My ex-best friend threatend to kill me!!?

Question

Ok i am 14 years old-for 3 years my ex freind has harrassed me. She has shoved me into walls and threatend to kill me several times. Last year I took an overdose because i was so depressed. She has told rumors about me and lies. People hate me for no reason! i get rocks thrown at me! I have told the principal and the school counselor SEVERAL TIMES!! nobody wants to help me! And if i say something to her, I get into trouble!! She has called me a fat ***** everyday i have known her! I am sick of this I went from straight A student to a straight D student! my mom even called the cops on her before! Nothing is being done! i dont know what to do! I hate her. She has ruined my life! My friends tell me that she is still talkin crap about me behind my back! I cant take it anymore! I just want this to end! Any advice?

Answer 1

get a restraining order against her

Answer 2

Well you and your Mom go to school and talk with the principal and tell him either he does something about her or else you will file a lawsuit against the school for not doing their job. Because now a days with everything that is going on in the schools, it is against teh law now if the teachers, counselors, or principal or even the superintendent or school board doesn't do nothing. So go to them again with your MOm and get mad that they haven't done nothing about it. Also give a call to the Atterney General from your State and finle a complaint against the school and school board. I bet that will make something happen. And just don't worry about nothing because next time she pushs you or someone throws rocks at you have them arrested for assault and don't back down neither.

Answer 3

I have been there, and it sucks. I actually ended up switching schools. You need to be strong and ignore them. Make sure everything is documented at your school in case any incidents happen. They HAVE to document it if you are being threatened and abused. Maybe you should have your parents step in and consider approaching the district. It is unacceptable for them to ignore this behavoir. Dont let it get you down about these people not liking you... who cares if they dont. A few years from now you will never have to see them again.
If you have to... get a restrainting order.
Obviously this girl has some issues with herself if she is that preoccupied with you.
Choose your friends wisely.
Good luck.

Answer 4

Talk with your parents and let them know you want to file a restraining order. The burden of proof is on you guys. You will either need concrete proof, (a letter she has written, a recording of her threatening you, or a witness). Realize that this will end up in her being suspended, expelled or forced to do homeschool.

Another option is perhaps you should transfer schools.
Better to get away from the threat, start fresh.

Answer 5

If suicide is what your thinking then don't. Your ex best friend is jealous of you and has some sick obsession with you. The truth will come out soon. this is really serious you and your family should move away real far away. She will have to live with this for the rest of her life. think of it like this you mus have been the greatest friend in the world for her to get this upset about the break up. good luck!

Answer 6

i understand, my friend did that to me too.

1 option is that u can move... it'll make u feel a bit ashamed and weak but that'll pass.
another is that you can have a 1 on 1 confrontation with your 'friend'. fight her, beat her into submission, threaten to kill her. it might work.
1 question for u. di u do something really bad to her when you guys stopped being friends. tell me about it, i can help alot more if i knew how this started. if ur not comfortable with it then dont.

BTW i'm a guy ur age who went thru this, i'm not a phsycaitrist or whatever they're called... (in my case i beat up the bastard)

Answer 7

4 1 let her no that ur sick of her and if shes still doing it show her who's boss and kick the crap out of her or u could go to a judge and get a restring order from her. and i dought that ur a fat ***** i think thats her just covering it up. so dont wrry and have fun wit life dont let her ruin it k g2g srry bye ^-_-^ (its a bunny) lol

Answer 8

try to talk to her in front of adults or someone else; that way, she really can't do anything or she'll get in trouble. or you can go the more dramatic way: go to a lawyer/ court/ police (i don't know which one) and get a restraint order or whatever it is. that way, she can't get close to you, and if she does, boy!! would she get in trouble. and for the part that everyone hates you, my advice would be to still act nice. if you make an image of you as innocent, smart etc. no matter what she says, it won't effect you. (from experience) when you said no one wants to help you, you're wrong. i just did ; )

Answer 9

i would go to someone about this right away, stay away from her at school at all times, no matter what you "hear" that she says about you ignore it. maybe you & your mom should talk to her mom, you dont want a freind who is going to harass you and talk behind your back.
get this taken care of, even if it means calling the cops again, the school should do something about this too.
after relax, get back envolved in your school work, & pull up your grades again, dont worry about her just ignore her & dont talk to her again.

Answer 10

Next time she puts her hand on you don't push back or nothin, steal one in her face preferably the nose and keep whaling on dat azz. I guarantee u slap dat ho around she aint gone want no mo problems. Also, if you can record her threatening you you have the right to kill her in defending your own life or if your feel your life is at jeopardy so beat that ho silly.

Answer 11

this is hard since the ******* principal has done **** about it moves schools if you can or else go to the councler and rell then or her to call the police let the police come to the school and settle things there thats the best i can tell you i hope it works