has let are 3yr old take every bloody toy out his playroom ,when he is ment to be in bed , i only went for the shopping ive been gone 40 mins and the place looks like a bomb has hit it , and yet husband still sat there while i put them away because the match is on . anybody elses partner do things like this .
2007-04-25 09:32:02 · 45 answers · asked by fafandloo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my son did help me clean them up , there only toys , but when walked past the telly hubby shouting move out the way ,cheeky bugger lol
2007-04-25 09:49:51 · update #1
i went food shopping not shopping for myself
2007-04-25 09:53:32 · update #2
The Match? I'd match him alright. Pick up the toys and rattle him over the head with them. There's too many men occupying their time with watching football.
2007-04-25 09:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Unless your husband is bringing your marriage down in other ways I think you are just stressed out. You probably will not believe it. I've been there, done it, wore the tee shirt. At the time you think you are always right. If you get things in to perspective you will realise this is no big deal and the fact you have a healthy, lively toddler and a loving husband is something to be so thankful for. However, if you are feeling stressed and a bit low nothing makes it feel alright. If little things like this are annoying you try a visit to your GP, you are not going to be put on drugs for life etc but it should help. Again if there are lots of undercurrents within your marriage it could be that you are coping with too much and it's in relation to your marriage you are needing help and support with. Good luck.
2007-04-25 10:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a 50 year old male and can't stand any sport your husband seems to be very ignorant and should help out a lot more but then most men are like that,I will cook clean wash and iron but don't get much respect for it,i have to say i would not want to swap places with a woman as i think they get a rough deal as most men are selfish but on the other hand i have a partner that is take,take,take and the more she has the more she wants.
2007-04-25 11:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by andrew h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, and all of my friends do to. Maybe not that blatant, but men definitely have a mechanism to shut off the surrounding world and be able to concentrate on any game at hand. I suppose it's a nice skill to have, but women aren't wired that way, hence we wake up most of the time when the kids are sick, see the mess that no one else is going to pick up except you the mom. Whenever I go out I pay for it when I get back by having to clean the house. I have a great husband, just not a "neat" husband. He does pick up the house, but seems to get distracted.
2007-04-25 09:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Us women should no what men are like by now, they can be so lazy and they get caught up in there own little worlds where we expected to do everything! all i can say in thank god my partners not into footie! but he does like his top gear which can be as bad as football, he does expect everyone to be quiet while he's watching it, and you know what i said to him you should be so lucky, i have to have the kids around me bugging me whilst trying to watch my programmes of an evening it's called life, you know if i had of been in your position i would of left the toys for him to fall over during half time and when he moans that your 3yr old is making too much noise you said of said well if you hadn't of let your 3yr old make a mess they would of been in bed by now! he! he! men eh? what they like?
2007-04-26 03:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by donna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is written in the Hebrew Talmud, the book
where all of the sayings and preaching of
Rabbis are conserved over time.
It says: "Be very careful if you make a woman
cry, because God counts her tears. The woman
came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be
walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but
from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be
protected, and next to the heart to be loved."
2007-04-25 11:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some wise lady who had an incredibly happy marriage once told me... "Don't sweat the small stuff". I am still learning to do that, but it has helped me. Love life, live life, and just enjoy the early years where there are still toys to be picked up.
2007-04-25 09:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a single dad i have a 4 year old and i cant keep up with him but it gives him something to do . He should help pick it up being that he was the one that let the little one get it all out.
2007-04-25 09:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by dad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So it must have been some what late, so that the child had to be put to sleep, and it was so important that you go shopping that you could not wait till the following day to get up a little early. Hey, but thats my point of view.
2007-04-25 09:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Formulated 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, now he's my ex-husband. Parenting is a partnership, not an endless course of sabotage. The kids come before the match. The match can be recorded, raising children can't be delayed. Sounds like you have two children and the three year old is the more mature. With a partner like that, going solo sounds very attractive. P.S. Men don't change.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
My heart goes out to you.
2007-04-25 09:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
No...we have structure in our home....I have 3 boys and its a home where we are constantly running in and out with our busy schedules but, you need order. It's great for your three year old to be so active and learning and playing but your husband needs to supervise alittle more and let alone help you out.....You shouldn't be the one running to pick up the mess. Teach your three year old how to put things away as well. They are never too young to pick up a toy here and there and put it away...you or your husband can even do it with him/or her.......
2007-04-25 09:47:33 · answer #11 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋