Tomorrow I am going to go and talk to this guy that works at a butcher shop, but I don't think that he is actually a butcher, but just a server person, just so you don't think he's a disgusting butcher guy and I'm disgusting too (not that there's anything wrong with them tho, just comments people have said lol). Anyway, i have never spoken to him before and totally do not know what to say! Can someone please tell me what to say?
Do I just go up to him and say "hey, how's your day goin?" and start from there?? And if I do do that, what do I say after he's replied? I don't want to just stand there for an awkward silence time, incase he asks if I wanna buy anything, which I don't lol. People have said to have a conversation with him about our interests, but I have NO idea how to get there. I dunno wat to say after how r u goin or whatever. I do know that I want to give him my number, name and msn address and that I will introduce myself.
2007-04-25 00:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by bubble wrapping 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please tell me what to do and what to say and how to be!
Also if you've done this yourself and it worked.
2007-04-25 00:31:55 · update #1
Also if it helps ur answer I am only 15
2007-04-25 00:38:38 · update #2
i would just walk in there and be bold...i would approach him and say something like, "i think you may need this", give him everything already written down on paper...smile while he looks at it and when he is done he will probably look at you confused (coz he WILL be i am sure) and then just keep smiling and tell him something like, "i hope you decide to use it." then just leave...the ball will be in HIS court then
on the paper have your name, number and all and just tell him (in writing) that you have been admiring him from afar and want to get to know him better
2007-04-25 00:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont give your number just yet say hi buy some things ask whats the special, what is best for cooking tonight. Is this a good sale for some bacon. Do you know how to make a good roast? Whats the best way to prep meat? Go from there!
2007-04-25 07:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by taa daa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, be yourself, whoever you are.
Second, be calm
You could always ask him if this or that cut of meat is fresher. Then ask if he's a butcher as well as a salesperson.
Then reach out to shake hands and say Oh, my name's whatever.
By then he'll know you're interested and you should be okay.
2007-04-25 07:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up with some confidence and say hi. It has to start somewhere!!! you can always ask him out if you feel that he is interested, but don't be shy or scared....you'll send mixed signals and he may not pick up on your intent.
2007-04-25 07:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question. "Hey how are you?" is a a great conversation starter, from there you just keep going, how's you're day? what are you doing later? any plans for this evening? maybe you want some company?
It's easy really, daunting, but easy.
Good luck, you'll be great
2007-04-25 07:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
start with hello, how are things see how he replies tell him you've seen him around ask his name and if he's single this will let him know your interested if he is to he'll pitch in from there if he's not say it was nice to meet you and see you around then walk out the door.good luck
2007-04-25 07:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ronni 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be relaxed and natural. Try to be nice and polite. That's all.
2007-04-25 07:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
write him a letter, tell your feelings,write your number and email adress, and give it to him.
if he was intrested in u he will call you.
2007-04-25 07:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by zoyaaa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋