i have been broken up with my girl for 2 months.Whe were together for 4 years.she left me for another guy.since then we have argued alot and said some hurtful things to each other.well a week ago I told her i was leaving town.today by accident I ran in to her.When I talked to her I could tell she still cared for me.I know this new guy is just a rebound and that she has got to have feelings for me still.we were together for 4 years.we were real close.since I talked to her about me leaving every day has been different.one day we are best friends the next she can't talk to me because it is weird.she braggs about her new guy alot.what is happening
2007-04-25 09:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by I compared clutch reels and LeBron is still king 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, sounds like she isn't sure what she wants.
As long as you are making yourself available to her, she will continue to do this and string you along.
Make a clear decision for YOURSELF, take yourself out of the picture. This will force her to make up her mind and you will be better for it, I promise.
She isn't going to change her behaviors b/c she doesn't have to right now. right?
Best of luck to you!
2007-04-25 09:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by ivy9toes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she just can't figure out what she really wants. She thought she wanted the other guy for whatever reason but once she was with him she realized that she really wants you instead but can't figure out if she just feels weird being without you or really does want to be with you. But on the other hand, she may not have feelings for you. Over time feelings can be lost and she may have lost feelings for you a while back and just couldn't break it off and then found a "reason" top break it off. Just when you can, sit heer down face to face or even on the phone and ask her what she truly wants. Good luck.
2007-04-25 16:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by MiSs Staci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still argue it usually means that you still have feelings for each other but are both too stubborn to admit it. Try to work it out... why throw away 4 yrs over some rebound person???
2007-04-25 16:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on dude. Let's say you get back together. What do you think she'll do what the next Mr Slick comes around? Huh?
You had a good 4 years, find someone new.
2007-04-25 16:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Wil T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to keep you under her thumb, drop her like a hot potato because she doesn't deserve your friendship.
2007-04-25 16:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Invisible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems to be confused and don't no what she wont's and let me tell you until she finds out what she wont's you will be confused
2007-04-25 16:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by ALLEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two need to try some time apart.
2007-04-25 16:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by itsALICE! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her
2007-04-25 16:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by xStacex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋