Family & Relationships - 25 April 2007

My best friend's mom died of cancer last year when we were in 6th grade. I'm really close with her but i don't know what to say when ever topics of death,moms,cancer or things like that come up. I want to talk to her about it but we both get extremely sad all the time about it.

2007-04-25 08:29:09 · 5 answers · asked by colleeneybooboo 2 in Friends

I bought a house when I was single, met a woman then married her. She has had no contribution into the house in terms of money, bills and has never resided at the address. Is she entitled to half of it if we split up? Please settle my mind.

2007-04-25 08:25:19 · 27 answers · asked by john 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a bad past love story. and since that i never to fall in love serously in guys. i do admire people but that is just the bound,not more than that.i am afraid that i might get hurt once again and this feeling make me confused when there's guy approaching me. i am seeking help from you all that how do i can put trust in a guy and how to make me believe that i should try a relationdship ?

2007-04-25 08:24:01 · 1 answers · asked by cheesy_gal 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for nearly 6 years now and last week I found something quite disturbing. While cleaning and organizing (I'm a stay at home mom, I do it all day long, no I wasn't snooping) I found a note he had wrote to my best friend telling her that he has feelings for her and wants her to be happy. He never lets her know who he is nor does he say he wants a relationship with her. He just says he wants her to be happy and that he wants to be happy. Then at the end of the letter he leaves his cell phone number. I confronted him about it and he says it was just therapeutic and he only did it to get her out of his mind and that ever since then things have been better he just hasn't had a chance to get rid of it without me seeing it. I know what hes going through as I have gone through something very similar and he was very understanding. We are working through it but the problem is I have told my friend about it but didn't tell her it was her. Shoud I? Why or why not??

2007-04-25 08:18:27 · 25 answers · asked by Wanda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I NOT tell her I'm sexually active, and just ask for birth control instead?
Should I be 100% honest?
HOW DO I ASK HER FOR BIRTH CONTROL WITHOUT HER FREAKING OUT?

2007-04-25 08:17:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-25 08:16:32 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am currently stationed in Iraq. I have been deployed for over ten months and don't want to just write I love and miss you all the time. Have been rather creative at times, but now back to the same plain I love and miss you. Though I know she injoys whatever I write. Just feel I need say some thing new! Any creative writing tips would be great!

2007-04-25 08:14:55 · 17 answers · asked by Sarge 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im writing bc during the summer my bf will be leaving for over a year to afghanistan. Im so sad and I love him so much. Can anyone identify and tell me how to prepare myself for this hard upcoming year? Im pretty positive I can be faithful, but how realistic do you think it is and what happens if i do meet someone? Do you think its smart being that we've been together only 7 months? I need some good advice!

2007-04-25 08:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by starlillie99 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 08:12:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey every 1, i have a question. my bf came over last nite durin the middle of the nite and we stripped down to our underwear and made out. it was special, but not that special. What do I do?

2007-04-25 08:11:35 · 35 answers · asked by luv2dance432@yahoo.com 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 08:11:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in a case where you changed your password and have not told your husband,(both of you use to access each others e-mail box).but suddenly discover that he has also changed his own in reaction to yours when he tried to read your mail and he couldt login, without asking you why you changed your password and yet still calls you sweetie even after he chaged his password that same day.and you later in the day tried to acess his mail only to find out what has happend. (sincerely speaking you changed the password because you are compelled to do it when an instrution came while acesssing your mail)pls i need to know if such a person loves you as he claimed he does.

2007-04-25 08:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been spending time w/ my girl friend alot lately and when i say alot i mean alot, at least 7 hours a day.she asks me to come over, how do i tell her to give just a lil more space?, i really love her alot, but how much is too much?

2007-04-25 08:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 5 years, my husband cheated on me with this woman, she is military, and I would love nothing more than to tell her superior about what heppend, but then that would get my husband in trouble as well. I know this woman's number, but I dont know her address. What can I do to make her life hell. She has mssed my life up, now its her turn. Also, I want to turn the tables on my husband, he is always the one that I have to apologize to, I have to kiss his butt, and when we fight, even if its his fault, I am always the one taking the blame. I am sick of it, I want him to kiss my butt, I want him to beg for my forgiveness. As it is, with this affair, he expected me to get over it, sinec I told him I would, right away. Mind you, this only came about like 2 months ago. Any suggestions, I live in a different state as my husband, as he is military and deployed in Arizona right now, so what can I do....?

2007-04-25 08:09:39 · 68 answers · asked by etrombetta41402 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the last two nights my boyfriend has been acting weird and im not sure what to think about it should I be prepared or what??

2007-04-25 08:09:06 · 26 answers · asked by Just me!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been crazy about this girl for going on two years. Whenever i feel like i get somewhere, like we kiss etc, we end up just doing that, but she never commits. Is she just using me?

This girllikes one of my best friends to make things worse. She never dates, or does for a few days but never lasts, and she sees multiple guys. I have no problem, if i do i don't get to have anything with her. Does she really like me?

2007-04-25 08:04:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've hired a seamstress to make the bridesmaid dresses for our wedding, but she wants to know what style to make and I have no idea what will look good on everyone. I have six bridesmaids ranging from sizes 4 to 20.

2007-04-25 08:03:03 · 14 answers · asked by CherryBlossom 3 in Weddings

I've been dating on and off for almost 3 years now and I just become more and more discouraged with each new person. I'm 31 years old and I'm looking for a life partner, not just a boyfriend. I have to be selective because I'm a divorcee and I can't repeat the same mistakes twice. Does anyone have any good solid dating advise? How do you know when you finally meet the "one"? :(

2007-04-25 08:00:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 07:56:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at Quiznose waiting on the line to order my sub when I spotted a beautiful brunette. I looked at her with a smile and went on with my business. I ordered my sub. So while waiting for the sub I was looking for a place to sit. There were a couple of tables with at least on person sitting there, so I preferred to share the table with this girl. I asked her if I may share the table with her. She did not mind.
She was eating a salad. After a moment of silent I wanted it to say something and get rid of this awkward moment. So I said, “I always order sub never tried their salad how does it taste?” She said “actually I cam her with the intention of getting a sub but then I tool a look at their menu and decide to try their salad. It tastes good. You should try it”
Her phones rings and there she is talking on the phone with (which I learned later) her brother. Her brother apparently asked something to which she responded “I am on Quiznose having lunch with my new boyfriend”. I jiggled and kept eating. I was in hurry to get back to work.
She was taking with her brother weather she should go to her grandfather funeral or not, etc. She realized that I was done so wrapped up her conversation with her brother saying “I gotta go now will finish this later. My date is almost done with his lunch”
When she hanged up I told her that I am sorry about her grand father. She told she doesn’t really know him and not actually her grandfather. Rather, he is her grandmother husband and she is not sure if she should go to his funeral. I told her she should. She should pay respect to the family especially her grandmother.
I then mentioned that both my parents have passed and that I spent most of my childhood with them since my father was always here (USA) most of the time. Then she asked my how long a been here for which lead to many other venues. We laughed at how I get lost on the subway when I first came and how horrible that food tasted, etc. In another word we had a good time.
I asked her for her number to keep in touch and she was happy to give it to me.
I texted her that following morning “good morning my new girlfriend” She replied and we texted back and forth. The following morning I texted her and she text me back saying “good morning sexy” I called her during lunch but she told me she was busing and she will call back and since then she never replied to any of my calls or message so I gave up on her.
CAN ANYONE EXPLAIN TO ME WHAT HAPPENED HERE? WHAT WENT WRONG? WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-04-25 07:54:56 · 4 answers · asked by EDD 2 in Singles & Dating

Are dating sites really effective for finding someone special?
Few years ago I used them and got into a LTR. Now I am back on the market and not sure if things hae changed. Just check on recent opinions. One seems like a scam site that sends misleading messages on behalf of other members. Another has ads offering 6 month free if you have no luck the first 6 months. But then they may have 6 months of your money and 12 months of your wasted time.

2007-04-25 07:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 07:52:24 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 07:51:13 · 51 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 07:51:13 · 8 answers · asked by noahsmommy1985 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine lives 30 minutes away and I find that too close!

2007-04-25 07:48:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey im 16 and my bf is 19. its just a 3 yr difference. He told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and I'm sure I want to be with him too. He is a national guard in the army. What do ya'll think about this? Please dont tell me that I'm to yeong or he is to old for me. I know what I want and I'm ready for this. I'm really mature about this stuff. so can you help me and give me suggestions please. I live with my parents in Ga but he wants me to go live with him in San Diego Cali.I would like to go except I dont think my parents would like the idea of me going all tha way to California though.I want to he is the sweetest and most romantic guy ever. We are in love and we want to be together. I know i'm not the only one getting married so yeong. there is a lot of teens doing it cuz their in love. I am sure that we will be together the rest of our lives. We want to be together and live in a nice apartment or house and have a baby one day. Can you give me any suggestions please?

2007-04-25 07:47:43 · 28 answers · asked by doncella c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my friends invited me to her wedding but on the invitation says "No boxed gifts" probably because after the wedding she will be moving to another state. I was thinking about giving her money (cash), or a gift card for a national retailer on a congratualations card, but I don't know what would be best, well mannered or how much.

Any suggestions?? How much should I give her??

2007-04-25 07:46:29 · 13 answers · asked by Kamy 3 in Weddings

i was with my husband for 3 years and stopped loving him a long time ago he was mentally abusive and no communication and had a big huge temper i put a pfa on him which stands for 18 months he hasnt tried bothering me so is it to early for me to start dating i em getting lonely ty so much for your input jewels

2007-04-25 07:44:03 · 3 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Though I may be left without words, hoping these flowers may show how much I really appreciate you. I miss you.


opinions please. thanks a bunch.

2007-04-25 07:43:49 · 12 answers · asked by shungukusatsu 2 in Singles & Dating

i was adopted and i want to find the "history " that they did on me how would i find it ..... History= my past what happened to me ect

2007-04-25 07:43:20 · 13 answers · asked by crystal m 4 in Family