I haven't seen nor spoke to my ex-gf in a year and she just called me ... WTF!?

Question

2 weekends ago I went to a club with my current gf
**I've been with the current girl for 8yrs and was with the ex- for 6yrs (yes I was cheating on both and they did find out later on and $hit got messy)

-back to the story-
Come to find out the ex- is at the same club, I really didn’t know she was there until the current gf spotted her out. A few mins later the ex- spots me and the current gf, but the night ends and me nor the ex- speak.

-Here comes the funny part-
Now around 7pm last night I get a knock at my door, not recognizing the person on the other end I didn't open. About 7:10pm i get a call to my house phone it's my ex-, telling me she stop by to say hello (bull$****!)

So we have a 45min conversion about her life and about mine. So as I'm trying to end the call, she has the balls to ask if we could be friends. (For what!??!) As were talking she gets another call and I hang up on her.

-Now my question-
Ladies and gentlemen, why in this world is she calling

What love does she have 4 me if she is posting pic of her new man on myspace and saying how much she loves him.

During our time together she bounce back and forth between me a 4 other guys (leave each guys she was with to come back to me).

Not to mention shes a golddigga, phukin wrecked my car, maxed my credit card, etc...

So again what the phuk does she want from me!?!

Answer 1

Do you think love is something that a person just losses over time? I mean your a cold charater thats for sure because of the respect you showd both these ladies so I can understand if its outside your understanding of emotional ties that bind us. But understand that love is nothing more then a human word use to sum up the WHOLE of all feeling we feel for an entity. So buddy she still loves you, she still feels something for you, so things like this are going to happen. Don't worry it isn't your fault the fact is by definition love is something we create for ourselves. She was still creating expectations, hopes, and maybe even dreams that what she felt with the relationship before you ended it was geniune, congradulation you have done everything you could to help her fool herself into believeing you were worth feeling about.....