Family & Relationships - 25 April 2007

I'm curious to see what men's opinions are on dating women who have kids. General opinions.. In particular, independant single women who aren't looking to 'replace' their kids fathers or lay the responsibility on someone else.. I have been told (by a man of course) it would be hard to find a man because I have 2 kids, and 'men dont want kids'... I think there are plenty out there willing to open up their hearts to a woman weather they have kids or not. Its just a matter of finding the right one.

2007-04-25 04:41:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am completely in love with (and in lust with) a guy at my workplace. He is married and I have it on reliable info that his marriage is not on solid ground. I dont want to throw myself at him like a floozy but I want to make it clear that I am very available to him. I need to get his attention before he gets divorced and someone else beats me to the goodies. I am ready to dump my current boyfriend in a heartbeat for this guy if he will only make his move. I know he watches me and likes what he sees, but he is very proper at work and just wont make the move.
How do I get him to make his move? I can feel the sexual tension between us and I know he wants to.

2007-04-25 04:38:05 · 2 answers · asked by misty_ghostdancer_1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you put the colors platinum and silver could you tell the difference between them?
my gown has a lot of silver in it and i wanted them to match me with silver dresses but the dresses that i just absolutly would love on them comes in platinum not silver.what should i do?
THANK YOU

2007-04-25 04:31:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Am in a long distance relationship (he's in the USA, am in France) for over a year now and we are both 21. He is virgin by choice until wedding while I did it before with just 1 guy. Yesterday he said jokingly he started to have grey hair because of all the stress him being virgin still. I was kinda hurt but said nothing and then today we had a fight because he told me he wish he did it when he was younger before we met to get it done with.
I said it's not really nice for me and he was like "how is it your problem if I did it before meeting you. I don't get pissed because you had sex before meeting me do I! Is it so wrong for me thinking about it? it's easy for you you did it before!"

So should I really worry about it or not? Am really down because I happen to realise webcamming and videos isn't enough. I feel like am not giving him enough or else he wouldn't be regretting being a virgin suddenly. I know he's not a cheater so how should I be reacting instead?

2007-04-25 04:26:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wonderful byf is very dedicated to my children & someday we plan marriage. He contributes to the household though he does not live there yet, he eats and sleeps there 75% of the time. Soon my daughter is to attend a 10 day conference in DC (she's 17) & I thought it would be neat to drive down & all of us stay for a weekend. I looked into it & the cost is more then expected & I have the $, but also other things planned with it. I have never asked him for $, he's always just paid or insisted I take it & he's always giving the kids $1 or 2 when they come to me for it. We have discussed finances & he's not rich either - we are both just kind average & we budget. We've also talked about living together and shared finances and we've agreed on what to do there, but the trip was a great idea until I realized how much it would cost & he didn't say anything except "your right, what about...this & that". Would it be wrong to say - would you help pay for the trip so that we could go?

2007-04-25 04:26:16 · 14 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 04:24:32 · 24 answers · asked by What is wrong w/ppl these days! 1 in Weddings

Okay I have big boobs and a big butt! I am not skinny, but not fat! I want to get a breast reduction. I will be 20 in a few days and I am debating if I should or not!!??! My friends said I shouldnt (especially the guys!) Need help??!! any opinions?

2007-04-25 04:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by emily j 1 in Singles & Dating

Is " I'm your Angel " by Celine Dion feat. R. Kelly and "Beautiful in my Eyes" by Joshua Kadison sound ok to play for family and friends.

2007-04-25 04:04:24 · 5 answers · asked by mama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-25 03:57:05 · 25 answers · asked by brianna b 1 in Singles & Dating

How much age diffrence is to much, and does it make a difference if the man is older, or the women is older?

2007-04-25 03:56:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you deal with the fact youre going to be single forever, everyone of my friends is in a relationship so happy, and then im the outkast and have to watch then be happy, and to tell the honest truth ive already given up hope to find someone cz all this time working on myself and making changes and trying to find someone has been utter bullshit, i wasted my time to be in the same position, is there anyway that i can stop caring weather im with someone, and has anyone else felt this way..cz ive truly given up hope that i'll find someone cz im a lil old now..life isent fair > thats tru as hell

2007-04-25 03:45:48 · 1 answers · asked by themanthemanfrozen 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm looking for Rob Cumber from Burlington Ontatio How can i find him?

2007-04-25 03:45:23 · 7 answers · asked by Daytripper 3 in Family

What all is a maid of honor suppose to do in the wedding to help me? b/c I don't know many people who have gotten married, and my mom wont help me b/c she is to wrapped up in her work... my sis is MOH, but she dont even know what to do..
and do they do the bridal shower as well?

2007-04-25 03:41:22 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

My husband always blames me for making him do what I want to do but it is other way round. It always looks so because I blabber alot and he is quiet even during an argument

2007-04-25 03:40:41 · 16 answers · asked by Isita Koradia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 03:39:33 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he dont call during the week- go to ne dr. appointments or surgery that he has had- dont go to t ball and dont help with ne supporting that he may need - he has already signed the divorce papers and aint even showing up for court because of a warrent

2007-04-25 03:33:05 · 7 answers · asked by spoyledmama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As ever it is most informative to find out how real people have solved real situations. So...

I have kids, he has kids; he is the solitary type so not much family involvment is necessary. With me, Im a mom I love and want to interact with my kids. That's not great with him since it takes time from us. What to do. Plus, I can't get over the belief that I have, now that we are married it should be our family, our kids. I would like that, he would not.

Financially, he has 3 times as much money as I. But from the beginning I believe that my money should be his and his mine...isn't that the way it was when we were first married? He feels his money is his, and mine is mine and we should split things. If we were to go combined income he would want to control my spending "you don't need this, too much $ for that." Not a good feeling for a responsible adult.

No question we love each other, I want to know how to feel together when so much seperates us. A mans feelings needed.

2007-04-25 03:32:56 · 4 answers · asked by redford 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked my sister to be my maid of honor, it is important to me because she is my sister and we have been close our whole lives. Recently she started dating a new man and has moved in with him, she has gotten more distant, not answering her phone, returning e-mails, or phone calls.
We have over a year to plan the wedding so her involvement, or lack there of, hasnt been an issue as of yet. However, I told her 'please look over the MOH duties and if you don't want to, or don't feel comfortable doing any of that, than please just tell me" She hasnt brought it up (this was a week ago)
My best friend will be on of my bridesmaids, she has been the BEST since my engagement, so interested in colors, flowers, wedding songs, etc. It is so wonderful to have someone so interested and helpful.
I want my sister as MOH, but if my best friend is doing all the MOH stuff....should I have her as MOH and sister as bridemaid?
I forsee this becoming very difficult with her so unresponsive.

2007-04-25 03:32:33 · 20 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Weddings

they take very good care of themselves. In the swing lifestyle, there are many women in their 40's that look 30, are very nice, no std's and are usually mid to upper middle class. Many of us men are the same, usually handsome and fit with great careers.

So why do you all slam on swingers so badly when in fact you know nothing about us?

America's divorce rate 50%

Swinger's divorce rate 18%

So, I think swingers have the rest of the population beat in most areas. I think you are all a bunch brainwashed paranoid holy rollers that do not know how to enjoy life.

2007-04-25 03:30:14 · 21 answers · asked by sxycpl4ya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know whats wrong with me, I can't stand him in the mornings and when he's at work, and for the first 30 minutes when he gets home, but around supper im fine, but then before bed I dont want to be around him its really weird. We've been married for 3 years now. Have 3 beautiful kids. I love him very much and I don't know what to do.

2007-04-25 03:30:01 · 17 answers · asked by ~Nicole~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 03:28:03 · 35 answers · asked by gene_harden2000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna know if this thing is true, i once saw in the page sweden.se that even though there are a lot of myths around swedish persons, it is becoming more acceptable for a married woman to have an "emotional affair" (?) with another man besides her husband as long as she doesn´t have sex with the other guy. Is this true? i mean i´m just curious about it.

2007-04-25 03:24:27 · 7 answers · asked by Max Emmanuel D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is always saying to respect him and saying i dnt respect him. what does he mean by respect

2007-04-25 03:23:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"you are so naive?" i felt insulted when people said that?what makes a person not naive?

2007-04-25 03:20:18 · 7 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Today is a discussion, on persona.
Do women really like bad boys, or nice
guys. Bad boys are rebels, hustlers,
and always know who to keep you
on the edge. Which in itself, makes
a woman feel comfortable. Because
he dares, or challenges you, and makes
you see yourself. And the nice guys,
are the sweet, polite, shy ones. The one
who will let you get away with, anything.
And will let ya walk all over him. Cause he
is so nice, where he hurts himself, in the
long run. With your brazen attitude.
But to him, it is so addictive. And he adores
you no matter what. Or does he ?
But yeah, what do you prefer ? The
man with the no holds bar, mentality.
From the streets of Ire, kinda guy. Or
Mr. Nice ? man with the roses in his
hand ? Best answer wins.

2007-04-25 03:16:17 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he asked if i could keep an eye out on his wife let's just say we have humping like wild dogs since he left , I'M I WRONG? SHE DID COME ON TO ME AFTER ALL ! SHOULD I TELL MY BUDDY HIS WIFE'S A WHORE?

2007-04-25 03:15:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 03:15:07 · 17 answers · asked by Stuti Agrawal 1 in Family

2007-04-25 03:11:46 · 2 answers · asked by nabeel k 1 in Singles & Dating

2 weekends ago I went to a club with my current gf
**I've been with the current girl for 8yrs and was with the ex- for 6yrs (yes I was cheating on both and they did find out later on and $hit got messy)

-back to the story-
Come to find out the ex- is at the same club, I really didn’t know she was there until the current gf spotted her out. A few mins later the ex- spots me and the current gf, but the night ends and me nor the ex- speak.

-Here comes the funny part-
Now around 7pm last night I get a knock at my door, not recognizing the person on the other end I didn't open. About 7:10pm i get a call to my house phone it's my ex-, telling me she stop by to say hello (bull$****!)

So we have a 45min conversion about her life and about mine. So as I'm trying to end the call, she has the balls to ask if we could be friends. (For what!??!) As were talking she gets another call and I hang up on her.

-Now my question-
Ladies and gentlemen, why in this world is she calling

2007-04-25 03:01:44 · 1 answers · asked by Pecker.H 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and his two (single) friends are going to florida this weekend for a big birthday bash of one of their friends. I know they'll drink like slobs and there will be drugs and women everywhere. And he asked me if it was okay for him to go, and I said yes, but I really don't want him to go. I mean he's 40 for God sakes, he should have had all this out of his system by now. I really don't want him to go but if I tell him that I'm sure he'll be 1. disappointed and 2. I'll look like an old hag. Damn, I know I'm being silly but I don't want him to go! Tell me something that will make me feel better about this!

2007-04-25 02:59:15 · 25 answers · asked by Nikki B 1 in Marriage & Divorce