2007-04-25 03:57:05 · 25 answers · asked by brianna b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You more than likely grow up to be a normal, well-adjusted woman.
2007-04-25 04:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by spamovision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know what? Good for you! I kind of think, that it is nice to be just you..(I know that this is hard for you to understand...) but, guys are wonderful and guys are big old babies! (I am married..and I still see this! LOL!) Hon, when you are ready,and that other person is ready, you won't be lonely for much longer! WHen you find a great guy friend..and he is a close bud...then you will more than likely just automatically have that type of friendship...but whatever you do..do not push! Or, BE pushy...some guys seem to like it, but, some hate it! and it does scare off "potential" ones...so have a good ear..(because all of the guys that I have known...and I have known many, and still do...) they really want a person who loves to listen to them...or cares enough to.
Be that person, that you are..and be that person who gives a darn about the other one! That is what makes a fantastic friend and also a fantastic girlfriend too!
You won't be alone...forever, or for too long...you can reach out too! It also, is NOT the end of this world if you don't have anybody yet...personally ,savor this time...because when you are older...there is a lot more stress sometimes with relationships! Trust me...I have been thru the wringer, more than once! *grins*!
Don't worry, and just be you,and mellow out!You don't have to have the love of your life, right at this moment in time!
So what if the other girls have a person! Who cares! You have your personality, your intelligence, and whatever else that is goin' for you...and man! You are sooo lucky to be single for now...(I like being in a relationship alot..but, I also love my *freedom* as a human being and as a woman!)
I am with a great person(my hubby) but, there were times when I was in a relationship that was soooo blah! you don't even wanna go there! LOL! DO things for you, now...before you get caught up in the whirlwind of love,and a whole lotta other things too! Don't try to grow up sooo fast! You don't have that childhood for much longer...and I say this because people my age, sometimes, really do miss the times, before we all got married or got so darned serious with our lives!
Please, truly get into enjoying what and who you have around you in your life...b4 you take that deep life plunge into the unknown abyss! okay?
Hope that you understand what I am saying here.....
2007-04-25 11:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means that you will probably have a great future that's all just think of it all of the girls that have/gets involved in a boy friend relationship get pregnant early or either drop out of school in the ninth or tenth grade I'm not saying all of them but I am saying a large number does.Honey you should be patting yourself on the back and praising yourself because you are not going to be in that number of being a mother at a young age,nor will you be one of the ones to quit school too early. The boy friend should come later on in life way after you have finished school and got yourself set up with a good job, nice car, money in the bank by then you will know who you are and what kind of man you want in your life to grow to love and want to marry one day you shouldn't want to have a lot of boy friends it is not safe one or two should be enough.I'm married to my first and only boyfriend and we were both virgins when we met and we dated for two years before we got married we have two wonderful children that are now grown and two great grand kids.were will be married 24 years come July of this year if God blesses us.
2007-04-25 11:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens is you get to be a 12 year old without a boyfriend! This is not fatal! It means you hang with your friends, and do things 12 year olds do! Have fun! Boys are stupid! Don't you get that?
2007-04-25 11:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by deubee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont waste time over foolish stuff and excel in ur studies and can become a strong and confident individual who dosent need a boy frnd!!!
there is no rule tht u must have a bf, love is a gradual thing jus let it happen whenever it has to. Dont look for it, it will find u!!
2007-04-25 11:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by smart_lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal. Grow up. You don't NEED a boyfriend until you are 17-18. Date when you are 16. not exclusively get to know people. Right now study learn hang with your friends be a KID. You got all your life to be tied down and be grown up. Enjoy a simple life.
2007-04-25 11:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by db14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to school and be a kid! Thats very important! You have pleeeeeenty of time for boys!!! Just be young ...do kid things while you can. Before you know it, you'lll be saying 'oh i member those days, what i would do to live one of those days just once!' Seriously! Dont let your young years pass u by too quikly! Its normal to not have a bf at 12!
2007-04-25 11:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING i didnt and now look at me im in a relationship of 1 1/2 months ihave had lot this year but it just takes time wait and you'll be suprised
2007-04-25 11:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You end up being smarter than all the other 12 year olds. It's a proven fact- boys make you dumb.
2007-04-25 11:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by onexmorexgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
12 is still a kid. Just enjoy life. There's plenty of time for boyfriends when you're older.
2007-04-25 11:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋