I am 21 years old. Tall (5'8) I weigh 140lbs. I do not have a perfect body AT ALL but it's not bad. My finance HATES my love handles (as he calls them) but I have long brown hair and blue eyes. I have dimples and I think a perfect smile. (I love my teeth) What do you think??
I do have myspace.....Samantha Garner in Virginia......
let me know.....
I just wonder if I am not getting enough credit from my finance'.......he never compliments me anymore.....
2007-04-25 02:00:11 · 19 answers · asked by Sammy G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a guy, but I'm a girl with a guy's name! Sounds like your fiance is not showing enough appreciation for you. He should go out of his way to make you feel beautiful. Why don't you take this question up with him.....
2007-04-25 02:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Stan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And he is still your finance? I would think that after a couple of years of marriage, maybe. But, before your married? If you know that it is only going to get worse after your married, why are you still in this relationship? Are you that desperate? I haven't looked at your picture, nor do I need to. What is important, is what you think of yourself. If you think that you are attractive, tell him to go to hell.
Remember, the time that you have a finance' is the time between finding the "right" person and marriage. It is also a time to show each other how much you care for that special person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with. If he treats you like this now, doesn't give you any respect, how do you think this will improve after you are married? Give him a choice. To start to treat you like the lady that you are or find someone else to step on and use for a door mat.
2007-04-25 02:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first problem is that you have a fiance at age 21. The second problem is that your fiance is an ***. Kick him to the curb and work on your personal self esteem. Worry less about what others think and create your own image of how you want to look and srtive to get there.
2007-04-25 02:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are forgetting phisical attractiveness is only one part of the equasion. Single guys for example use a few things.
A) avaliblity - If a chick seems avalible (ie single and avalible looking)
B) Phisical attractivness (ie the features of the female a guy can see)
C) Personality, intelect, so on (anything about how you act, how you speak what you say so on)
I personally hate someone who falls only into a catagory B, I need a girl who has some brains about her. Looks do enter the equasion, you need something to attract to begin but girls overestimate how attractive they need to look constantly [though it seems to be more about their own self-estem])
Think that about covers it
2007-04-25 02:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you pronounced adult men basically, yet i'm gay so as that style of counts. and each so often its not a adult men opinion which you like. nevertheless those adult men do look enormously effective. All adult men are distinctive, merely as all females discover numerous issues captivating. You sound great cool, and being your self is incredibly the proper thank you to be by way of fact this type adult men see you for who you're immediately away.. and in the event that they don't love it then they don't deserve you, yet while they do like it then you certainly have been immediately up with them the full time :D its allll gooood! i would not even problem what human beings think of of you, your as genuine as they arrive. not something to sense embarrassment approximately :)
2016-11-27 19:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound cute, send me a picture and I'll tell you for sure. Your finance sounds like a jerk, you sure you want to marry someone that's already taking you for granted? Here's what you should do, dress up in your sexiest outfit. Tell your finance you have a surprise for him, sit him in a chair and then tie him to it. Do your sexiest strip tease while all he can do is watch, remind him of just how hot you are.
2007-04-25 02:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by pleasetiemetight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Samantha-if he is calling them love handles-you got bigger problems than you care to admit.
he got what he wanted now he from what you said is backing out of your relationshiip-or you can live in denial and wait for his next program to push you away.
when you love someone you respect Jesus their creator and then them in that order-you dont put them down unless your an abuser and user.
You are a princess be the best your worth it. John 3 repented of sin-even one lie and born anew again.
have a great day when you work through this you will come out the best-unless you chose to be there to be abused.
2007-04-25 02:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound fine. More to the point, if your finance is having some problem with you maybe it's time to reevaluate your relationship with him. This WILL NOT get any better when you are married!
2007-04-25 02:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself. What is it u want? Another ready made boyfriend over the net, or the fiancee' that u all ready have. Your a poser asking this.
2007-04-25 02:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by GLENNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are kinda stuck on you and you are just wanting compliments from others because you are evidently not getting them from your fiance. Tell your fiance you need more attention and that you also need more compliments from him.
jeese...
2007-04-25 02:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋