Ok guys, I am going on a trip to Florida to see a girl I havent seen in 10 years!!! I'm from NY. We used to go to High School together. It's awesome. We have been talking on the phone for over 2 months, and it is going real good. We like totally talk about a relationship sometimes, and I am def. attracted to her, and vice versa. So how should I go about it when down there?? I am staying with her at her condo, and we have all these things planned. Im reeeeeeally excited. So any advice?? Ok thanks in advance!!!
2007-04-25 02:56:06 · 14 answers · asked by Tim R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a great time and play it by ear. If it`s supposed to happen, it will!
2007-04-25 03:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by MISTY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow..it sounds like fun. I guess just play it safe and don't make any moves until you have seen some ok signs to do so. Start off by getting her a nice gift from NY, try her favorite store and a gift for her house since you will be staying there too. When you arrive greet her with a hug and a smile. Once you arrive at her place put your bags where ever she tells you. Don't be surprised if she tells you that you will be staying in the guest bedroom. Then in the evening, just be smooth and don't make any assumptions...look out for signs to make sure that it's ok for you to kiss her, etc. Wow..this sounds really exciting...Best of Luck!
2007-04-25 10:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by Princesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am excited for you too! Don't worry, things will go well, just be yourself, one thing good is that she already knows you from way back in High School. Your story is similar to mine, only I knew my guy since him & I were 5 years old. I moved away when I was 14, him and I reunited after 20 years, and are together now for 3 years and plan to get married. . We could not be happier. To know someone from way back then is a plus, you and her can remember things and events that took place. Best of luck to you and have fun!
2007-04-25 10:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think you are very attracted to this girl, but ask yourself - when was the last time you saw her. Things may have changed and she may be a completely different person. Dont rush into things, take stock and slow down. If you still feel the same after a while, tell her, in a mature and not over the top way. cool it. good luck.
2007-04-25 10:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to the idiot on top of the list. I have done this a few times and I just recommend playing it by ear. Don't go down there expecting to get "some." Just be the same person you were over the phone and if it feels right go for it.
Good Luck
2007-04-25 10:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are near impossible. Find out what her intentions are before you leave her condo. If she says just long distance 'friends' then be cool with that, who knows maybe something will happen down the road. She may be testing you to see if you're going to be too restrictive or something with her. Just take it for what it is now, a fun week/end.
2007-04-25 10:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing, no sex.. That is the first thing that messes up a relationship, by having sex too early.. You have talked to her on the phone, but now it's time to get to know her in real time. Spend all the time talking, going places where you can get to know her, but talking and doing things that involves either interaction that you both can enjoy and really get to know each other in person..
2007-04-25 10:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Hummbaba 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool and take it slowly. Don't rush this, especially since you guys live so far apart. Go there expecting friendship and see if anything more blooms. Hope is all well and good, but you need to protect your heart AND hers.
2007-04-25 10:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u really need to do anything..it sounds like everything is working out just fine and i think that when u finally see each other you'll know exactly what to do : )
2007-04-25 10:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just take it slow, dont want to rush into anything. If she wants something to happen, you'll know.
may not be the greatest advice, but thats my opinion.
2007-04-25 09:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by John B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋