my boyfriend told me i am the most beautiful girl ever.. but when i look at the girls he dated.. i dont think i am.. is he lying to me? should i get bother by this?
2007-04-25 10:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't let it bother you. Beauty is more than skin deep.
2007-04-25 10:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by kimberly b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know, it is interesting how our own self-esteem issues get in the way of enjoying simple things like a sincere compliment. When he looks at you, he sees a wonderful person from the inside out. That is what he is saying. He just enjoys your beauty in a wholistic way. When you see you, you pick you apart and notice all the little things that you think make you imperfect. What's so great is the only one looking for perfection in any of us is ourselves. Enjoy his compliment and know that he means it from his heart. Work on who you are so that you totally STOP comparing yourself to others. You will never measure up if you compare yourself to other people in any aspect of your life. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Ask yourself, "Am I better than I was yesterday? Did I treat people right? Can I make my life and the life of those around me better? What can I do to improve my community and this world? If you find positive ways to answer these questions and to act on those answers, wow!!!! You will feel so good about yourself that you will not put yourself or others down. Take his compliment in the spirit in which it was given and go for life, your life!!!!!
2007-04-25 10:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by OTOTW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you know his ex's personality. You are probably beautiful inside and out in his mind. Do you really want to compare yourself to the girls he USED to date? Your with him now so obviously your doing better than them. Look at the way he looks at you and his eyes will tell you what he thinks of you.
2007-04-25 10:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to be nice, but since you know the reality, you hear it as a lie. Why not hear it that he values you so much and wants you not to be self critical, that he ways you the number one beauty. You could say, maybe inside, and thanks for the vote of confidence. Kiss him long and hard on the mouth and then tell him he is a lair and you love him. You will both laugh hard and the matter will end.
2007-04-25 10:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about this. He's complimenting you. It doesn't matter if one of his past girlfriends was attractive. He's with you, and he thinks you're beautiful. That's all there is to it.
Enjoy the compliment and have a good time.
2007-04-25 10:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks you're beautiful, then accept it, it doesn't matter what other girls he has dated. What matters if what he thinks of YOU. Also, humans are very judgmental about themselves, you may not think your beautiful when in fact you actually are.
2007-04-25 10:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously that insecure with yourself?! Maybe to you you're not the prettiest girl he has dated but when you're in love looks are not what makes the relationship.
2007-04-25 10:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say not to bother, everyone is beautiful in their own special way.
:) Good luck girl.
2007-04-25 10:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by Imagegirl101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry about the other girls. He obviously saw something he like in you.
2007-04-25 10:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take him at his word?? It's not healthy (or fair to either one of you) to compare yourself to his ex-girlfriends. Be happy that he's complimenting you and appreciate that he takes the time to tell you! :-)
2007-04-25 10:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋