Family & Relationships - 25 April 2007

I started going out with this guy today. Things have been going on for the past three weeks. But I am currently studying for my A-Levels and hope to do medicine at uni. I have an offer and need 2A's and a B so I really need to do well this term. But going out with this guy has thrown me. It doesn't feel quite right and these next few weeks I really have to concentrate. He is absolutely lovely but doesn't seem so far to have the ability to let my have my own space, something I am use to. It is our college Ball next friday and I was really looking forward to just spending it with my mates and having a laugh but now this guy is at my table and if he continues how he has been today, very clingy, I am frightened it will ruin it. I am not comfortable being in a relationship anyway and I am quite private, something he hasn't got yet, But I feel terrible cause I didn't stop this three weeks ago, I just got swept up into it. What do I do! Sorry it is so long!

2007-04-25 09:47:13 · 26 answers · asked by sam_sam0501 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I go to the mall and just tap on a shoulder and say you want this lol! (I know it doesn't work that way) But I've been in a relationship for the past 5 years and I forgot all about the dating game. And to make matter worse I moved to a city where I don't have any friends or know anyone! So someone help me get back my dating touch I had b4!

2007-04-25 09:46:41 · 1 answers · asked by Big Long on for that a** 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 4 months, He has brought up divorce over 10 times in the months we've been married. He says things like, "this is never going to work" even on our honeymoon. I just beg him to stay, tell him how much I love him and ask him to reconsider, a half hour later he'll be fine again.
I work full time, go to school (night classes), clean the house after a 14 hour day, make his lunch for him everynight, I cook him big dinners when I have time. I just try to make him happy. I bring him home gifts and treats that I think he'll appreciate. I feel like everything I do is wrong. The way I blow my nose makes him mad. He gets mad if I ask him not leave his dirty socks on our kitchen table and calls me a control freak. It seems like he dislikes everything I do.
Is this something that we can overcome? He always compares everything to when we were first together but relationships change. I love him and want to make it work. But everytime he says this it hurts

2007-04-25 09:45:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have been with my boyfriend for a yr. We are perfect together. He was married before and ended badly, she cheated on him and moved out of the house after only about a 1 1/2 of being married. The problem I have is his ex wife. She has not lived at his house for almost 2 years. First problem is her mail still comes to his house. He use to bring her mail to her at her work, now he just puts her new address on it & puts it back in the mailbox. He also will not come straight out & tell me when he talks to her. If I ask him he will tell me. He says whenever he does talk to her it is only when he has to not for pleasure talk. Well their divorce has been over with for a long time. There really should not be any thing that they should need to talk about. If that was me I would not want to have any thing to do with her. Need a opinion about this? I trust him very much & I know he would not cheat & I know I am not being nieve about this. Just cannot figure out why he puts up with her.what do I do

2007-04-25 09:45:56 · 4 answers · asked by butterfly_2blue 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 09:44:37 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She smiles when i hug her she huggs me back I think theres something but theres this really sexy puertorican guy thats all ways all up on her hes claerly better looking and has a better body than me .. Im afraid she really like him how can I win her heart and keep her away from that spanish guy !!

2007-04-25 09:44:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

All of you man that says you would not cheat. you are liers, i believe some women will not cheat but most men will. I have seen it

2007-04-25 09:43:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and I want him to stand up on my side when I get married. What would he be called on the program? Man of Honor???

2007-04-25 09:42:52 · 15 answers · asked by K Girl 6 in Weddings

I'm fifteen and she's seventeen. Is right to be dating her?

2007-04-25 09:42:03 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl i know got kicked out of her fiancee's place by her fiancee over some argument, she got proposed to 5 months ago but her fiancee was thinking of "kicking her butt to the curb" within that month because they argued over something,

he tends to be a big flirt with me and other co-workers even when he was living with his fiancee and he even went as far as touching some butts at work ,like it was nothing, i dont know his fiancee at all, but i heard she is beautiful , he kicked her out and now he regrets it and wants her back, what would you do if you were her?
maybe she flirts too?..

2007-04-25 09:41:57 · 4 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Singles & Dating

my new bf is 2 far behind lets get down and dirty how can we go to the next level?

2007-04-25 09:40:59 · 7 answers · asked by Joyjoy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 09:40:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an appointment to go meet the priest this weekend. What is he going to ask me? Should I be totally honest with this guy? After all, I wasnt always perfect.

2007-04-25 09:39:35 · 15 answers · asked by michael g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy I met in Jan and we met by accident, we quickly clicked and since then until now, he's been texting me every month. He's from California, so does that mean he really likes me if he keeps texting me? He text to save minutes which I don't mind.

2007-04-25 09:38:19 · 5 answers · asked by in2theSky 2 in Singles & Dating

What type of guy do you do for! (Tall, short, fat, skinny, bad ***, good guy, country, urban, funny, serious.) Give some detail!

2007-04-25 09:38:06 · 4 answers · asked by Big Long on for that a** 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls, do you like curly hair on hot football player like me?

2007-04-25 09:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been broken up with my girl for 2 months.Whe were together for 4 years.she left me for another guy.since then we have argued alot and said some hurtful things to each other.well a week ago I told her i was leaving town.today by accident I ran in to her.When I talked to her I could tell she still cared for me.I know this new guy is just a rebound and that she has got to have feelings for me still.we were together for 4 years.we were real close.since I talked to her about me leaving every day has been different.one day we are best friends the next she can't talk to me because it is weird.she braggs about her new guy alot.what is happening

2007-04-25 09:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by I compared clutch reels and LeBron is still king 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 09:37:11 · 30 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm in junior high and almost everyone had a "mini" b.f or g.f...and i'm not trying to be like everyone else, but my hormones are drivng me crazy and i like a lot of boys..i thought this guy was gonna ask me out just to hang out ,but he didn't..now, i like this other boy and i have kinda been flirting him, but i am so sad...will my prince charming ever come? I just want a guy to hang out...what should i do?

2007-04-25 09:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ MEOW ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok i am 14 years old-for 3 years my ex freind has harrassed me. She has shoved me into walls and threatend to kill me several times. Last year I took an overdose because i was so depressed. She has told rumors about me and lies. People hate me for no reason! i get rocks thrown at me! I have told the principal and the school counselor SEVERAL TIMES!! nobody wants to help me! And if i say something to her, I get into trouble!! She has called me a fat ***** everyday i have known her! I am sick of this I went from straight A student to a straight D student! my mom even called the cops on her before! Nothing is being done! i dont know what to do! I hate her. She has ruined my life! My friends tell me that she is still talkin crap about me behind my back! I cant take it anymore! I just want this to end! Any advice?

2007-04-25 09:36:26 · 23 answers · asked by sagittariusgurl_9 1 in Friends

2007-04-25 09:34:42 · 21 answers · asked by Joyjoy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 09:34:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are hangin' out with a FRIEND of the opposite sex, and they start eyeing a guy or girl walking past you? And if so, why?

2007-04-25 09:34:08 · 12 answers · asked by oneradartwo 2 in Friends

we are both going to a dance (he dosen't no i'm going) it's not school and i know he likes me as a best friend but i like him more any ways to turn him on with out weirding him out?

we go out some times as friends so i don't want to . . . but any way to get him to at least dance with me?

2007-04-25 09:33:56 · 1 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 09:33:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 09:33:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 09:32:47 · 34 answers · asked by Em 1 in Marriage & Divorce

has let are 3yr old take every bloody toy out his playroom ,when he is ment to be in bed , i only went for the shopping ive been gone 40 mins and the place looks like a bomb has hit it , and yet husband still sat there while i put them away because the match is on . anybody elses partner do things like this .

2007-04-25 09:32:02 · 45 answers · asked by fafandloo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 09:30:20 · 4 answers · asked by Shauna W 1 in Friends

I have never had a orgasm. is it normal that it is hard to achieve?? Its not that my boyfriend isn't doing his part because he is awesome, i just cant get one. I don't want him to think he isn't doing a good job. he is doing a great job, I don't mean to sound nasty but he is rather large so its diffidently not that. we have tried all different things and i come close but still nothing. And i don't even think about it when we are doing it so its not that i am trying to hard, i just enjoy the moment we have together, but its frustrating because I know he feels bad. what can I do???

2007-04-25 09:30:01 · 25 answers · asked by sweet catastrophe 3 in Singles & Dating