What's the least risky way to have sex in public?

Question

My partner and I want to have sex in a public place, most likely a grassy or wooded area, doesn't have to be a park or anything.. we're looking for a place to have fun during the night but we're nervous about getting caught by the cops. Has anyone out there had sex in a park or anything at night? How did it go, and did you get caught? Also, I'm not talking about parking somewhere and getting down in the car-- I mean like, rolling around on the grass .. any suggestions or advice?

Oh, for those of you saying "part of wanting to have sex is the possibility of getting caught".. actually, we both love nature and being outside and want to be intimate with each other under the moonlight with nature all around us.. it isn't really a "wanting to get caught" thing.. :)

Answer 1

If you're going to do it in a park, make sure it's a very large park in a very remote place. My wife & I did it in the badlands and in the woods near Lake Tahoe. The thing is, you're always going to face some risks when you are in any park... especially a small park.

If a large park isn't an option, then your best bet would be to do it in the shadows in a low-lying area.

Answer 2

I think one problem is that kids might not do sexual intercourse because they consider that to be sex, but instead tend to anal and/oral. What they don't realize is that these can also lead to STDs. Anal especially because of the mode of transmission. This is rare but I remember reading some where that it is possible to get pregnant even having anal sex. This is because the ejaculation could go the wrong way. I think a lot of people put emphasis on abstinence for penis vaginal intercourse because it can cause pregnancy and STDs. Of course one problem is that if you tell people to wait until they are married to have sex, they will end up trying to rush into marriage. A lot of times when two people are monogamous and they have taken and std test and are negative they feel as though they don't have to use condoms. You will also have the ones that feel that if the female is on birth control, why should the man have to wear a condom. The problem with this is that sometimes birth control does not work. I know two people in this scenario. A lot of times it can because the person is on an antibiotic, and those can knock out the effects of the birth control. You might have the ones that forgot to take it, and for some reason don't tell the guy. Then you have the ones that didn't take it and new they didn't but didn't tell the guy. If people are going to have sex, girls need to understand their cycle and know when they are most likely to get pregnant. If you are going to have sex with various men definitely have them wear a condom. In fact if you can be on birth control yourself, that would be great. Also have the guy wear a condom, but don't allow him to *** inside of you wearing a condom. Make him pull out with the condom on and then come outside of your body away from your vagina/butt. I think the problem is that sexual abstinence education is taught in schools to prevent unwanted pregnancies because it looks bad on society and people don't want to have to help unwed mothers who take advantage of the system. However sexual abstinence education taught in church is to try and steer teens away from having sex, because it looks bad in gods eyes and a girls body is temple, etc. So you would have to ask people what makes them be absinent to sex. The problem is that people take the media as being to real and they don't understand what is real or not. So, there is a blurred image. I think a lot of people want to remain virgins but either they are pressured by other people or the mate they are with at the time.

Answer 3

Playing fields are normally a good place. There is always dark spots there. Just park the car down the road and go for a nice stroll together. Cops will only go into parking lots. They will not go walking all over the field. Go for it. Sex in public is a great thing to do.

Answer 4

I (we) didnt get caught. It was at night in what appeared to be a dark area at a park, on the grass with a jean dress that opened down the front...... but when the cars drove by, it wasnt so dark. Ooops LOL. We even did it on a bike trail and it wasnt even completly dark yet. Just wear a skirt. You'll be fine! I think people only get caught in the movies.

Answer 5

If you don't want police involved then stick to private property. If they see your car parked near public grounds after dusk they'll come looking for you. I suggest you go somewhere during the day actually. Go for a long hike at a state forrest and go for it. That's more about doing it outdoors though, public means with people in fairly close proximity (my favorite was a museum exhibit - the sex was actually just so-so but it made for a good story).

Answer 6

I once had sex in the water with my girlfriend at a very busy tourist bay. To make it more exciting her little brothers were swimming next to us, and we were about 50 metres from the jetty. It was in the middle of the day! Unreal! If you want to have sex in public without getting caught, just let me know where and I'll keep a lookout for you while you go for it! Just to make sure you don't get caught, I might bring a few of my mates to help watch... er look out for people!!!!

Cheers

Bronco

Answer 7

we did it at the woods near his house. we walked there. it was so far away from the noise despite being smack in the middle of the city. no mosquitos. it would have been better if we were having a better day, but it was nice being out there at night with all the trees and nightsky above us.

if you don't mind the ground, go ahead, but we were standing.

also, we did it once in a campground place (in the campgrounds property but not in the camping area). it was in the middle of an empty street far away from everyone else. i think we were standing then, too.

and another time we did it after watching the sunrise. we were under a pier, and standing again.

i did it with my ex on a beach also located on campground property. we were kneeling.

never got caught.

Answer 8

well this is a hard one because there is always that 50-50 chance of getting caught. My advice is to go to an area like say a park or so, but make sure there is a steep hill. That way you can't get noticed as easily by one way...and also make sure it isn't surrounded by a busy street!!!!!

Answer 9

On the beach, take my advice for best results take a large blanket. Or you could go to a park that has tables or you could just go for it in the middle of your local sporting field. have fun with it . good luck

Answer 10

yeah I got caught once on the beach but not by cops, by people
It's all about taking the risk, or else why would you want to do it in a public space...