted to me and did not want to have sex ...

2007-04-25 01:42:03 · 20 answers · asked by Nothing but the truth...!! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and him had sex and we didnt use a condom, ive been with him for years now, and we love and trust eachother...not saying i dont have to be cautious..anyhow, i had a yeast infection and we had sex with no condom can he get the yeast infection too...? well that night after we had sex i went to cvs and bought me the yeast infection medicine and it cured it, the smell went away and the itching too..then i had sex again with him this past week unprotectively and it started smelling like yeast infection again, now i have to buy the thing all over again, well can it be that i gave him the yeast infection and then he didnt treat it,i mean he knew i had it, but we just didnt know if a guy was able to contracted....no mean answers or stupid remarks people...only serious answers..please...

2007-04-25 01:40:32 · 15 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone out there ever seen the person they're romantically meant to be with, and knew it right away? I mean it's very mindboggling!! I was out and about, and saw a lady that i immediately thought was for me. She wasn't BEAUTIFUL, and didn't possess all the qualities i like in a lady, yet my eyes couldn't stop scoping on her. I would avert my stare, to not make her feel uncomfortable, but i couldn't stop looking over at her. Something in my mind was telling me, "red alert! red alert!" I haven't had this happen to me , and i was wondering what other people think. I don't even know if she thought the same. I believe once or twice did we lock eyes. It was just really overwhelming!

2007-04-25 01:38:17 · 1 answers · asked by snafu1 2 in Singles & Dating

in worke in home in the future

2007-04-25 01:38:01 · 10 answers · asked by buffy a 1 in Friends

Break-up How bad was it?

2007-04-25 01:36:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-25 01:34:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright guys, I need some help on what to do.. basically I met this girl online, she has seen a few of my pics, and I've seen a few of hers. Well I initiated contact first briefly, and since then she has been writing literally 10 page emails. She is constantly asking if I miss her, or feel a spark, and she wants to meet me so bad, and she is feeling a connection. Keep in mind I've never met her. She's already asking me about marriage, family values, and that she wouldn't go to medical school if it meant things working out with me.

Don't get me wrong, I write long emails back but nothing about a relationship. She talks about normal things too but it always goes back to "We have so much in common.. not to weird you out.. but I miss you, is that bad? I know we will hit it off. How about you?" Exactly what she says.

Anyway, what do you all think? Is she crazy, desperate for love, or what? Any ideas

2007-04-25 01:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me, because he likes someone else.

This girl...doesn't like him.

How do I make him want me back; or make him feel guilty
and sorry?

2007-04-25 01:28:31 · 25 answers · asked by Shauna. 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a bro in law and he has a sister, we like each other but can someone go out with an in law? curious...

2007-04-25 01:28:25 · 23 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not an arrogant person but certain siuations have made me rather complacent.

Every guy without exeption that i have ever had a crush on or liked has liked me too.

I am a pretty girl and men never seem to say no to me!

When i find out they like me back after it can progress i go off them and find fault with them.

When it comes to crunch i cannot bring myself to do it.

I have NEVER had a boyfriend i am 18

I have eventually rejected them all

I reall like a guy at the moment and i thought i would never have him and now he likes me!
and guess what only now are things starting to bother me about him e.g monobrow

i think i may be scared of intamacy

i dont want to be alone forevrer

please helpo

2007-04-25 01:21:18 · 24 answers · asked by Iris 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 01:21:18 · 17 answers · asked by shyamal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-25 01:20:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Also, whenever my parents and brother see Tobey Maguire; whether on TV or in his movies, I have been having the same feelings. What exactly do they mean?

2007-04-25 01:19:46 · 2 answers · asked by Louise Smith 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i liked this guy frm the very beginning. he was so sweet. he was flirting with me so i flirted back. but it was only later that i found out he's married!i just found that out on my own. i feel insulted(what makes him think i want to be a mistress?) and very hurt at the same time. anyway i still lyk him a lot but i know its sooo wrong. i respect marriage. i nver want to be a mistress. but i really lyk him. what do i do? he's still acting lyk before...sweet and all...

2007-04-25 01:09:15 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This during your getting together in bed. A woman usually waits for her partner to do first the move. Though inside her, she wants to do the opposite?

2007-04-25 01:05:15 · 6 answers · asked by julkritz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-25 01:05:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my man stares at other women and it kills me. He used to constantly stare at them and i confrunted him about it and told him that it upsets me when he does that and so he stopped, but now and again he looks at other girls and it hurts my feelings and if tell him about it he denies it and says am paranoid, i dont know about you but i feel small when hes looking elsewhere cos i make an effort to look good for him and i keep up with fasion, make up and hair, he omliments me but still looks at some other blondie or a girl who practically wears nothing. i can accept there are pretty girls out there and i can accept that my man will look at them but id like him not to stare, what should i do about it? or shouldnt i bother? am confident within myself and if i looked at another man it doesnt bother him (althou sometimes i wish it does). he says at the end of the day he comes home to me and he wouldnt run off with someone else, please help, do all men jus stare? how do i solve this?

2007-04-25 01:04:56 · 31 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend really really loves me. I've never felt so loved before in my whole life. He has really opened up to me and made himself vulnerable in a way he's never done before. He's sure he wants to be with me for the rest of our lives. But I'm not so sure. He's so young (22) and quite unexperienced - I can't be sure of what he will be like in five or ten years. I want to get married soon and have kids in a couple of years. He wants that too, but I don't know if he's ready. The real issue, in addition to the age thing, is the fact that I'm a Christian and he's not. I'm active in a church as a choir leader. But my faith has had its rough turns. I had two years of depression, when I couldn't see any point in me living instead of dying. Then I decided I had to do something about my life, because clearly no one including God would come and just make everything alright again. And it went OK. And then I met my boyfriend. He has helped me in many ways - he makes me feel like a beautiful pers

2007-04-25 00:59:58 · 16 answers · asked by ambivalent 1 in Weddings

I find it really hurtful. So then, I withhold affection because I know he'll always expect it to turn to something else. Even if he does give me a cuddle at night, his hands can't just be round my waist. I've talked to him time and time again, but he never changes. He just stops the affection.

2007-04-25 00:59:11 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 00:58:54 · 2 answers · asked by paps 1 in Family

We seldom get to write what we want on our tombstones. If given a chance, how do you want to be remembered? What impression do you want to leave to someone gazing at your tombstone 100 years from now?

2007-04-25 00:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a chinese. I jus started work in a Jap Co. in Asia. I hv a male colleague from London which i find him smhow very special. He is the only Caucasian in our Co. He doesn't talk to our colleagues unnecessarily, unless related to work, n at times just simply greet gd morning to his dept colleagues. He seldom goes for lunch with our co. collegues and always eat alone unless he meet up with some caucasian friends outside. I am really very curious abt him but i dare not talk to him cos he speaks with a very strong accent. We hv not talk to each other ever before even many times we took the same lift (only the two of us in the lift). I also did not take the initiative to speak to him cos i wasn't sure how to begin the conversation. And also whenever i look at him he will quickly look away. Why is this so? i always thought that westerners are very open? in the sense very open to making friends etc. How come he is not? I really wonder how westerners behave cos i nv had a caucasian friend b4.

2007-04-25 00:52:50 · 4 answers · asked by megal 1 in Friends

my mother and father divorced when i was young, since then my father has had minimal contact with me eg only on bdays via phone and a phone call every 6 months or so. My father will be invited to the wedding but i do not wish him to walk me down the aisle, instead i would like my brother to walk me downs. Is this ok?

2007-04-25 00:33:05 · 27 answers · asked by r_j_8_12_07 1 in Weddings

Tomorrow I am going to go and talk to this guy that works at a butcher shop, but I don't think that he is actually a butcher, but just a server person, just so you don't think he's a disgusting butcher guy and I'm disgusting too (not that there's anything wrong with them tho, just comments people have said lol). Anyway, i have never spoken to him before and totally do not know what to say! Can someone please tell me what to say?

Do I just go up to him and say "hey, how's your day goin?" and start from there?? And if I do do that, what do I say after he's replied? I don't want to just stand there for an awkward silence time, incase he asks if I wanna buy anything, which I don't lol. People have said to have a conversation with him about our interests, but I have NO idea how to get there. I dunno wat to say after how r u goin or whatever. I do know that I want to give him my number, name and msn address and that I will introduce myself.

2007-04-25 00:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by bubble wrapping 5 in Singles & Dating

for example : some animals abandon their new born or moms throw away their new born sons even though they could raise them but they lack of that love or somethen...

2007-04-25 00:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by kate 1 in Family