there's this girl. she's always making nasty comments to me....i've had enough! she's soooo mean. she thinks she's great! thing is, SHE ISN'T! i bet this is so she feels confident about herself, by saying horrible things to other people. it's nothing major but it's just REALLY annoying. she's part of our group so i can't just ignore her, or everyone else with think i'm being stupid about the whole situation.
what do i say to her to get her to stop? i need to make it harsh so she will take it, otherwise she would just laugh at me.
i'm a girl, incase the name confuses u
2007-04-25 10:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You do know that people that bully and harrass other people suffer from really low self esteem and self worth right? It has nothing to do with confidence. It has to do with power. It is the same reason men rape women, its not the sex, its the power they have over another person.
Stop letting this person victimize you. If you don't know how, go to a counselor and learn how to do this. Don't get into a verbal confrontation, it will only make it worse. Why don't the other people in your group help? Are they all playing into this as well?
2007-04-25 10:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new group, or ignore her. If she continues, hold up a mirror when she addresses you,. That will anger her and she will snap, being insulted. That will forced sides to be taken. You'll see who your friends really are. If none are left, there is a world of available people for friendships. Most times, we all grow up,. She is very sadistic and needs therapy.
2007-04-25 17:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you/the girl? If you're teenagers, then maybe she's acting out because of something at home or because of her own securities? My advice...continue ignoring it and just realize that it's beneath you...you're better than that! (letting it get to you) if you ignore her, and don't comment, she may ask you if you heard her, etc. You could always answer something like : "Oh, I heard you...I just don't think you're funny!" or "Ya, I heard you, I'm just not impressed and don't think it's funny to insult/put down other people."
Hopefully, she'll get the point one day.
2007-04-25 17:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pull her aside and ask her what her problem is and that you would appreciate if she would stop being so rude. If that does not work watch the movie mean girls and get some pointers!!!!
2007-04-25 17:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be nasty right back.
If you sit there and take it she will continue to open her mouth.
Or you can get some balls and kick her *ss
2007-04-25 17:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe pull her aside and say "hey, if your gonna hang out with me and my friends, your gonna have to be NICE. if you dont wanna do that, go hang out with someone else." then walk away and let her soak it in
2007-04-25 17:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by tropicalmixjelly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
embarass the F out of her...superglue her butt to her chair...tell your group she has aids LOL
2007-04-25 17:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless its directed towards you it shouldn't matter.
saids to me like your trying to get as low as she is don't do that.
2007-04-25 17:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋