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There's this guy i've liked for a while and previously he had split up from his girlfriend and was flirting with me physically, now he is back with her and the physical flirting has kinda stopped but he has now taken to winding me up and teasing me and i don't understand this behaviour and does it mean anything?

2007-04-25 10:31:24 · 15 answers · asked by ★Rhiannon★ 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it considered physical abuse when a man grabs a woman by her throat and pushes her to the wall --- if it's only "to get her attention"? Is it physical abuse if he throws her on the bed and sits on top of her to make her talk to him? Is tapping the phone "because we should have no secrets" a form of mental abuse? I think all of the above is true but he doesn't!!!! Please help settle this argument!

2007-04-25 10:29:54 · 23 answers · asked by candy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This has been bugging me for the past few weeks. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months now, but instead of feeling great about it, i'm kinda worried. I'm 19 and she's 18. I love her to bits but she's had 5 other partners before she met me. It doesn't bother me, but she's the first steady gf i've ever had.

Time and time again, she tells me of how much she loves me and how the other guys can't compare. She'd throw in the odd
" I'll love you forever "
and
" don't ever leave me "

I just laugh and shrug it off..but inside i'm shitting it. Im only in my second year of college and I want to explore the world and have different experiences with different people.

The fact that I love this girl makes it even more difficult to decide. I've never cheated on her and never will - I'm not that type of guy, but I hate thinking that I'm stringing her along to something that will end eventually..even though she may have different ideas.

In a perfect world, I'd have met her in my 30's...

2007-04-25 10:29:37 · 2 answers · asked by nobody19 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend told me i am the most beautiful girl ever.. but when i look at the girls he dated.. i dont think i am.. is he lying to me? should i get bother by this?

2007-04-25 10:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3 in Singles & Dating

I just got married 2.5 months but was unaware i was pregnant at the time.My bf and i dated 2 yrs he is 24 yrs old and i am 21 yrs old still in college.Before the wedding took place we took a 3.5 month break because he was not sure if he was ready for marriage.During the break i had a fling with an ex.bf who had been my first everything and we had flings before so i felt comfortable.Then my bf and i got back together month later we got married.I just found out i am almost 4 months pregnant and it cant be my husbands.Afraid dont know what to do?

2007-04-25 10:26:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's this girl. she's always making nasty comments to me....i've had enough! she's soooo mean. she thinks she's great! thing is, SHE ISN'T! i bet this is so she feels confident about herself, by saying horrible things to other people. it's nothing major but it's just REALLY annoying. she's part of our group so i can't just ignore her, or everyone else with think i'm being stupid about the whole situation.

what do i say to her to get her to stop? i need to make it harsh so she will take it, otherwise she would just laugh at me.

i'm a girl, incase the name confuses u

2007-04-25 10:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This sounds silly, but bear with me. I was having problems with one of our 3 wk old kittens. something was seriously wrong with it, and I wanted to take it to the vet. Instead of calling my husband and asking his opinion, I took it apon myself to take the kitten in anyways. Mainly because of the fact that if I were to have asked his opinion, he would have told me no. He hates spending money, and really doesn't have sympathy for animals very much. So I took it in, it cost us, $53 , which wasn't too bad because we are doing very good on money right now. I was glad we had the resourses to get it done, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to. Turns out, the kitten was severely dehydrated and had an eye infection. Well, of course I told him, and now I'm in trouble. When he asked why I didn't ask him beforehand, I was honest and said that it was because he would have said no. He said of course he would have, because the kitten is probably going to die anyways. But it is already improving.

2007-04-25 10:22:30 · 29 answers · asked by Lindsey H 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I been having problems lately. But we've been planning a beach trip for over a year. We're supposed to go to his brother's college graduation next month, actually in less than three weeks (graduation is May 12th). Should I break up with him now or later?

2007-04-25 10:19:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and i were together for 6 years,we have a 4 year old son so wont be totally out of each others lives to some extent i suppose.He left us for the 2nd time just after new year and although i was expecting it i was still heartbroken as he was my first love,he was with someone else who i hate and as far as i know still is.

He came nad took most of his clothes one night but didn`t take his cd`s and stuff,most of it i threw out and told him i`d also binned his cd`s which i haven`t,they`re packed away in the attic.I do think i`m over him now but can`t bring myself to give him these back as i can`t bear the thought of them both listening to them,i know that`s pathetic but i don`t know if i`m maybe clinging onto the past in some strange way,i will always love him but accept he doesn`t feel the same,what do you think,am i being strange in keeping them or is this relatively normal?

2007-04-25 10:18:29 · 16 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i have blond hair with purple streeks (yes purple) i luv snowboarding and stuff like that. im definitly not some1 who luvs shoping unless its 4 sporting goods like winter gear, im kinda tall yet very short not that short just well u know, i worry about how guys veiw me cuz im very different im more of a sk8ter punk but im my personality is not totaly like that, I HATE PREPPY PPLE!!! they make me wanna scream!!! preps r just....i dunno theyre preps, but im not a angry person so i wont like throw a crazy fit. pplz rate me 1-10, 10 being the highest...thanx

2007-04-25 10:16:33 · 15 answers · asked by ashley a 1 in Singles & Dating

few months back, a guy friend and i flirted about hooking up. the thing is he has a gf overseas and is engaged to her. I had developed a deep crush on him and we exchanged a few words about getting together like where we do it, and if we would use protection, etc. I was really falln 4 him and he told me that it was best that i focus on someone else. anyway a few days later, I texted him to wish him Happy New Year's and he didn't text back and i got upset and called him a dog. I then wrote him a note apologizing to him and suggested that we stop texting each other about sex. Weeks later, he looked at me like he was angry but still said hi. I emailed him asking him if he was still upset and that it might be best that we treat each other as coworkers. he replied back and told me that i was too weird and that he was just jokin and that i should get some friends and a bf. Now I hardly talk to him anymore unless we run in2 each other and just say hi. The thing is he acts mad and uncomfortabl

2007-04-25 10:13:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So had a first get to know you a little with a girl the other day at a coffee shop. Conversation went well enough. She seemed a little nervous and had a hard time holding eye contact. Aside from that she did a lot of talking and didn't really pose any questions back to me. Was kinda my job to keep her chatting about herself and then opportunites where she could ask stuff back she didn't really take the opportunity. Opinions on this behavior...can't figure out if she was disinterested or just nervous or not the most apt dater?

A little background...she gave me her number...also she called to confirm our meetup half an hour before hand so I assume she's been nervous about it...

2007-04-25 10:13:05 · 34 answers · asked by nick 1 in Singles & Dating

any advice one my situation: Im getting out in 5 months, Im married and living with the wife and I have no kids with her. Weve been married 3 years and she has just became a terrible person, plain and simple. I want to divorce and become a civilian again, those are my major goals. Please give me everything you can if you have any constructive advice.

2007-04-25 10:10:08 · 25 answers · asked by ptcruisher2001 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i was supposed to be getting married about 3 months ago and we cancelled and now everytime i try to talk about it and he blows me off and tells me hes not in the mood to talk. we have been together for a while and i want to start everything but for some reason i cannot seem to get him to want to do it. im tired of waiting i want to start my life with him what do i need to do i need help!

2007-04-25 10:08:18 · 9 answers · asked by out of control 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend thinks I'm with her just for sex. I never meant to make her feel that way. I love her for so much more than that. She only really wants sex when she knows she can't have it. That is very difficult for me to deal with, because I don't know how to not want it! Anyway, The reason she thinks I only want her for sex is because I get frustrated when she doesn't want to make love with me. I get frustrated because I feel like she doesn't find me as sexy as I find her. I know that's not the case; my sex drive is just too high. I've tried so hard not to come on to her. Everytime I go out to see her, I tell myself, "I wont come on to her, I wont come on to her", but once I'm there, I can't help myself! I try to hold back. But by the end of the night I can't anymore. I've tried "taking care of myself" before seeing her, hoping it would reduce my drive, but once I'm with her again... I just can't control myself!

2007-04-25 10:07:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the Signs I've picked up :
1-Hugs, Hugs and more Hugs (in one day also including hand holding at times)
2-Defending me at all times
3-Hugs from behind out of nowhere
4-Doesn't want to be embarrassed in front of me
5-Smiles when i enter a room and always waves
6-Smiles when our eyes meet and says sumthing nice or turns her head
7-Laughs at all my jokes
8-Calls me her "brother" but its pretty obvious brother/sister dont act the way we do
9-Refuses to not giv me a bday present but doesnt want anything in return
10-Says she looks up to me and always thinks of me as this great being or sumthing.

There's some more but its probably too much. It may seem pretty obvious but for sum reason its just not hitting me. And I don't wanna ruin the great friendship.

2007-04-25 10:06:09 · 27 answers · asked by LIFESLITTLESTRUGGLES* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 10:05:49 · 1 answers · asked by Tequilla $hot 2 in Singles & Dating

And he will not go out with me cuase of it. Do u think it matters how big the age diffrence is?

2007-04-25 10:04:26 · 7 answers · asked by Rawr1995 1 in Singles & Dating

hey guys

Strange question, please try and be civil one and all. I was just wondering when or even if its' ok to date a person's partner while they're still seeing someone else? Most people call it stealing them, and there is a huge stigma about it all.

Reason being I was chatting to my fiancee about this one, and we went through the same situation where she and I fell in love with each other while she was engaged to someone she didn't care for. I am now engaged to her and very happy, but I've been branded with this "label" for being a "b*****d" and a "thief", which I find hurtful as most people don't understand it. Even my family for a few months after criticised me for "stealing" someone's fiancee, even though I feel for once I was justified on that one (much longer story but not enough room). Fact was that her ex fiancee ended up raping her, so was I really so bad for taking her to be with me?

Anyways, can anyone think of any other examples where it might be ok?

Toodles

2007-04-25 10:01:21 · 34 answers · asked by thetruesloth 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im in hs...and don't know that much about guys at all and anyhow during a chem lab yesterday my lab partner(who was sick and was feeling terrible) put his hand ever so gently on my hand and left it there for over 30 secs....and got so close to me, but I don't think he likes me, but I have no idea what he was doing either, he was smiling the whole time...

So he was just sick right? He didn't feel well and didn't know what he was doing and I'm just wasting time by asking this question, right?

2007-04-25 09:57:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Remember the Smurfs? Or Mighty Mouse? Tom & Jerry? Pound Puppies? What's something you remember about being a kid that still makes you laugh??

2007-04-25 09:55:50 · 2 answers · asked by Dr. Kat 5 in Singles & Dating

does anyone have a story about how one of your parents volunteered you sevices without you knowing when you were a teenager?

2007-04-25 09:55:10 · 7 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family

Is it ok if it is just a new friend? How do you tell your husband/wife about your friend? I wouldn't want tohide anything.

2007-04-25 09:52:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Who are constantly screwing with your head?

2007-04-25 09:52:48 · 31 answers · asked by little miss sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

my past child hood was great....but now at 13 i hate my life....will the future be better....or what can i do?

2007-04-25 09:51:26 · 5 answers · asked by jack j 1 in Friends

cannot find anything local for my county with records - would like to skip a trip to the courthouse if possible - any help?

2007-04-25 09:50:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i ve been with my man for 2 yrs and i feel we have a good relationship he takes me out to eat we go to the movies togather and we enjoy each others company the only problem is...his baby mom is in the way they talk all the time on the cell i bought for him he goes over her house after work and he even gives her money whenever she needs it and im pissed because that is my man she dont even see their daughter and he still messes with her i dont want to leave him because i have 4 kids no car and iam afraid of being alone again i was in a 13 yr relationship with my kids father and he treated me like crap and now that im with the man of my dreams i dont want to let him go i tried calling &texting her to tell her to back off but she wont respond what should i do

2007-04-25 09:49:19 · 2 answers · asked by tamala g 1 in Singles & Dating

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