I am not an arrogant person but certain siuations have made me rather complacent.
Every guy without exeption that i have ever had a crush on or liked has liked me too.
I am a pretty girl and men never seem to say no to me!
When i find out they like me back after it can progress i go off them and find fault with them.
When it comes to crunch i cannot bring myself to do it.
I have NEVER had a boyfriend i am 18
I have eventually rejected them all
I reall like a guy at the moment and i thought i would never have him and now he likes me!
and guess what only now are things starting to bother me about him e.g monobrow
i think i may be scared of intamacy
i dont want to be alone forevrer
please helpo
2007-04-25 01:21:18 · 24 answers · asked by Iris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did that all the time as a teenager. My relationships would last for a month tops before I would go off him. This went on until I was 21 when I met someone I really liked and felt comfortable with. I'm now happily married. Don't worry, it will improve as you get older.
2007-04-25 01:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by Velouria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult one, without knowing your background!!. You may not think your arrogant, but in a way maybe you are. What you crave is the attention from the boys, you want there attention and them to like you. Mentally your playing the numbers game and once you have there attention the challenge has gone. Looks can be an attraction, but the one thing that triggers the heart, feelings & love is the personallity of that person. If you continue to be shallow(as thats what it is classed as) you will become very unpopular amongst your friends & peers. My Advice is learn about personallities and a good start would be to question your own - only then you will be able to deal with what life has to offer.
2007-04-25 02:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by STEVE T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people don't like to be in relationships, or the slightest hint of one, out of fear of being hurt at some point in the future. Like you say, you could be scared of intimacy, from the way you specifically pin-pointed the "monobrow" at the first sign of a possible relationship with you both.
Still, you are only 18, and there isn't any rush to find any boyfriend or husband, those are things set on people by society. Embrace being alone if you want, and think about it later, after you have lived your youth fully and without incident.
2007-04-25 01:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may be premature, but you may suffer from a neurosis whereby you don't want any man who wants you. Perhaps you are waiting for a man who is not interested in you. That will hurt. Then you'll be less harsh on the ones that do like you.
Of course, the guys you have been interested in so far could be of a low standard. You may not have found yourself yet, and are directing your attention and the wrong guys. Sometimes women go for "jock" types when they would be much happier with a nerd.
2007-04-25 01:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by gonkert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for your for the perfect guy. Nothing wrong with high standards, but impossible ones.
Not all relationship have to end up being intimate ones. I think you are looking for your first relationship to be your last and thats why you can not commit to a date.
It is a cliche but you will probably need to kiss some frogs before you meet your prince.
Don't make a decision before the first date. Accept the next date.
2007-04-25 01:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by no_frills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your emotional baggae at the door on your way out ... Make a positive effort to enjoy life and the men that may come your way ... like the saying goes, "You'll kiss a lot of frogs before you find a Prince"
Other than that, get some therapy!
2007-04-25 04:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 14:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by ricaurte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to stress over this, you're going to end up in therapy for years. just let nature run its course. Do not settle on someone who isn't right, just because you think you "need" to have a boyfriend. When the right guy comes along, you'll know.
2007-04-25 01:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by K B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you find fault with men because you are affraid of commitment. It's a way of getting out of being intimate with another person. Unfortunately everyone has their imperfections. Especially us men.
2007-04-25 01:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Louis Junior. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do sound rather full of yourself hun. Get off that pedestal and chill out. Stop being so critical and you might finally start to enjoy life.
2007-04-25 02:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋