2007-04-25 01:21:18 · 17 answers · asked by shyamal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you leave her, if she did that then she is not the person you needed to be with in the first place, in leaving her you will be able to see what else is out there and actually find the right person for you but she wasn't it.....
2007-04-27 18:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it took her 12 years to figure it out-you believe in punishing another a person of vengeance when Jesus says forgive and vengeance is mine saith the Lord-if you let him fight your battles you cant lose-if u fight em -you cant win.
to punish her-sounds like your already thinking and looking for better ideas-if it is physical-you will be punishing yourself in jail-
from a past person who was selfish -I first asked help- "Jesus help me, come into my heart and be my friend, I am sorry for my sins-even one lie, amen." Revelation 3:19&20th verses Jesus promises to do this for us when we let him help us.
I suggest you stop punishing yourself-hate will only eat out your heart-grieve the loss and get joy and comfort from the cross-Jesus is my best friend and he keeps me happy after once a broken heart-and learning to let him deal with others too.
2007-04-25 02:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 years of relationship? Dude dont worry she will back, she might have gone for long shopping& or maybe somthing must have happened to her, find out what really happened?
2007-04-25 02:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think of what your punisment would have been if you had married this girl. chances are, she will feel punished in herself for the mistake( if it is a mistake) but even better chance she did you a wonderful favor...you'll see when the right girl walks into your life.
2007-04-25 01:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on with your life guy, its not worth it. If she did that now it means she really didn't love you the way you loved her. At least you wouldn't have to go through a divorce.
2007-04-25 01:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by Joe S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant punish anyone, you dont have the right. Move on.
2007-04-25 01:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat that bich *** bust her head to the white meat just kidding but if thats what she want to do then let her do it god probably got something waiting for you but still you should at least slap that hoe
2007-04-25 01:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by top-notch-diva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hav no idea. were u close? +if u reli did love her u wudnt wanna punish her. bt i c were u cumin frm man.
2007-04-25 01:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Caz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is living on happily - without her.
2007-04-25 01:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away.
2007-04-25 01:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋