What should I do?I am so depressed?

Question

Yesterday at school this boy who hates me threw paper at me because one of the popular girls hate me and I went in the hallway and started to cry and 1 of the boys went in and told everyone I was crying and i've missed too many days of school due to being bullied and made fun of I went to the principal but they dont do much What should I do?And the popular girl wants to fight me 4 nothing that concerns them again

Answer 1

I agree, tell your parents and ask for their advise. At the same time, you can't hide dear. Never show them the satisfaction that they have affected you, hurt and harmed you in any way. You know why their doing that? Their simply jealous, envy. ( Unless you did something to them, did you?)
Who cares what they think, trust me, I've been through that sort of thing, 2 times. But I didn't cry, I didn't hide, cuz I know who I am, and I stood my ground, i don't care what they do or say about me, I don't care how much they provoke me, I won't give them any satisfaction that they have affected me, unless they insult my family, now that's going way too far, i mean like, fine you can insult me, and do all sorts of hideous to me, but if you include my family, your going way too far, you wanna fight bring it on! I'll make you wish you never said that! . It wasn't easy, it was pretty damn hard, but in the end, it all worked out. Man! That annoys me so much! If I was there, and that "popular girl" did bad things to me, I'd give her a piece of my mind! She wants to fight for no reason, she's stupid. Don't mind them, and those people, just ignore them.
I know that's hard to, but leave them alone, they have absolutely no respect. And they have no right at all to harm you or do those very bad things to you. It reflects upon their parents, you can see they have issues, and the way the parents raised them, and look theres the result. They could be going through a hard time to, they shouldn't be hated, but pitied. Be strong girl. And pray. Ask God for the strength to carry on, ask for hope when there seems to be none, ask for faith when it might be gone. God is always beside you. Don't give up.

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Answer 2

There has to be at least one teacher whom you feel you can talk to. Even someone from a past grade. Ask if you can talk to her or him and then explain this. I'm assuming that your school doesn't have school counselors if you are always going to the principal. I hope your parents are aware of this, too.
Teachers these days are often told about bullying problems and how to deal with them in school. If they are not doing much, you just have to keep after them. They may do something that they think helps and not know that the problem is continuing. Keep at it!
Try not to cry (I know it's hard not to) only because it makes the bully feel powerful.
This popular girl who wants to fight you - what an idiot she must be!
Good luck with it. Parents, teachers; if absolutely nothing is done, go to the minister of your church. He could help you think of a next step - perhaps with his help and your parents', you could file a complaint with the school board for inaction dealing with this problem.

Answer 3

Sometimes parents can't or won't help, and sometimes there is a point in time we have to help ourselves, even at a younger age. If you are being bullied, it is because you are allowing it. One of the answerers said it will make you stronger, and that person is right; you've got lots of good answers here. But let me say that you will probably have it worse if your parents get involved at this age.

So the silly boy threw paper to make a silly girl giggle. They're being silly, honey. Tell yourself that. I don't know why the popular girl wants to fight you, but let me tell you this: if she calls you out in public, asks you if you said or did this or that, and you did, then you just stand there and say, I sure did say that. (This happened to me one time in high school.) She will either hit you or she will back down! (Mine backed down after saying she had no problem with me, but with my friend.) All she can do is hit you or say stupid words that are meaningless. And what YOU can do is just be honest, strong, and resilient. BOUNCE BACK. Smile more. Stand up straight. Do things that interest you and FORGET about STUPIDLY BEHAVED people.

There is more, but I think this will suffice.

Answer 4

I used to be you. It wasn't until I got to be much older that I recognized that people who bully have no self esteem whatsoever. The only way they can feel good about themselves is by hurting other people. I've actually come to feel sorry for people like that.

Try this: Don't be their victim. You are a powerful person who has every right to walk this earth with your head held high. Look them straight in the eye and tell them you know who they are. When they smirk and laugh continue to stare them down. When they say mean things, just smile and walk away. People like them are initimidated by quiet confidence. Don't cry. You don't have any reason to cry. They are not better than you. And they know it! Don't say anything mean back to them. In fact, don't say anything at all. Just smile.

Stare them straight in the eye. That will intimidate them enough. Once they see you're no longer affected by their bullying, they'll start to leave you alone. They do what they do because they get a reaction from you. Don't react. Take their power away from them by not reacting.

If their bullying becomes physical, report them to the police. File assault and battery charges. Your parents and school officials will get involved then. But if their bullying is verbal, try what I suggested above. The key is consistancy. You have to be consistant because they'll try to wear you down. But show them you are no longer willing to be their victim and they'll eventually leave you alone. You can do this and when you master it, your whole life will change for the better.

Answer 5

Please let someone know about this. Don't let this get out of hand. Go to a guidance counselor or a school resource officer. Also, remember after high school you will probably never see those people again. Right now, being popular seems important, but you will realize later it was not so important. I never see the people I went to school with, and I haven't left the town either. Be confident in your self!

Answer 6

I think you have a great future ahead of you and this time of trial will make you a better person. There are a lot famous people who went through being bullied! Try to avoid the people who are picking on you until you can talk to your pastor and definitly pray about it!

Answer 7

first of all I am so sorry that its happening do you have a councilor at school? and it will be hard but to concur these people is not to show it hurts that is why they are doing this they are getting a thrill out of your pain don't let them win because it is never good make some friends and forget them they are being rude

Answer 8

get your mom or dad to go to the principal... this is unacceptable!

Answer 9

cry a bit more