i do'nt want my heart to be broken cause i had this crush in him since i was in the 7th grade will he use me for sex.
2007-04-25 02:12:22 · 18 answers · asked by christina b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he submits to you either:
a: He is using you for sex
or
b: He is somehow screwed up because he thinks a relationship with you is appropriate.
Either way it is bad. Don't do it.
2007-04-25 02:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Endroren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can use you for anything, that is a life lesson which you will probably learn the hard way like most people do.
As for your crush using you, it really depends on his personality and morals. How well do you know each other? Does he seem like the kind of guy who would use a young girl for sex?
If I would were you I would keep the crush a secret and mature a little bit more. Within time get to know him and something could always blossum in the future.
For now however, date other guys and just have fun.
2007-04-25 02:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u had a crush on him for that long u have to make a choice.Keep him for your memories as a crush or take a chance, Yes it's possible u could get hurt but that has nothing to do with age. I t's not a good idea to have sex with him at your age someone not only u could get into trouble. I did the same exact thing when I was that age, I took the chance and no good came from it . It is definetly a good idea to wait for a couple of years and kay sara sara. good luck
2007-04-25 02:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by shairon matramony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I concur with most of the other answers. A 29 year old has no business dating, or sexing a 17 year old.
And you at 17 should be with someone closer to your age, have fun. He is practically 30.
2007-04-25 02:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Exhausted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 17 he's 29 him using you for sex most likely will happen. If u expect a relationship outta it who knows. He could be a good guy and things work out all great. Similar to a fairy tale(Yea right) and he could be a regular man and wanna use you cause ur willing and able to give it up
2007-04-25 02:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he any kind of a man he would not, ,, over the years i had a few young ladys to get a crush, on me, but being an knowing it a crush, i ,do my best to let them down easy,, but now into day world, men has change a lot, an honest,., if he useing you for sex, it wrong, ,,,
2007-04-25 02:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you turn 18, you are legally an adult and if you still have a crush and he is single, I see no reason why you can't pursue him. If he's as good as you think he shouldn't use you. You may find out he's not as special as you think. If he's married, leave him alone.
2007-04-25 02:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes. been there done that. His" talk" is good. Stay away from him. In his 29 year old eyes. He sees sex only.
2007-04-25 02:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by It must be said 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To avoid any sexual contact is to avoid going places with him when there's only the two of you.
2007-04-25 02:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mayb ure 2 young for him, all d same one cannot b 2 sure so give it a shot and c the result
2007-04-25 02:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by joddie 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋