Today is a discussion, on persona.
Do women really like bad boys, or nice
guys. Bad boys are rebels, hustlers,
and always know who to keep you
on the edge. Which in itself, makes
a woman feel comfortable. Because
he dares, or challenges you, and makes
you see yourself. And the nice guys,
are the sweet, polite, shy ones. The one
who will let you get away with, anything.
And will let ya walk all over him. Cause he
is so nice, where he hurts himself, in the
long run. With your brazen attitude.
But to him, it is so addictive. And he adores
you no matter what. Or does he ?
But yeah, what do you prefer ? The
man with the no holds bar, mentality.
From the streets of Ire, kinda guy. Or
Mr. Nice ? man with the roses in his
hand ? Best answer wins.
2007-04-25
03:16:17
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asked by
Anonymous
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself if you prefer the hot stripper or the pretty conservative girl next door. You will know your answer
2007-04-25 03:21:57
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answered by Anonymous
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The problem with the scenario you just described is that the "nice guy" you just described - "The one
who will let you get away with, anything.
And will let ya walk all over him." sound BORING and like too much work. I'd rather be with a bad boy than a doormat. The bad boy at least has a personality and won't use emotional blackmail to keep me by his side. With the bad boy, I can meet his expectations of me.
Personally, I married a KIND man. He cares for me and he stands by me, but he's not a pushover and he's not a hustler. He challenges me to be better than I ever thought I could be, but he brings me flowers, too. We are equals. I am not on a pedestal, I walk by his side.
Read up on "Nice Guys" here:
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml
It was an education to me, and made soooo much sense.
2007-04-25 03:23:16
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answered by mikah_smiles 7
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Being honest a mix between the two would be the perfect balance - obviously the nice guy would win over the bad guy - and the only thing I would change on your list of the "nice guy" is the fact that he would let me walk all over him.
I need a guy to occassionaly put me back in my box so to speak - so a guy THAT nice would just drive me insane.
I also think depending on what age the woman is has a lot to do with it.
When I was early twenties Id have chosen the bad boy every time because they were challenging and kept me on my toes and were a bit of arm candy - almost to show off to my friends and brag about look what Ive managed to catch.
now - that Im 30 - Id go for the nice guy every time as I dont want the unnecessary hassles of worrying about where or what my man is up to .
xx
2007-04-25 03:23:28
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answered by Anonymous
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I like both. Nice guys because they look after you and give you stuff but also bad boys are much more fun and you don't know what they are going to do next. Nice guys though I get bored of and then I want someone with a bad side but then I find that the bad boy I can't rely on so I like a person that is nice to you but also have a bad side. I think these people are the best
2007-04-25 03:24:20
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answered by *Joy* just keep smilin! 2
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They are initially attracted to the bad boy, the real dumb ones marry them and try to turn them into the nice guy - often a failure. The smarter ones decide the nice guy is the better long term catch.
Only really nice girls (which there are fewer of than nice guys) go straight for the nice guys.
IMHO most women want a mans man - one that tells them whats what. Where they are going, what they are doing etc.. But always comes back to her and never ever cheats on her.
2007-04-25 03:28:18
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answered by Fester Frump 7
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It depends on the woman. Some prefer to have a strong, buff man that is capable of protecting them. It helps them feel secure and safe. Most other women look for traits such as romantic, nice, trustworthy, etc. in a man. They say it's the love that counts and if the guy is nice, but weak, it means a lot if he tries to protect his woman. In my opinion (I'm a guy), more ladies would prefer the nice guy over the macho man. I also think that relationships would last longer with a nice guy, assuming that he can understand his girl's emotions and cheer her up.
2007-04-25 03:21:54
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answered by Anonymous
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For dating and fun, it's the bad boy. When it is time to get serious, it is the nice guy. Best bet is the nice guy with an edge. Maybe he is an attorney during the day, but rides a Harley on the weekends. Maybe he is a pediatrician all week, but plays drums on the weekend. Mostly women want men that are strong and firm,someone that will NOT kiss their ***.
2007-04-25 03:20:21
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answered by Anonymous
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There are also nice girls and nasty girls. Blokes want to marry a nice girl and fantasise about the nasty ones. Perhaps it's the same the other way round.
I married 2 bad boys (not at the same time) and they both turned into pussycats. If you want to keep a lion you can't be a lion tamer. Bad boy, nice boy its all fantasy.
What was the question?
2007-04-25 03:26:43
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answered by Anonymous
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My kinda guy is a guy who's mum has taught them a thing or two about respect for women. I like a man who has made his mark on the world, has an important role somewhere in something. Independant and can do what he wants. Faithful and not moaning at everylittle thing that goes wrong, someone who continues to carry on when the going gets tough. But not a softie, i cant stand shy boys. ITs pathetic.
2007-04-25 03:25:35
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answered by london lady 5
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Bad boys kinda love themselves too much and are the ones who end up cheating on their girlfriends and beating their wives and stuff like that.
Yup, tend to avoid those ones :/
But a nice guy would never do that ^-^
Worst they can do is sulk for a bit, but if they're nice enough then it won't take long to cheer them up
^^
2007-04-25 03:24:53
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answered by Neffy 1
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Bad boys are exciting and nice guys can get boring. What I like is a Nice guy with a little bad boy in them.
2007-04-25 03:24:35
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answered by assunta81 2
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