Family & Relationships - 25 April 2007

Ok guys, I am going on a trip to Florida to see a girl I havent seen in 10 years!!! I'm from NY. We used to go to High School together. It's awesome. We have been talking on the phone for over 2 months, and it is going real good. We like totally talk about a relationship sometimes, and I am def. attracted to her, and vice versa. So how should I go about it when down there?? I am staying with her at her condo, and we have all these things planned. Im reeeeeeally excited. So any advice?? Ok thanks in advance!!!

2007-04-25 02:56:06 · 14 answers · asked by Tim R 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is very edgy with my daughters, 13 & 16. They can ask something as simple as, "when will dinner be ready", and he jumps down their throat, "It'll be ready when it's ready!" He's this way with me too, but I'm used to men being tacky that way. I don't take up for the girls, but he expects me to get onto them, even if I don't agree with him. There are a lot of times, when no one is being hormonal, that they all get along. The last short trip we took was very pleasant even though he expected to be miserable. He always seems to expects the worst. We will have been married one year June 3rd. The second week of June, we're scheduled to go to Branson, which is where we honeymooned, to his condo for a week. He's decided that he's not going, but insists that I have to take the girls because we promised them. I feel that seperate vacations mean the beginning of the end of the marriage. I would feel guilty to go without him. I'm also scared to travel alone. What should I do?

2007-04-25 02:55:45 · 11 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 02:54:31 · 11 answers · asked by malieta s 1 in Family

they help plants to grow faster as they contain amino..something...

2007-04-25 02:53:52 · 10 answers · asked by Forest Breeze 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 02:51:42 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my gf love each other we just want to spice things up and try new things but we are kinda stuck we are more fomal basic people we need some insite what else we could do to have fun..anything would help us from going places fun in bed to going all out

2007-04-25 02:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by brandon W 2 in Singles & Dating

My Step mom and i got into a big fight about 2 months ago now she will not let my dad be apart of my life he has not called me in 2 months.I miss my dad so much and i dont know what to do. I know he has to respect his wife but i am his daughter and i need him in my life. My dad and i were very close before he married my step mom and very slowly we have moved apart. I feel like i dont even know him anymore. I am a single mom and my daughters father is not involved at all and i cant beleive my father is doing the same thing to us.....it brakes my heart!!! any suggestions?

2007-04-25 02:45:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 02:44:49 · 1 answers · asked by x51466 1 in Friends

anyone tried that???? its tastes yummyyyyyyyyyyy...who cares about people......when they allow their pets to do that...........then they should bear the most intelligent animal...thats us

2007-04-25 02:44:30 · 12 answers · asked by Forest Breeze 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 02:42:18 · 8 answers · asked by witcha_agnes 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He is the person I have always seen myself with. He is kind to my family, wants to come to my familyevents like younger siblings soccer games etc, is there for me if I need to talk. He always pays and is a true gentleman. We have had our ups and downs, but there is only one "problem" we have. About a year into our dating, I caught him looking at porn. We talked about it and he said he wouldnt look cause it made me feel upset. About 6 months after that, I found out again he was looking and he said he didnt really think I was serious when I said it last time. A month ago, I caught him looking again. He swore he would stop on his life and his family's life and our relationship. I found out this past week he had ordered a porn package deal online. I dont even care so much about the porn anymore, but his constant lies when I ask if hes looking or whatever. He has lied to my face about this, can I ever trust him?

2007-04-25 02:39:47 · 8 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

women; so what can i do? i ve kids with him but we live diffrerent countries

2007-04-25 02:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by agatha stevens 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My siblings and I plan to take my mother and grandmother to an elegant italian restaurant. Then surprise my surprise my mom with a new 37 in plasma TV.

2007-04-25 02:32:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im in a office just had big row with boyfriend at lunch time so bad we finished after 4 years.., I need to scream and punch something!! but I cant
what can I do!!!!!!!
ARGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

2007-04-25 02:29:05 · 43 answers · asked by K*G 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a question for currently married or divorced women. I appreciate your responses. Here is the situation: You have 2 men in your life. One is the guy who you are not sure if he can commit to marriage, but you LOVE him so much, you know he is your best friend and maybe soul mate, but sometimes you have doubts if he can commit. But the love and passion is there and you have known him 5 years. He probably will give you stability, but you have doubts. The second is a guy that you dont' have passionate feelings for, or romantic love, but you know he will give you stability in your life and you more or less like him. You have known him for 8 months. Not love, but you get stability with him.

Your heart tells you the guy you really love, your head maybe the guy who will give you stability. Which guy would you choose to marry?

2007-04-25 02:27:59 · 16 answers · asked by robert7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is turning into her mother and I can not take it anymore. I work 40 a week drill once a month and when I fell like having some time to my self away from her and the kids I get the third degree. she thinks for some dumb reason that I go to strip clubs look for some on the side do not pay any attention to her. Mind you that she is a stay home mom we share the house cleaning jobs kids and everything in a relationship. I let he have hertime and space. She has few and I mean very few friends and she gets mad when I fell like seeing mine or talk to the guys about fishing. what the hell is her problem? I need to be me and that aint happening.

2007-04-25 02:25:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We had a problem and he didt cal me for smdays now,n 2day he call to tell me that " the past few days was hell for him without me been there"did he realy love me and meant what he was saying. or did he want to hurt me back for not calling him?Pls talk to me.

2007-04-25 02:22:44 · 10 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

I am supposed to be getting married at the End of July. This is a second marriage. I already have two children. I just found out that I am pregnant a couple of weeks. THat means I will be almost 4 months along by the time of the wedding. I am very slim girl, but in late thirties. I don't know if I will be showing yet or not. Should we just elope now and have a party after the baby is born, or would you go ahead with the wedding and hope that I am not showing. We wanted to include the girls, 6 and 8 in our ceremony to make them feel included in the wedding etc. I don't know what to do!!

2007-04-25 02:18:28 · 11 answers · asked by 22marie22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 02:18:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so i made a bet with my boyfriend. May is national teen pregnancy prevention month so we said that we wouldn't have sex at all during may. below the waist is off limits. If we make it without having sex, then he gets whatever he wants and i get whatever i want. but i dont know what to do during may...what should i do?? we still want to keep things going just no sex...so help me out here please!!??

2007-04-25 02:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i do'nt want my heart to be broken cause i had this crush in him since i was in the 7th grade will he use me for sex.

2007-04-25 02:12:22 · 18 answers · asked by christina b 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends friend is in an abusive relationship with a guy. I dont think it is my buisness to interfear in the matters of others. I mean I dont really know her that well, she comes round my friends a few times and stuff.

I come on here regually and answer questions and seem to have a decent success rate, perhaps I should talk to her about it?

PS: She thinks she is deserving of it because she annoys him? I personally think that is a load. I was told this by my friend in confidence so I am sure this is none of my buisness but it irritates me so

2007-04-25 02:10:28 · 5 answers · asked by ChAtMaN 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a dilemma and I don't know what to do..My really good friend who happens to be 38 (I am 20) told me that he is in love with me..really freaked me out..I mean he has a wife and kids.And like I love talking to him,he is a good friend to talk to and tells it like it is all the time and I can ask anything and he will tell me the truth instead of what he thinks I want to hear.The problem is my boyfriend found out and now he wants me to stop talking to this other guy and I really don't want to..but I also don't want to lose my boyfriend..HELP!!!Don't know what to do...

2007-04-25 02:10:13 · 10 answers · asked by Fluff.. 1 in Singles & Dating

Allow me to elaborate. Having been in 3 past abusive relationships (both mentally and physically) myself, I am no stranger to what and how women feel when they are being abused. But what is the issue with getting away? Why can't these women leave these men? Because they "love" their men? No one that beats you loves you. Now, I am not speaking to those women that like to be beaten (and there are some out there), only the ones that don't and are, or were, being beaten.

Do these women actually feel that they can change their men? Do they really think that these men love them? I understand that beating is a disease, and there are classes for such. What I don't understand is how these women are afraid to leave and be on their own.

I spent 2 years in Boston, MA and while up there, EVERY woman I knew (and I am not exagerating) was being beaten by her significant other. What is the deal? Can someone out there give me some answers?

2007-04-25 02:07:11 · 18 answers · asked by swilson_lewis 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-25 02:02:13 · 22 answers · asked by weirdgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 21 years old. Tall (5'8) I weigh 140lbs. I do not have a perfect body AT ALL but it's not bad. My finance HATES my love handles (as he calls them) but I have long brown hair and blue eyes. I have dimples and I think a perfect smile. (I love my teeth) What do you think??

I do have myspace.....Samantha Garner in Virginia......

let me know.....

I just wonder if I am not getting enough credit from my finance'.......he never compliments me anymore.....

2007-04-25 02:00:11 · 19 answers · asked by Sammy G 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need to know this asap

2007-04-25 01:55:02 · 21 answers · asked by 2sw33t4u 1 in Singles & Dating

Poll - What is the right thing to do in this situation ?
Husband and I have physical custody of stepdaugher, age 9, because her Mother has been deemed insane by the courts. The Mother exhibits her illness with behavior that is violent, aggressive, abusive with language (to all in her path, not just us), unemployable, paranoid, and in the past, she has been physically violent to others. Several of her own family members have permanent restraining orders against her.
Husband insists that we have a first communion party at a local restaurant for Stepdaughter after the service and that Bio-Mother is to be in attendance with us, and Husband and my extended families. At some point in time over the years, she has cussed out every one of them individually or screamed obscenties or worse to them. I have serious doubts any of my family will attend if she is there. should I participate in this?

2007-04-25 01:53:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im jus wonderin how??

2007-04-25 01:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by Billy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-25 01:47:45 · 27 answers · asked by toney 1 in Other - Family & Relationships